Women can sense desperation. Stop everything you’re doing. Like now. Stop it! Hopefully u have some female friends who respect u. Take them with u to the bars u like to frequent. Let folks see u there with these female friends. Build rapport with the bartenders. Overtime you’ll snag a chick who’s impressed by clout….since it appears you don’t have the looks. Not a dig at u. But there’s no magic words u can say that’ll make a chick who wasn’t attracted to u to all of a sudden change her mind.Trust I’m always fresh when I go out, groomed well, nails cut, cologne on, tailored clothes etc.
I usually walk through at my own pace, standing up tall, checking things out.
But damn if a nightclub ain’t the hardest venue for me to talk in. I don’t have a super powerful voice so I usually tap em on the shoulder if they’re standing at the bar. But then they either can’t hear me or we’re yelling at each other over the music. Shyt fizzles out real fast.
And if they’re dancing it’s even worse. 9/10 I’m getting straight ignored. I’ve even had it where the entire group dips in unison like a school of fish with that hand holding thing they do
What’s your tips on a strong opener? I’m tryna stop em dead in the tracks. How do you get their attention and make em pay attention to you?
I usually say “that’s a nice outfit” or something along the lines of “happy Friday, what are you getting into tn”
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NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
I feel like women in the west coast and the south tend to be more relaxed and receptive. The southern charm makes em easier to talk too.
Here in the east coast, we got baddies but some of them tend to have a "chip on the shoulder" mentality.
Here in the east coast, we got baddies but some of them tend to have a "chip on the shoulder" mentality.
Trust I’m always fresh when I go out, groomed well, nails cut, cologne on, tailored clothes etc.
I usually walk through at my own pace, standing up tall, checking things out.
But damn if a nightclub ain’t the hardest venue for me to talk in. I don’t have a super powerful voice so I usually tap em on the shoulder if they’re standing at the bar. But then they either can’t hear me or we’re yelling at each other over the music. Shyt fizzles out real fast.
And if they’re dancing it’s even worse. 9/10 I’m getting straight ignored. I’ve even had it where the entire group dips in unison like a school of fish with that hand holding thing they do
What’s your tips on a strong opener? I’m tryna stop em dead in the tracks. How do you get their attention and make em pay attention to you?
I usually say “that’s a nice outfit” or something along the lines of “happy Friday, what are you getting into tn”
I’m not sure where you are but I’m finding in the metropolitan cities in nightclubs, if you got a booth with multiple bottles designer and jewellery down and are constantly seen them you’re ahead of the game.
Again, that depends on your city (Miami, NYC, Toronto) and the type of club
now I’m sure in a older club setting or one that’s all white folks it don’t really matter. But I wholeheartedly believe IG ruined it with followers and people showing how much bottles they’re popping
doesn’t mean you have to go that route. There are still girls out there who get impressed by a handsome guy who can talk
King
The black man is always targeted.
I think I'm handsome. Don't wear too much jewelry tho bc I'm not trying to be a lick since I roll solo. Just a small gold bracelet. And I fukking hate bars/clubs from a business standpoint and would never support em financially. A cover charge is all they get outta me.
But it's a struggle to talk in that environment tho, shyt even outside the club is a struggle but it's way easier than inside. Girls are usually focused on walking, coordinating shyt, facetiming, etc. They look at me and group me in with those drunk mfers on the street catcalling and tryna holla.
I'm tryna work on my mouthpiece. These women have high standards, can't come at em with weak shyt they sense it on me like sharks in bloody water.
bill riser
Pro
Mmm maybe. but i have a different perspective on it. I think women just play dumb and expect men to play along with them.
There was something that jason black said in one of his recent broadcasts. it went something like, women play dumb when they want men to do something for them but then become rhode scholars when it comes to divorce, alimony, child support, shifting blame or justify immoral behaviour.
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Trust I’m always fresh when I go out, groomed well, nails cut, cologne on, tailored clothes etc.
I usually walk through at my own pace, standing up tall, checking things out.
But damn if a nightclub ain’t the hardest venue for me to talk in. I don’t have a super powerful voice so I usually tap em on the shoulder if they’re standing at the bar. But then they either can’t hear me or we’re yelling at each other over the music. Shyt fizzles out real fast.
And if they’re dancing it’s even worse. 9/10 I’m getting straight ignored. I’ve even had it where the entire group dips in unison like a school of fish with that hand holding thing they do
What’s your tips on a strong opener? I’m tryna stop em dead in the tracks. How do you get their attention and make em pay attention to you?
I usually say “that’s a nice outfit” or something along the lines of “happy Friday, what are you getting into tn”
Trust I’m always fresh when I go out, groomed well, nails cut, cologne on, tailored clothes etc.
I usually walk through at my own pace, standing up tall, checking things out.
But damn if a nightclub ain’t the hardest venue for me to talk in. I don’t have a super powerful voice so I usually tap em on the shoulder if they’re standing at the bar. But then they either can’t hear me or we’re yelling at each other over the music. Shyt fizzles out real fast.
And if they’re dancing it’s even worse. 9/10 I’m getting straight ignored. I’ve even had it where the entire group dips in unison like a school of fish with that hand holding thing they do
What’s your tips on a strong opener? I’m tryna stop em dead in the tracks. How do you get their attention and make em pay attention to you?
I usually say “that’s a nice outfit” or something along the lines of “happy Friday, what are you getting into tn”
You gotta be like you look fukkING sexy and ask if they model or some shyt...it has to be something that "captures" their attention...
And stay in the Current moment..if you sense they are bored, say it and try to build off it...
Nightclub stuff is brutal but it forces you to open your mouth and speak....
King
The black man is always targeted.
Damn that seems fake as hell ngl, hopefully they don’t see right through it
Imma be walking up to 6’s all night screaming “YOU FINE AS HELL, DO YOU MODEL??”
Maybe it works on them non-dimes better cause the real dimes prolly get asked that all the time
Fukk it, imma try it out tho see how it works
Imma see if I can transition that into me saying “let me get a better look at you over here by the bar, grab my hand”
Block her and KIM it will hurt for a bit but she's looking to crash and burn. Don't be in the car when she does.
You leaking chats bruh
Unless it was some life altering shyt she was about to pull, that's a no bueno...
You gotta take whatever L you had coming...
Damn that seems fake as hell ngl, hopefully they don’t see right through it
Imma be walking up to 6’s all night screaming “YOU FINE AS HELL, DO YOU MODEL??”
Maybe it works on them non-dimes better cause the real dimes prolly get asked that all the time
Fukk it, imma try it out tho see how it works
Imma see if I can transition that into me saying “let me get a better look at you over here by the bar, grab my hand”
It's the way you say it and how you look when you do...
Sometimes you gotta be an actor lol
Rell Lauren
Banned
Everything is going well in the chat. We're joking, talking about each other's interests. Conversation just flowing. She asks me what am I looking for, so I keep it real with her. I told her I'm looking to meet new people, develop some chemistry and if we enjoy each other's company, we can get serious. She must have wanted to hear me say I'm looking for a relationship off the bat, because after I told her my goal on the platform, she says oh and unmatches. I try not to wrap my head around how women think but it's admittedly frustrating at times.
Honestly doesn't sound unreasonable. Sounds like she was on a different page than you and decided not to waste her time or yours
Doesn't mean you are wrong but if she knows she wants something else from the start then that's the game.
Yeah also @Rell Lauren probably better for you since if you're not on the same page you're not usually compatible.Honestly doesn't sound unreasonable. Sounds like she was on a different page than you and decided not to waste her time or yours
Doesn't mean you are wrong but if she knows she wants something else from the start then that's the game.
OmegaK2099
Gettin' It In
I was pissed and I was high, you can't unsend on TwitterYou leaking chats bruh
Unless it was some life altering shyt she was about to pull, that's a no bueno...
You gotta take whatever L you had coming...