Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I've experimented with more thoughtful openers (using clues from their profile to comment or joke) and I've experimented with the supposedly dreaded "hey" or "hey what's up" the latter gets me much less polarized results. Women say they want you to be original but the reality is unless you nail it with the right chic it comes off as try hard at best and cringey at worst. The fact that y'all matched is enough of an IOI from my experience and a simple greeting is good enough as some things may or may not come across as intended via text


Edit: also some of these broads want you to be original meanwhile all they have is 2 selfies and a bland caption :francis:
Hey works just fine....
 

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She may have just told you that so you follow her on IG

:francis:

Has she posted anything in the last two days? She maybe shyt testing you to see how long you wait, but it's more than likely she is just collecting followers.

How many followers does she have?
she has 800 followers. she also has posted in the last two days. i aint like the pic tho as i aint no simp or sucka
 

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I mean people have lives breh and you don’t know her outside of a dating app and social media.

That said if it bothers you that much just forget about her and go on to the next :yeshrug:
come on breh:mjlol: you and i know if a bytch feeling you she aint taking days to get back to you when it ONLY takes 1 minute to write a response.
 

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Brother, you're only objective on a dating app should be leading the conversation to some variation of "we should grab drinks sometime" and "cool, what's your number?"

Her favorite film list? The only list that matters is the list of days she has available to meet up my g lol

If she followed you back, then there's probably some interest (as opposed to her just wanting you to follow her). So hit her up on IG and if she responds, lead the convo to something more important this time. This is assuming your last interaction was you giving her your IG handle and her adding you; i.e. you didn't already double or triple text her on the app with no response.
film talk normally works for me, but i hear you lol. the last message on tinder was from me.
 

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Damn I must be doing something wrong, none of these women even wanna have a conversation

My voice must be off like damn

Shyt it’s getting to the point now where I can damn near know they’re not gonna be interested
 

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come on breh:mjlol: you and i know if a bytch feeling you she aint taking days to get back to you when it ONLY takes 1 minute to write a response.
Well then you knew your answer all along before asking :hubie:

She ain’t feeling you so just KIM to the next one
 
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It comes with the territory, holding L's is part of the game. Builds character, polishes/sharpens your skills, and keeps you disciplined. COVID aside, these ho's want to have sex on a constant basis, aim lower, in fact, aim for everything, hot, ugly, butterface, etc. I'm currently only talking to nurses....who are legit the biggest scumbags you'll meet, but also the easiest to give it up...even more so if she's a milf.

Can you elaborate on this? I keep hearing about this from various people but i personally never dealt with enough of them to know why:lupe:.
 

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Can you elaborate on this? I keep hearing about this from various people but i personally never dealt with enough of them to know why:lupe:.


Due to the work hours, a lot of them are strung out on some kind of drug, whether its pills, liquor, etc. These women are pretty much lonely by design of the job, and as follows, many are very agreeable and will pretty much fukk anyone. Think about it, if you spent 60 hr work weeks taking care of old fukks, smelling like piss, shyt, blood and meds, you'd give attention to any ol pair of swinging balls just to get your mind off of it all. So you combine all that, and you have some the biggest sluts next to hair dressers. Half of them are on Coke, the others on Meph, weed and sedatives (info here Nurses and Addiction).

And due to said addiction(s) they'll do anything, if shes willing to risk her job and livelihood, then fukking you on the first date is no big issue. Hence why I say "be careful"....wrap it up, and yes, while some might fukk doctors on the off chance, the average is that they fukk everyone from security to the orderlies....they rarely fukk, up. I've had fun with plenty, almost too easy to talk to, they party constantly (when they can), and can score you free drugs. The cons? They more than likely are extremely co-dependent, are addicts, and have zero interests in going outside.
 

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Due to the work hours, a lot of them are strung out on some kind of drug, whether its pills, liquor, etc. These women are pretty much lonely by design of the job, and as follows, many are very agreeable and will pretty much fukk anyone. Think about it, if you spent 60 hr work weeks taking care of old fukks, smelling like piss, shyt, blood and meds, you'd give attention to any ol pair of swinging balls just to get your mind off of it all. So you combine all that, and you have some the biggest sluts next to hair dressers. Half of them are on Coke, the others on Meph, weed and sedatives (info here Nurses and Addiction).

And due to said addiction(s) they'll do anything, if shes willing to risk her job and livelihood, then fukking you on the first date is no big issue. Hence why I say "be careful"....wrap it up, and yes, while some might fukk doctors on the off chance, the average is that they fukk everyone from security to the orderlies....they rarely fukk, up. I've had fun with plenty, almost too easy to talk to, they party constantly (when they can), and can score you free drugs. The cons? They more than likely are extremely co-dependent, are addicts, and have zero interests in going outside.

seem like they good for the roster but thats it
:mjlol:
 

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seem like they good for the roster but thats it
:mjlol:


Yeah I always advise against women with children and nurses, unless your game is top tier. I've had two friends who got dumpy/fat nurses and decided to go long term.... :martin:

Only one of em got a "good" nurse who has plenty of money, however she's extremely co-dependent and loves food, I told him; lose weight with her, don't be two fat useless slobs.

The other, pretty much stayed with a pill head nurse, to the point that he was getting her sandwiches, and couldn't even fukk because she would pass out...

Its not for the feint of heart or the neophyte. You have to bag em and tag em, manipulate and keep em on some kind of leash, these losers are looking for some simp to be their next butler.
 

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Ngl I got so use to smashing on the first link Im quick to bush chics that play games :francis:

How you gonna have me come in, start kissing on your neck, feeling you up and vice versa then cut it off. :unimpressed: Bushed. I'm not gonna ever pressure a chic for sex :hubie:

I'd preferred it if you just let me know this bs before letting me come all the way to your crib.
 

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I’ve been flirty with other women at work but honestly. I just fall so fukking hard. It’s pathetic. How do I stop desiring for affection with my next gf or girl I know I can take seriously beyond a fling? I’ve stopped playing r&b and soul. Just not feelin it with the way I feel right now.
 
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