Stop dating women at your job, just makes things more complicated and now your personal life overlaps with your paycheck
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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Where else do I meet women?
VertigoKnight
Veteran
Out and about, online, taking up hobbies.
Messing with chicks at work, creates unneeded stress when things don't work out. Especially if things are not serious.
It's short term gains for potential long term annoyance.
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This just gave me anxiety. Going out to meet sounds terrifying. I can be shy and introverted. Work helps break the ice and get comfortable. This plant job is like bein at an hbcu. So many young brehettes. Many choosing too. It’s because I’m lightskin and got russell wilson hair but I’m a 5 at best.
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@The Hierophant how bad is your anxiety? I’m just now coming to terms that even though I have gotten better with women and socializing. It won’t go away. Porn has ruined me. It took tinder to make me realize my 7 incher no homo is good enough. I still get insecure and worry I’ll get shytted on by a size queen brehette one day.
It's bad enough to take meds for. But I also have breathing techniques I learned from a book @OsO sent me. Called the Science of breath which helps calm me. And no it never goes away. You have to practice putting it in check. You are its master not the other way around.
Porn is bad fiction. Most women's vaginal canal's are about 6inches long maybe less. I used to worry about my size until women started complaining about stomach pains after having sex with me. And one friend of mine told me I felt bigger than her ex who was allegedly 7inches. 7 is more than enough. The only thing you should watch porn for is stroke cadence and angles. Outside of that it's gonna fukk your mind up. Women only say that small dikk shyt when they mad, but when you all up in it and they biting your shoulder or the damn pillow it's another story.
One thing I will say don't fukk chick's who are into rough sex if that ain't you. They need a whole bunch of extra shyt like being abused and shyt. shyt will fukk with your confidence because they have a warped idea of masculine men.
I already had a crazy bytch like that. Choked her, smacked her and nutted on her face. I hate to share this but I struggle to use urinals because I’m so insecure. No homo I feel like my soft dikk ain’t shyt. It’s silly when motherfukkas out here with no homo 5-6 inch hard and my shyt 7 no homo. Do I need therapy?
Yes, it would be a good idea to get therapy. There isn't anything wrong with it.
Hoodoo Child
The Urban Legend
Killigraphy
Banned
Ngl I got so use to smashing on the first link Im quick to bush chics that play games
How you gonna have me come in, start kissing on your neck, feeling you up and vice versa then cut it off.Bushed. I'm not gonna ever pressure a chic for sex
I'd preferred it if you just let me know this bs before letting me come all the way to your crib.
Thats the common problem with anyone who knows game or has had easy targets. At some point you forget that you should always be sharpening your blade. I don't talk to her, I talk about me, anything she learns from me, is what I wish to give said bird. But also I don't mind destroying some shyt test or making them look like ignorant holes, my skill is high that I can do that easily, but I never forget to keep the mind sharp. With that said, same, I'm not kissing and or fingering some broad only to be stopped half way, its bush time if that's the case....some things should not be tolerated.
Killigraphy
Banned
Get out of your own head. Sounds simple, but a lot of people forget that we are our own biggest critics. Let go of any negative ideas in your head, and work the game. Rejection is literally half of game, it not only comes with, but it is the territory. You should take any and every moment to hone your skills, whether its being funny, witty, or flat out a good story teller. Never see rejection as a huge loss, see it as more practice that will eventually increase your overall skill.
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
If you ever get anxious, take some deep breaths. It's okay...Remember, the chick is just human like you.
I feel like once you start chopping it up, everything goes smooth.
I feel like once you start chopping it up, everything goes smooth.
Guvnor
Da Speculative Spectacle®
Really? My game is usually go let them talk about themselves. How does talking about yourself work and what kinda things do you usually talk about?
Also how do you destroy their shyt test? Can you give examples?
Killigraphy
Banned
Women have a very low hard ceiling when it comes to talking about themselves, I know to most it seems like they can talk forever, but that's just because you or anyone in general is riddled with agenda. My motto has always been; Be agendaless, Be awesome, be gone. Ultimately, women have very little to brag about, since by nature, they're catty with each other, so to a stranger, they'll throw out little tid bits of things they happen to be good at. But if you present yourself to be well read, talented, and an overall renaissance man, they'll fall right into your lap, or at the least, see that they're going up against someone who's their better (never aim for being equal, always higher).
Heidegger said it perfectly, "we are attracted to that which repels us", other men see envy when they're talking to a great man, women see a leader, and someone who can teach them something other than difference between a Drake and Chris Brown song. When you put yourself on a pedestal, they cross reference you, with all the scum/trash they've let have sex with them. You're promoting yourself, you don't need her vagina, merely an audience, so perform, not solely for her, but to increase your own raconteur abilities.
For me, what has always worked are two topics; my love of novels (usually Hemingway or Twain) and how much of an avid movie buff I am....and I mean everything from black and white to now. Again however, this isn't about listing off things that I know, but in mid conversation, sprinkling a sentence with a quote or reference. Everyone, likes a well read man, especially if you have gems that make sense to the topical discussion at hand, and who doesn't like or want to see a certain film? The rest for me, is easy. The point here; is to find something you're good at, or love, and tack it onto the conversation when needed.
shyt tests are easy, because they're always the same; "I bet you say that to all the girls" , and; "I bet you're a player" To which I respond to all of them with a simple shrug and "Wouldn't know, who keeps count?" and keep moving on. I'm always aloof to questions I don't feel like answering or shyt tests. The other default is "Ask a better, deeper, darker question"....always gets their gears spinning.
