Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Majestic]

need some tips brehs. was speaking to a chick on tinder and i asked her for a list of something, and she asked for my IG and told me she would tell me on there. So we follow each other on IG, its been a day since we spoke on tinder and she hasn't sent me the list on IG. Safe to say she's lost interest and i should block her or?

 

[The ADD]

need some tips brehs. was speaking to a chick on tinder and i asked her for a list of something, and she asked for my IG and told me she would tell me on there. So we follow each other on IG, its been a day since we spoke on tinder and she hasn't sent me the list on IG. Safe to say she's lost interest and i should block her or?

List of what?

Also it’s been a day, settle down breh

 

[Krazy]

Me and shorty are done. Can anyone recommend any over the counter or alternative medicine for my sadness? I want to leave blunts and alcohol alone. Want to just focus on upgrading my life. Been ducking friends but now I’m too sad to see them nikkas. Focusing on hobbies but man I don’t want to chain smoke.

Exercise and healthy eating
Diary/Journaling your thoughts on paper every day or every few days just to get them out your head

 

[Majestic]

List of what?

Also it’s been a day, settle down breh

list of her favorite films. it's the second day now and i still aint got a message from her on IG when she clearly said she'll tell me on there. i don't know how long i can wait. it should not take a day or two to send a message.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Exercise and healthy eating
Diary/Journaling your thoughts on paper every day or every few days just to get them out your head

Call me weak but right now I don’t even want to get out of my bed. Already had breakfast. I don’t want to leave the crib.

 

[VertigoKnight]

list of her favorite films. it's the second day now and i still aint got a message from her on IG when she clearly said she'll tell me on there. i don't know how long i can wait. it should not take a day or two to send a message.

She may have just told you that so you follow her on IG



Has she posted anything in the last two days? She maybe shyt testing you to see how long you wait, but it's more than likely she is just collecting followers.

How many followers does she have?

 

[The ADD]

list of her favorite films. it's the second day now and i still aint got a message from her on IG when she clearly said she'll tell me on there. i don't know how long i can wait. it should not take a day or two to send a message.

I mean people have lives breh and you don’t know her outside of a dating app and social media.

That said if it bothers you that much just forget about her and go on to the next

 

[Krazy]

Call me weak but right now I don’t even want to get out of my bed. Already had breakfast. I don’t want to leave the crib.

Is there any close friends you can talk to about the way you’re feeling? Personally I find fi hard to open up and offload to people. But there are people I feel I would be more willingly to be open with then others.

Or even have you considered therapy or counselling over the phone if you can’t get out of bed.

Take small steps bruh.

I think just writing down how you feel from time to time is a good way to start. I’m not consistent but sometimes it’s nice to just brain dump things on your mind for like a minute or two straight.

I don’t know if you’ve got a garden, if you do try spend 10 minutes just outside taking in the fresh air.
Then graduate to a walk round the block or around the park.
Or just going for a drive and parking up listening to music if you have a car.

When Corona first hit and the weather was nice and life was really shytty, I found that helped. I used to go in the mornings and read a book.

My life’s ass and stressful right now my coping mechanism is trying to stay distracted but that comes at a cost also sadly.

Stay up breh

 

[Primetime]

Brehs I can’t find anyone to hit this bar with me, it’s more of a lounge atmosphere so imma look dumb solo. Unless y’all hit bars/lounges solo?

We all need to get out the house at least once a week and live a strong social life, preferably with friends but sometimes the latter part can't be helped.

I think of it like a ball player shooting jumpers by himself vs shooting with a couple buddies to rebound and pass him the rock. Either way he needs to get them shots up but he'll have a richer experience with good brehs there to assist. Emphasis on good.

Even if you have to reevaluate and expand your breh list, do it... brehs you see often at the gym, at work, etc. Starting up convo and scoping if they'd be cool to roll with may take time but it's a good side investment. Not to mention now you're networking, which increases your chances of getting invited to more social gatherings, day/house/pool parties, etc

 

[Rozay Oro]

Is there any close friends you can talk to about the way you’re feeling? Personally I find fi hard to open up and offload to people. But there are people I feel I would be more willingly to be open with then others.

Or even have you considered therapy or counselling over the phone if you can’t get out of bed.

Take small steps bruh.

I think just writing down how you feel from time to time is a good way to start. I’m not consistent but sometimes it’s nice to just brain dump things on your mind for like a minute or two straight.

I don’t know if you’ve got a garden, if you do try spend 10 minutes just outside taking in the fresh air.
Then graduate to a walk round the block or around the park.
Or just going for a drive and parking up listening to music if you have a car.

When Corona first hit and the weather was nice and life was really shytty, I found that helped. I used to go in the mornings and read a book.

My life’s ass and stressful right now my coping mechanism is trying to stay distracted but that comes at a cost also sadly.

Stay up breh

Man fukk that bytch. I need to upgrade me.Going to shower, go buy a tablet and midi keyboard. She can be a thot and play catch up in her 30s. I’m prioritize my goals and shyt. fukk everybody and errythang.

 

[Primetime]

need some tips brehs. was speaking to a chick on tinder and i asked her for a list of something, and she asked for my IG and told me she would tell me on there. So we follow each other on IG, its been a day since we spoke on tinder and she hasn't sent me the list on IG. Safe to say she's lost interest and i should block her or?

list of her favorite films. it's the second day now and i still aint got a message from her on IG when she clearly said she'll tell me on there. i don't know how long i can wait. it should not take a day or two to send a message.

Brother, you're only objective on a dating app should be leading the conversation to some variation of "we should grab drinks sometime" and "cool, what's your number?"

Her favorite film list? The only list that matters is the list of days she has available to meet up my g lol

If she followed you back, then there's probably some interest (as opposed to her just wanting you to follow her). So hit her up on IG and if she responds, lead the convo to something more important this time. This is assuming your last interaction was you giving her your IG handle and her adding you; i.e. you didn't already double or triple text her on the app with no response.

 

[Apollo Creed]

need some tips brehs. was speaking to a chick on tinder and i asked her for a list of something, and she asked for my IG and told me she would tell me on there. So we follow each other on IG, its been a day since we spoke on tinder and she hasn't sent me the list on IG. Safe to say she's lost interest and i should block her or?

let her respond. If she dont respond in a week just unfollow her

 

[Apollo Creed]

Brother, you're only objective on a dating app should be leading the conversation to some variation of "we should grab drinks sometime" and "cool, what's your number?"

Her favorite film list? The only list that matters is the list of days she has available to meet up my g lol

If she followed you back, then there's probably some interest (as opposed to her just wanting you to follow her). So hit her up on IG and if she responds, lead the convo to something more important this time. This is assuming your last interaction was you giving her your IG handle and her adding you; i.e. you didn't already double or triple text her on the app with no response.

This yall should he talking movie list in person lol.

internet makes us so lazy where we become pen pals

internet is good to vet first level craziness and see how witty/intelligent she is.

 

[VertigoKnight]

This yall should he talking movie list in person lol.

internet makes us so lazy where we become pen pals

Yep, brehs need to peep and sidestep that shyt early. A lot of chicks try that penpal shyt to keep guys on the hook.

Nothing that we text back and forth can't easily be said in person.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Yep, brehs need to peep and sidestep that shyt early. A lot of chicks try that penpal shyt to keep guys on the hook.

Nothing that we text back and forth can't easily be said in person.

yeah. Text to get numbers, and occasional small talk check ins. Have real convo in person or at least face time