Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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As for status. This is very important to a woman. Your job determines your worth to a woman.This is why they ask what do you do?etc....they stress job. If you are unemployed,watch how long her tone changes from "im gonna support you" to "we need to talk". As for status women want power and you to have more then them. Case in point Jay z and Beyonce. Beyonce wouldnt be with Jay if he was any ol rapper (Joe buddens) etc

You thinks that's a reason why most girls don't really date who they work with, especially if its a shyt job?
 

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Status matters if she is looking at you in the provider role, but for the bad boy, wild-fling, it doesn't matter. It just matters how fly you look in her eyes. You won't believe how many ladies I've heard about or seen getting impregnated by thug type dudes that you know won't be able to support that child... who may already have between 2 to 10 children.

When you come across these single mothers with the sob stories, more times than not, they knew what kind of dude they were letting inbetween their legs, but when the baby came and the daddy disappeared, there she goes looking for a 'better man', aka a 'good guy' to financially help out. Once she finds that provider, there's a high possibility she will still be sleeping with the baby daddy behind his back. Crazy game, ain't it?
 
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As for status. This is very important to a woman. Your job determines your worth to a woman.This is why they ask what do you do?etc....they stress job. If you are unemployed,watch how long her tone changes from "im gonna support you" to "we need to talk". As for status women want power and you to have more then them. Case in point Jay z and Beyonce. Beyonce wouldnt be with Jay if he was any ol rapper (Joe buddens) etc

Women that are 30 and under date men for their social status.

Women who are entering into their 30's date men for their financial status.
 

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Why isn't she in jail for child neglect? :dwillhuh:
 

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Women that are 30 and under date men for their social status.

Women who are entering into their 30's date men for their financial status.

You'd be surprised. One of my work colleagues who is in his 50s told me his dumb ass daughter is 33 years old and just got pregnant by this dude who already has 12 kids by several different women and doesn't even see half of them. She knew this, but because he's a Jamaican bad boy who's very popular in the rave scene she got taken in by him.

Stupid ass hoe undoubtedly will want some 'good man' to settle with and babysit that b*stard child of hers. 33 years old!!! :snoop:

The simps will wanna turn around and say I'm not the "real man" for not wanting to take care of some bytch like that. "The black community needs good fathers/role models for these kids"....yeah so basically the bad boys can do whatever they like, but a brotha whose grounded and doesn't want to clean the mess some scatty brained bytch has made is the real enemy? FOH.

If a dude has to take on a woman with a child (which I won't) then I would only advise him to do so only if she was previously married. Anything else is a no go.
 
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You'd be surprised. One of my work colleagues who is in his 50s told me his dumb ass daughter is 33 years old and just got pregnant by this dude who already has 12 kids by several different women and doesn't even see half of them. She knew this, but because he's a Jamaican bad boy who's very popular in the rave scene she got taken in by him.

Stupid ass hoe undoubtedly will want some 'good man' to settle with and babysit that b*stard child of hers. 33 years old!!! :snoop:

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My cousin moved this chick and her kid into his crib, only to find out she has been cheating on him :snoop: Even had niccas in his crib while he was working :damn: Smh She is still staying there until her income tax comes in FEB and she can move out. He said he became attached to her son and couldnt kick the kid out on the street like that... Talk about a weird situation smh....

Yea. That bytch wouldve been outside. Trust me, she got somewhere to go. Her moms, grandmoms, aunties, uncles, cousins, that nikka she was fukkin. She would've figured out something.........that night :stopitslime: I know its a hard situation when you get attached to the kid but, fukk that. She would've had to go.
 

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"I just can't find a good guy. Men are dogs. They only want to hit and quit it. I need a man to love and cherish me and my child."

A simp negro would eat that script RIGHT ON UP and be like, "Baby you right. These men ARE dogs. I want you and your child in my life and I don't mind being the father. that's what REAL men do. I don't know how these men could overlook you. They have to be crazy."

Then that negro will be surprised when he sees Loquavius "L-Banga" Jenkins III all in his crib hitting 'his woman' with the dynamite stick while the baby is around crawling in the next room.

A real dude would think, "Hmm... and how did you get pregnant? It happened out of the thin air?"

To yall youngins: We been telling negroes over and over stop believing these womens' stories, but if you want to go for that and get got, go for it. if you want to give up your exclusivity up easily and carry another man's burdens while he goes and impregnates 4 or 5 more women and you are paying child support for his seed while he drills baby momma in your house, go for it.

It's real funny how so many of these womens' baby daddies are dogs, and yet somehow they end up pregnant by them. He's the scum of the earth, but somehow he slipped and ended up between her legs numerous times.

Listen here fellas, if there is one thing you DON'T want to be to a woman, that's her provider, aka sponsor, aka her nice guy, aka her fall back man. When a woman starts running that men are dogs rap to you, you better keep your antennas up and watch if she starts trying to bring the 'nice guy' game to you... aka she wants a guy that will either:
1) help take care of her and her children
2) be there emotionally, cuddle with her and take her to dinner and buy her things

if you hear any of that from a woman, you better watch out, because she's trying to lock you down as money buddy or cuddle buddy, and as soon as she got you locked in, she'll go right back to getting busted out by the fresh-out-of-jail convicts she can't get enough of.
 

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Yea. That bytch wouldve been outside. Trust me, she got somewhere to go. Her moms, grandmoms, aunties, uncles, cousins, that nikka she was fukkin. She would've figured out something.........that night :stopitslime: I know its a hard situation when you get attached to the kid but, fukk that. She would've had to go.

yeah thats right. she should have thought about that too before she bit the hand that fed her. there aint no shelter for hoes. and its cold out here man. so cold. but Im out of life jackets for 'em

She knew this, but because he's a Jamaican bad boy who's very popular in the rave scene she got taken in by him.

Stupid ass hoe undoubtedly will want some 'good man' to settle with and babysit that b*stard child of hers. 33 years old!!! :snoop:

Then that negro will be surprised when he sees Loquavius "L-Banga" Jenkins III all in his crib hitting 'his woman' with the dynamite stick while the baby is around crawling in the next room.

A real dude would think, "Hmm... and how did you get pregnant? It happened out of the thin air?"

amen. these hoes are so thirsty out here. for the cash, for the dikk, and the simp-athy.

the most dangerous woman is a thirsty woman. and she can wear many hats. use her charms to fool you and shame you into her will. but the odds are, if something is seriously out of order in her life, its due to her poor decisions and lack of self control. signs of a thirsty ho. if ANY of you men out here are dealing with a thirsty ho, know exactly what she came for, and react accordingly. shut the bullshyt down and get yours or get gone :huhldup:
 

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yeah thats right. she should have thought about that too before she bit the hand that fed her. there aint no shelter for hoes. and its cold out here man. so cold. but Im out of life jackets for 'em





amen. these hoes are so thirsty out here. for the cash, for the dikk, and the simp-athy.

the most dangerous woman is a thirsty woman. and she can wear many hats. use her charms to fool you and shame you into her will. but the odds are, if something is seriously out of order in her life, its due to her poor decisions and lack of self control. signs of a thirsty ho. if ANY of you men out here are dealing with a thirsty ho, know exactly what she came for, and react accordingly. shut the bullshyt down and get yours or get gone :huhldup:

You'd actually be doing that broad a favor in the long run. After you put her ass out, maybe she'd wouldn't take advantage of the next nikka that treated her with any sort of decency. Most likely she wouldn't learn shyt but, there's a small chance.
 

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You'd actually be doing that broad a favor in the long run. After you put her ass out, maybe she'd wouldn't take advantage of the next nikka that treated her with any sort of decency :sitdown: Most likely she wouldn't learn shyt but, there's a small chance.

fukk yolo, #hardonhoes is the motto
 

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Yea. That bytch wouldve been outside. Trust me, she got somewhere to go. Her moms, grandmoms, aunties, uncles, cousins, that nikka she was fukkin. She would've figured out something.........that night :stopitslime: I know its a hard situation when you get attached to the kid but, fukk that. She would've had to go.

Why can't these bytches EVER understand that if your a hoe.....then your to stay that way being SINGLE and not contaminate and ruin other guys and cause this cycle by sneaking around.

Why can't they understand that if you do not want to be treated that way........then don't start being a hoe in the first place. Its not that hard.

You look at shyt like StreetHoodworld and see that all those girls are well known because of those videos and they are all young. Now every single one of them may very well end up trying to act like those videos never happened and will in a year like 2032 try and find a nice simp for them and have that simp marry them and make them wonder why when they are around people she knew from the past, they all laugh at him.

If yOU are a HOE........stay that way SINGLE FOREVER. These broads want to have their cake and eat it too. I know kev spoke about not doing the "exposing" thing because he believes it corny but like @Wild self and myself said numerous times it is needed to stop stuff like this. Not saying it will completely dissappear but the exposing needs to happen more often to greatly lessen the problem that is getting out of hand.

Its like Superhead getting married twice(or whatever it was). You are forever a hoe and that will never change, so why get into a relationship when like 99.9 percent of "reformed hoes"(as Superhead's twitter page itself shows) they continue to stay ratchet and show they are unwifeable when they start shytting on that same simp they loved so much.

This isn't a sincere situation where a girl is possibly forever damaged from being sexually abused and is having psychological effects because of it where cases like that are more understandable...; In the case of many of these "other" harlots they deserve absolutely NO respect because of how two faced they are.

And then all of us in here end up being told by our mothers constantly to "look for a good girl" or asking us "why we aren't married" when we all come to forums like this and hear stories like this all the time and end up hesitant about marriage.

I mean like Malik said its like alot of these bytches do not THINK rationally, and we get fed this nonsense about women being the most intelligent creatures. No they have social intelligence in terms of manipulation and determining status, but horrible rational intelligence.

What other creature knows that they only have 12 to 18 years max of their physical prime and still end up wasting all of it away and try to find a "backup plan"(aka simp) when its towards the end, and blame everyone but HERSELF when that backup plan(the reformed simp from the past) laughs in her face and has a new life better than hers.

Its like those idiotic bytches who cheat on or leave young guys who are in college because they are struggling to cruise through college, working hard to pay off tuition, don't have a car,etc............in order to be with an older guy simply because they are more impressive with their life.

Well NEWSFLASH! to those dumb harlots, that same guy your so impressed with that is older, was in the same exact situation as little as 5 years ago with the guy you decided to cheat on and leave for the new older guy. Its like little children who cannot think straight, and just run and do things without contemplating. "Ooo that older man has shiny car and he is tall.....me woman ....me very impressed.....I wonder if he was born rich or he was struggling like the guy im about to cheat on for this sexier guy.....hmmhe must have been born rich" Wouldn't smart sense tell you to be loyal and stick with the other guy struggling as long as he is ambitious? Ambition is the key word. Its a shame loyalty is not the keyword for many of these women.


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Man when prostitution is ever legalized, these harlots wont be hiding any longer when all the info is forever registered and many guys are able to save themselves from disaster and have an easier time finding out about his girl's "past jobs".

:shaq:
 
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yeah thats right. she should have thought about that too before she bit the hand that fed her. there aint no shelter for hoes. and its cold out here man. so cold. but Im out of life jackets for 'em





amen. these hoes are so thirsty out here. for the cash, for the dikk, and the simp-athy.

the most dangerous woman is a thirsty woman. and she can wear many hats. use her charms to fool you and shame you into her will. but the odds are, if something is seriously out of order in her life, its due to her poor decisions and lack of self control. signs of a thirsty ho. if ANY of you men out here are dealing with a thirsty ho, know exactly what she came for, and react accordingly. shut the bullshyt down and get yours or get gone :huhldup:

Man, what's so sad about it is that she'll have a sort of reverential respect for her thug baby daddy. She might call him scum, but she won't be able to stop talking about him and won't stop spreading her legs for him unless the realities of life force her to... but for her provider dude, she will actually have a true disdain and disgust for. She will laugh at him behind his back while using up all of his resources.

Just think back to that story from reddit that was posted where dude got cheated on. He 'trusted his baby' and let her hang out with her chlidhood friend. He gets rewarded with wayback willie leaving a jar full of mayo inside his sweetheart. These females will actually laugh at sleeping with one man and coming home to their provider and bringing home diseases or whatever... give oral to mr. swag, and then come home and french kiss their provider right after. If you want to be a sucker and go for that, ain't nothing I can tell you.

These 'looking for mr. right' type women know how to play a great game, but like any game, they can only play for so long until they revert into the being that is driving all of these men away. They will be sweet, submissive, and tell you everything to make you feel like the man while they slowly but surely entangle and entrench themselves in your life. Once they start feeling comfortable, that's when you see the real them come out, and it's as disrespectful as can be. That's when the nagging starts, that's when the cheating starts, that's when she tries to offload her financial burdens onto you starts. NEVER judge a woman based off how she is when you first meet her. Wait until she starts getting comfortable around you before you start making any real assessment.

When I told ya'll ya'll can't be afraid to make a woman mad, I told ya'll that for a REAL reason. Straight up, if you meet a woman and she starts trying to weasel her way into your life such as that whole spending the night turning into turning into a permanent resident game or asking for help on her school loans or asking for money for her hair and nails, you better be able to say, "Nah baby, I ain't about that." If she gets mad, screw her. You ain't no sucker negro to be taken advantage of... have baby girl laughing and clowning you behind your back while she gets her hair-do messed up by another negro.

NEVER allow yourself to be a sucker for a woman, don't carry her burdens, and never play the upgrade game with a woman. Ya'll are seeing what is happening to those that do. Cats letting a woman drive their car and she is taking it to see her ex. Cats paying for her school and she dumps him as soon as she gets her degree. Simp is short hand for sympathizer... Cat's be feeling all this sympathy for some story a woman ran by them, feel all sorry for her and come in to rescue her... while she sits back with utter disdain in her heart for him and is smirking and ridiculing him when she is in the presence for a negro that does none of that.

It's funny how women just can't find a 'nice guy' when there's so many guys out there complaining that they were nice to a woman and got taken advantage of. With how thirsty so many men are, do ANY of ya'll seriously believe a woman cannot find a man to treat her nicely? What is REALLY happening is she is going through provider after provider, using and chucking them or getting chucked when she gets exposed while continually messing with her lil rude boys and thugs in the meanwhile. Do NOT allow a woman to shift her burdens onto you. Give her advice to fix her own situation, and she has to take that or leave it. If she needs more money for them kids, she needs to go search out the negro that made them with her and get it from them. If you get to feeling sorry for all these women who brought the situation they are in on themselves, you will continually be taken advantage of.
 

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Why can't these bytches EVER understand that if your a hoe.....then your to stay that way being SINGLE and not contaminate and ruin other guys and cause this cycle by sneaking around.

Why can't they understand that if you do not want to be treated that way........then don't start being a hoe in the first place. Its not that hard.

You look at shyt like StreetHoodworld and see that all those girls are well known because of those videos and they are all young. Now every single one of them may very well end up trying to act like those videos never happened and will in a year like 2032 try and find a nice simp for them and have that simp marry them and make them wonder why when they are around people she knew from the past, they all laugh at him.

If yOU are a HOE........stay that way SINGLE FOREVER. These broads want to have their cake and eat it too. I know kev spoke about not doing the "exposing" thing because he believes it corny but like @Wild self and myself said numerous times it is needed to stop stuff like this. Not saying it will completely dissappear but the exposing needs to happen more often to greatly lessen the problem that is getting out of hand.

Its like Superhead getting married twice(or whatever it was). You are forever a hoe and that will never change, so why get into a relationship when like 99.9 percent of "reformed hoes"(as Superhead's twitter page itself shows) they continue to stay ratchet and show they are unwifeable when they start shytting on that same simp they loved so much.

This isn't a sincere situation where a girl is possibly forever damaged from being sexually abused and is having psychological effects because of it where cases like that are more understandable...; In the case of many of these "other" harlots they deserve absolutely NO respect because of how two faced they are.

And then all of us in here end up being told by our mothers constantly to "look for a good girl" or asking us "why we aren't married" when we all come to forums like this and hear stories like this all the time and end up hesitant about marriage.

I mean like Malik said its like alot of these bytches do not THINK rationally, and we get fed this nonsense about women being the most intelligent creatures. No they have social intelligence in terms of manipulation and determining status, but horrible rational intelligence.

What other creature knows that they only have 12 to 18 years max of their physical prime and still end up wasting all of it away and try to find a "backup plan"(aka simp) when its towards the end, and blame everyone but HERSELF when that backup plan(the reformed simp from the past) laughs in her face and has a new life better than hers.

Its like those idiotic bytches who cheat on or leave young guys who are in college because they are struggling to cruise through college, working hard to pay off tuition, don't have a car,etc............in order to be with an older guy simply because they are more impressive with their life.

Well NEWSFLASH! to those dumb harlots, that same guy your so impressed with that is older, was in the same exact situation as little as 5 years ago with the guy you decided to cheat on and leave for the new older guy. Its like little children who cannot think straight, and just run and do things without contemplating. "Ooo that older man has shiny car and he is tall.....me woman ....me very impressed.....I wonder if he was born rich or he was struggling like the guy im about to cheat on for this sexier guy.....hmmhe must have been born rich" Wouldn't smart sense tell you to be loyal and stick with the other guy struggling as long as he is ambitious? Ambition is the key word. Its a shame loyalty is not the keyword for many of these women.


Side Note:

Man when prostitution is ever legalized, these harlots wont be hiding any longer when all the info is forever registered and many guys are able to save themselves from disaster and have an easier time finding out about his girl's "past jobs".

:shaq:

broads definitely need to be exposed if they're playing it funny out here. If she's cheating, lying and all of that or she's getting naked in some public spaces and gets exposed, that's what it is and it is crucial knowledge for the next man can avoid the time bomb. What men need to learn to do is develop a scuttlebutt network. Before you really get serious with some woman, you need to be kind of cool with dudes that may know her and ask them about her without you letting on that you're thinking about dealing with her. You don't want them to pare down their responses to save your feelings. Be like what you think about babygirl over there? If you here dude say ooooh hooo man, she is wild. Me and the potnas got her on camera... you know what it is.

Now exposing a broad because the dude is bitter... like if she gave him these pictures in confidence and later on when they broke up, he decides to spread these private pictures around everywhere, that's corny.
 
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Why can't these bytches EVER understand that if your a hoe.....then your to stay that way being SINGLE and not contaminate and ruin other guys and cause this cycle by sneaking around.

Why can't they understand that if you do not want to be treated that way........then don't start being a hoe in the first place. Its not that hard.

with the hoes, they want the money and dignity they never earned. they learned the game better due to legistlation. so to get a man, regardless of her history, if she can look good and act well enough for a bit, she can get a simp into taking care of her past mess. even shame men into thinking its the right thing to do (yet it benefits her so much more) :skip:

now Im not anti ho, Im just anti leech. fukk a slut who's trying to be a housewife, but still is an undercover ho. scam money and time out a man because she wants to pretend she isnt loose with it :rudy:


Its like Superhead getting married twice(or whatever it was). You are forever a hoe and that will never change, so why get into a relationship when like 99.9 percent of "reformed hoes"(as Superhead's twitter page itself shows) they continue to stay ratchet and show they are unwifeable when they start shytting on that same simp they loved so much.

And then all of us in here end up being told by our mothers constantly to "look for a good girl" or asking us "why we aren't married" when we all come to forums like this and hear stories like this all the time and end up hesitant about marriage.

simps mess the whole thing up by giving these women power over men and our decisions. tell us whats right, even though its more about convenience to one over the other.

marriage is about finding the right one, and having the both of yall working just as hard to make it happen for the two of you. its not about just getting hitched because of your age, and how they want you to try and fit a square into a hole. its a whole different time. so many kids are born out of wedlock and so many marriages are ended in the first three years - you cant tell me that things are like they used to be. parents just dont understand :heh:

I mean like Malik said its like alot of these bytches do not THINK rationally, and we get fed this nonsense about women being the most intelligent creatures. No they have social intelligence in terms of manipulation and determining status, but horrible rational intelligence.

absolutely, they grow up quicker in those regards. they learn how to use their body and charm to get what they want from the established men, while a lot of lesser established men have to play catch up. soak up game and accumulate more money so they can spend it on these women later on. to quote nasir, its like a cycle


What other creature knows that they only have 12 to 18 years max of their physical prime and still end up wasting all of it away and try to find a "backup plan"(aka simp) when its towards the end, and blame everyone but HERSELF when that backup plan(the reformed simp from the past) laughs in her face and has a new life better than hers.

Wouldn't smart sense tell you to be loyal and stick with the other guy struggling as long as he is ambitious? Ambition is the key word. Its a shame loyalty is not the keyword for many of these women.

in a more perfect world, women and men would act like theyre on the same level (in regards of what each brings to the table), in order to compliment each others skills. men and women are genetically built to compliment each other in their own ways, and not compete with each other. but todays women want that instant gratification from their men. feminism has led women to believe that they must do everything in that short window of time in their lives, so they arent looking to find a potential mover to grow with, they only want the finished product.

and since men can postpone, and altogether disregard having kids for a much longer time than women can, he can also use that time to get wiser, learn more game, see the world, and add on to the cash flow. all of that will give these woman more direction and faith in the man shes looking at. its what they want, and in order for them to cram all this extra shyt in their lives, its what they will need. thats why hypergamy is so powerful and out there today.

see, without a woman submitting to her man, the result is that theyre like a chicken with their head cut off, looking for a sponsor while still acting a ho. the woman whos unrealistic and doing too much, is looking for too much.

ideally, todays woman wants to do man shyt, get a degree, accel in their career, and then they want to have kids while theyre still young enough. getting a family together in the midst of all that is a tall order.

so as I see it, a lot of them dont understand or even have the time to be shooting it out in the gym or supporting his goals, and believing in them anymore. women dont stand by their men like that. they need the money, the success, and status in the man to prove his value to her. and its a mess since that doesnt necessarily mean that he wants to be tied down to her, or that hes a good man, but all the chickens see the money and status and start racing for that "eligible bachelor."

sure they could go to the younger side, and invest in a man thats just starting up, but so many fukk boys and players out there got them fukked up early in the game. you know, while they were experimenting and hoing out there. and then theyre playing catch up on their own with a baby or whatever. :wtf: it just is what it is.

as you can see women trying to play this "I can do what they can do since we're equals" bullshyt is just a mess. it puts a lot of unrealistic expectations on them, and they cant handle that.

so then they turn to men and use these simps as a crutch for their shortcummings. if they cant have a man they believe in, she'll settle for his cash. :damn:

and thats why the older man and younger woman dynamic works so much better than the opposite. and it gets more cooperation from women instead of her settling for a man on her level or age. a womans lack of cooperation and submission is everything. without that, shes not even worth your time. smh. and we see what it is today :why:
 
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