Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This is the last time I'm going to argue this point before yall start thinking I work for the app companies. nikkaz. Are. fukking. Off. Apps. Just because some of your are not doesn't mean everybody is doomed to be unsuccessful on them.

I did double digits (all attractive) last year just off Hinge. That's right, off one app.

Getting better profile pics and upping your conversation game would do wonders for some of y'all, or you could just fall in to self-defeatism :hubie:
I used hinge for a month and it was like fishing with a grenade, with the shutdown even woman were shooting their shots. Like breh said have pictures of you doing cool stuff that will have them reach out first. Been with my girl I’ve meet on there since November.

This is facts. I work overseas and ran through bad ones on tinder whenever I was in Dubai.. which was often lol before the Covid ish.

When I'm back in Houston, I find similar success but through Hinge. I had a couple bad ones during my Xmas break.

Tbh, a lot of the same principles in person apply to the apps as far having your "cover page" (i.e. in this case, pictures) and mouthpiece A1.
 

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My bytch don’t call me love (hey love :wub:) no more. Just cold and distant. One of my old bytches goin thru it. Doin the most for dikk on snapchat. This dikk ain’t free. Bagged me a new shorty at work. Only new bytches gettin this dikk
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I used hinge for a month and it was like fishing with a grenade, with the shutdown even woman were shooting their shots. Like breh said have pictures of you doing cool stuff that will have them reach out first. Been with my girl I’ve meet on there since November.
Lol similar experience. I was doing pretty decent and I’m not handsome gang. Had some chicks reaching out and some I reached out to. Co-sign having pics of you doing things that aren’t things like the club. Met my girl of there in October and it’s going real well.
 

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If you running through 5s/6s with minimal effort but 7s/8s are flakey.. that just let's you know you're currently about a 7 to the females in your area. And most females want to date up.

Facts. I probably gotta take new pics but I ain't been nowhere in a min bc of covid. Hopefully once I get vaccinated I'ma update my cover page like you called it
 

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TBH if a chick is boring to talk to through text or in person, it's probably not going to improve.

I bush them in the initial phase. All the effort you put into trying to keep the conversation alive could be spent on a woman who wants to actually mirror your interest.
I think when dudes are new to these apps or aren't eating on there, they don't know how easy it is when someone really wants to talk to you vs when they are on some bullshyt
 

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This is facts. I work overseas and ran through bad ones on tinder whenever I was in Dubai.. which was often lol before the Covid ish.

When I'm back in Houston, I find similar success but through Hinge. I had a couple bad ones during my Xmas break.

Tbh, a lot of the same principles in person apply to the apps as far having your "cover page" (i.e. in this case, pictures) and mouthpiece A1.
Lol similar experience. I was doing pretty decent and I’m not handsome gang. Had some chicks reaching out and some I reached out to. Co-sign having pics of you doing things that aren’t things like the club. Met my girl of there in October and it’s going real well.



I had another chick I was talking too at the same time that was bad too but I had to work out of town for 3 months so the distance kinda killed the momentum we had but my girl was making time to get together when I was in town so I gently dubbed the other chick
 

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I think when dudes are new to these apps or aren't eating on there, they don't know how easy it is when someone really wants to talk to you vs when they are on some bullshyt

Exactly. In every facet of life when someone wants to talk to you they will. Even moreso with women.

I've deleted a few matches this week that dried up despite my best efforts. When you feel you're having to force conversations, it's a dub.

I've done the whole carrying on dry conversations with women to get the drawers and even when I did. The fact they were so uninteresting made me check out.

I want someone I'm excited too talk to, not just tolerate to get some p*ssy.
 
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