Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

I spent it on the first date she chose the place. She said though that “I could be the One. “I saw already I really don’t want to mess with her too much.

Why are you trying to date chicks from a sugar baby website?

For why

 

[The Radiant One]

Why are you trying to date chicks from a sugar baby website?

For why

They have meetings on seeking you see a lot of women who want to date since men there are successful but I’m not seriously dating them just casual stuff.

 

[The ADD]

They have meetings on seeking you see a lot of women who want to date since men there are successful but I’m not seriously dating them just casual stuff.

Yeah but you are spending money on chicks who are just stringing you along for assets and you aren’t getting sex. Where is the win here breh?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I spent it on the first date she chose the place. She said though that “I could be the One. “I saw already I really don’t want to mess with her too much.

You gots to be trolling.
She chose the place and you still paid

 

[semicko82]

I spent it on the first date she chose the place. She said though that “I could be the One. “I saw already I really don’t want to mess with her too much.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Random brief interactions throw me off big time. I'll have some random chick stop me and say something at some random place, while I'm in a rush. And I don't have enough time to figure out if I want their number. And by the time I figure it out the situation has long past. I'm also not even sure if the girl is hitting on me or being genuine.

Example: was getting off the elevator to the parking deck of the hospital after leaving doctors appointment. I had been talking to this elderly couple. I get off the elevator and immediately catch eyes with this young chick. I say by to the couple and walk past the girl. As I'm walking toward the cars she calls out to me and asks if I knew anything about the hospital, because she needed to find a lab to have blood drawn. I stop and give her directions and have to repeat myself a few times. When I got in my car afterwards it hit me that maybe she was hitting on me. It was weird how she stopped me like that after we caught eyes and wanted to ask a stranger how to get somewhere. And then I felt bad that the situation was uncomfortable to where I wouldn't have asked for her number that quickly in such random circumstances.

Anyone else have this issue? What do you do to fix that?

I know what you mean breh. You dont wanna be on some hurry up and "btw uhhh whats your number so we can link up" and the energy feel awkward.

Maybe she genuinely needed to know and wanted to ask the first attractive breh she saw, just to make an interaction. (I know if i saw some ugly brehettes and an attractive brehette and had a question, im going to the attractive one )

Or maybe she really wantes to know instead of having to go to the desk and ask.

You never know


Depending on what im in a rush for, if it was me, i woulda told her that ill show her and got back on the elevator and chopped it up

 

[The ADD]

Random brief interactions throw me off big time. I'll have some random chick stop me and say something at some random place, while I'm in a rush. And I don't have enough time to figure out if I want their number. And by the time I figure it out the situation has long past. I'm also not even sure if the girl is hitting on me or being genuine.

Example: was getting off the elevator to the parking deck of the hospital after leaving doctors appointment. I had been talking to this elderly couple. I get off the elevator and immediately catch eyes with this young chick. I say by to the couple and walk past the girl. As I'm walking toward the cars she calls out to me and asks if I knew anything about the hospital, because she needed to find a lab to have blood drawn. I stop and give her directions and have to repeat myself a few times. When I got in my car afterwards it hit me that maybe she was hitting on me. It was weird how she stopped me like that after we caught eyes and wanted to ask a stranger how to get somewhere. And then I felt bad that the situation was uncomfortable to where I wouldn't have asked for her number that quickly in such random circumstances.

Anyone else have this issue? What do you do to fix that?

Fix it……..

• Have enough females in your mix that it doesn’t matter
• Always pull up for three once they engage you

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

I know what you mean breh. You dont wanna be on some hurry up and "btw uhhh whats your number so we can link up" and the energy feel awkward.

Maybe she genuinely needed to know and wanted to ask the first attractive breh she saw, just to make an interaction. (I know if i saw some ugly brehettes and an attractive brehette and had a question, im going to the attractive one )

Or maybe she really wantes to know instead of having to go to the desk and ask.

You never know


Depending on what im in a rush for, if it was me, i woulda told her that ill show her and got back on the elevator and chopped it up

Great point about showing her myself. And what is weird is if I was genuinely looking for directions, I'd wait until I was actually in the building to ask someone. I don't know, it just felt like she was hitting on me. Guess I have to make more time during those moments.

 

[Babymama Magnet]

1. She would’ve planned ahead and told you before and who she’s going with.

2. If it’s her friends b day party she would’ve went with people and most likely would’ve went earlier in the night. Never later that’s moreso of a disrespectful move to roll late solo unless you had a date with someone earlier.

3. If that were really the case she would’ve brought you. Rarely are 30 year old friend birthday parties “girl only” the friends almost ALWAYS brings their significant other. Unless it’s a bachelorette party. She would have at least offered to bring you if things weren’t suspect.

4. She could be getting dikked down ferociously by some random nikka and coming home pretending to be tired and not fukk you.

5. A good litmus test if you’re not bold enough to really investigate is to wait until she comes back. If she doesn’t want to fukk and is immediately tired, goes to bed, she got dikked down. Girls parties usually involve a lot of drinking - so she’ll be way hornier than usual.

6. Trust your gut. Don’t let weird feelings turn into hard ones.

She told me last week she was heading out to this B Day so i been known

Anyway she told me she decided to not to go out for her friends B Day. This was after i let her know that she could holla at me later that night when she leaves as i was close by.

She hit me with that "I fell alseep" playbook when she texted me back 9 hours after i had told her that.

I don't have a gut feeling that she's messing on the side but i've already seen this situation play out before.

One thing i do know is that she didn't wanna see me that day.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Great point about showing her myself. And what is weird is if I was genuinely looking for directions, I'd wait until I was actually in the building to ask someone. I don't know, it just felt like she was hitting on me. Guess I have to make more time during those moments.

I mean you was getting off the elevator. Why go to the first floor and ask a desk person when you can go directly to the 3rd floor? (If it was on the 3rd).

You did say yall locked eyes so maybe she was choosing.
People don't lock eyes with unattractive people.


I bet you didnt lock eyes with the elderly woman

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

She told me last week she was heading out to this B Day so i been known

Anyway she told me she decided to not to go out for her friends B Day. This was after i let her know that she could holla at me later that night when she leaves as i was close by.

She hit me with that "I fell alseep" playbook when she texted me back 9 hours after i had told her that.

I don't have a gut feeling that she's messing on the side but i've already seen this situation play out before.

One thing i do know is that she didn't wanna see me that day.

Yall gone learn brehs

 

[The Radiant One]

Yeah but you are spending money on chicks who are just stringing you along for assets and you aren’t getting sex. Where is the win here breh?

This is true. I really just wanted to smash. Next time I will only do a video chat if a girl wants to meet off this website.

 

[J Money]

Posting this here to vent cause I don’t know where else to..basically 8 year relationship all but over with someone I wanted to be with forever ignored the signs for 6 months and now we got 6 more months on this lease together and she already gone emotionally, cold winter incoming.

1. Biggest red flag that I let slide: following everything opening up after the pandemic - she starts hanging out with new friends who are all single, previously her friends were all in relationships, started off they were just going to get coffee and shyt but then..

2. Starts wanting to go out with them every Friday night, acting like it’s a girls only night but now it’s going to clubs with just them.
3. I find out other guys from their jobs are out at these outings, especially on nights where I’m busy at work or don’t have an option to go..oh forgot all these girls bi too

4. Girlfriend discovers after 8 years that she bi too, when I’m with her and her friends they all talking about how hot both girls and guys they are are now.
5. She starts saying she’s either too broke or too busy to to do stuff with me but got money for drinks and ubers when out with her new girlfriends, and went on two vacations this year with her cousins.
6. Her gay friend from work always talking to her about how hot their coworkers are.
7. When we hang out with my friends or alone she goes out of her way to act like a different person emotionally detached .
8. Spending 2+ hours in bathroom every night when that’s talking/intimate time in the past. Then when I try to initiate she says I only do when she’s half asleep, cold ass plan by her not gonna lie

Just the tip of iceberg. This a girl where we just got a dog together this year, been living together for years, and were having serious plans with buying a house/marriage in the very near future and it’s about to be thrown all away.

Swear I’m a goddamn idiot not seeing the early signs with the new friends and letting shyt spiral, I thought we had an understanding with each other but she just confiding in her friends now and I’m cut out emotionally, she still come home acting like it’s all alright I’m sure to ride it out til the lease is over.

If anyone reads this novel and are dumb like me, don’t be and fix shyt as soon as there’s a potential problem. Once she’s gone she’s gone

Any update?

 

[Turk]

I swear chicks just be lying for no reason. This chick ghosted me from yesterday until this morning & then gon hit me with a weak ass "I got vaccinated and I wasn't feeling good" excuse like I didn't see her posting pics and videos on her social media statuses all throughout yesterday

Instead of just owning up to it or apologizing and saying my bad you wanna lie. This ain't the first time either. But anyway I'mma just stop talking to her. shyt like that be blowing tf out of me

 

[VertigoKnight]

I spent it on the first date she chose the place. She said though that “I could be the One. “I saw already I really don’t want to mess with her too much.

Breh you gotta know you hustling backwards here. And I swear this ain't the first time I've seen you in this thread getting taken for a ride by a chick.

• $150 on a first date with a chick you haven't met yet. Letting her pick the location.
• Letting her withhold herself sexually.
• Telling you, she expects flowers as if you and her have it like that.
• The audacity of telling you she had a 'hot girl summer' but is now serious aka time to find a good guy until next spring.

Even if your main target was to just smash. A coffee date will determine that chemistry.

We off spending that kind of money on a first date.