Soft minded fools will call yoga class gay, but where else can you be surrounded by beautiful women (prob as the only guy in there) and get a health benefit at the same time?!
I wish you cats stop getting emotional when I don't agree with yall. Its not like you made the fukking quote up anyway ready to goto the death cause I don't like it and explained why. You can't see how crazy that is. I didn't try to clown you or add any extras like you using my "no offense" cause your upset I don't agree with people using the comment in the context they normally use it in. Its sad that people can't disagree with some of yall and it can be a normal back and forth without petty girl type shyt. Show me where I tried to play you and I'll gladly apologize but I swore damn near my whole post was about that quote and why I don't like it. Nothing more nothing less and I truly don't like the quote and how people use it and have said so to people offline so I see it online I'm going to say the same thing.
I do like the "club scene" when I go. I really wish you dudes would take things as a discussion with difference of opinions instead of I'm comming at yalls manhood. I always get that vibe and I try to explain things so your emotion meters don't go off but I've come to the conclusion thats what its going to be everytime I disagree it seems. I'll say it once and I'll continue to say it I have no beef with nobody if I disagree I'll speak on it just like if I'm feeling it I'll give props.Dude come on, socially awkward people likewise couldn't flourish in the other activities I mentioned. FYI, I have fun and meet people (including casual dating on occasions) all the time from the places I go to and have no problem doing so. You like the club scene, I don't. That's it. If I don't like to hang around certain crowds/venues, then that's my business. Maybe age has something to do with it, but it doesn't interest me as much as it did years ago.
Ok I mispoke on one part my bad but clearly I don't know you to make assumptions or even care outside of our discussion. Again my bad on putting that "you" I should have typed more clearly and just took the "you" out of my comment cause the rest is true oftentimes. shyt alot of this thread is based in that just its about women not dudes doing it. I don't go looking for love anywhere actually I just do me period and believe me as much as I talk shyt about those that do it to themselves and complain about it fukk I look like complaining? NEVER will I do that cause I know I control damn near everything that happens so I have no one to blame but myself for just about everything.
I don't have a problem with you disagreeing with anything I say at all. Fundamentally we agree on the same principles anyway, I just surmise that you have a different tolerance level than I do when it comes to being in certain environments. I was only highlighting the fact that what you were saying about "socially awkward" people who "don't get play and blame everyone else" doesn't apply to me as it seemed like your comments were underhanded.I'm speaking in generalites not just posters in this thread but people period. Just like you I talk to people offline and some of the same stuff comes up and I'm just not with the getting yourself into certain situations that you know the outcome is a certain way then complaining when things turn out that way. The same way some of us clown single mothers for their bad decisions is how I clown guys (myself too if need be) for making similar silly mistakes. Forget this coddling stuff thats why cats keep making the same mistakes imo. I'm glad you have found other places thats whats up I just never get how people in the same situation/environment can act like they are so above it thats all (regarding when you were at the club trying to get girls even if just to fukk) Like I said before no beef just discussion.
Bold = the reason I get upset at times in this thread. I didn't come at you and if you would have read my first post not out of anger you would have saw that. I said "I don't know you", "hope your not one of those types(something like that)" so just from these alone I don't know how you could feel I'm trying to sneak diss you or something. Its the net if I wanted to come at you I would. Its not like we can harm each other or something like that. I just said I've ran into people like that and hope your not one and if I didn't show me where I didn't try to imply that I will gladly clear it up or apologize if its completely wrong. I have no problem doing that at all.
I don't blame dudes who say they're not into chicks who always go to clubs because I feel the same way. I've never been into those chicks, ever.
This kind of f*ckery that led to a murder happened just a few days ago in LA as a result of club bullshyt:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRZgtN7Hhtc
The things I'm into for social activity are wine/jazz bars, poetry nights, salsa, art galleries, libraries, museums, heck even family gatherings.
I'm not even in to the club scene anyhow, too many posers, chicks looking for attention wearing next to nothing in freezing temperatures or just simply acting like they're too good for 99% of the world's population, dudes with a point to prove leaning up against the wall mean mugging like a bunch of lames, over zealous bouncers who act like they're guarding Prince Charles and just a lot of general b.s. that I can't generally stand.
Sorry, but I just expect a much higher standard from women and unless you're defending yourself against danger or protecting a loved one, you got no reason to be brawling in the street like some savage dude. I'm pretty sure those chicks in the video I posted who started off the whole thing in the first place from what I've read weren't exactly fighting because of a disagreement over the state of the economy. You rarely, if ever see that kind of f*ckery in the other places I listed because they attract a certain demographic/clientele who nine times out of ten, doesn't include ratched folk.
Of course like someone mentioned, occasionally somebody might be dragged out to a club for a special occasion. I've personally declined a number of invitations and when I have gone to the club, I leave before closing time because the atmosphere is always predictable and the same in most cases.
Any chick I meet will have to share the same interests or it's a no go.
