Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Vinny Lupton]

Almost blew off my date last night cuz she was mad late and I wanted to be HOH.. gave her the benefit of the doubt and was rewarded a few hours later with the best sloppy toppy i had all year gotta be flexible sometimes

 

[Killigraphy]

Almost blew off my date last night cuz she was mad late and I wanted to be HOH.. gave her the benefit of the doubt and was rewarded a few hours later with the best sloppy toppy i had all year gotta be flexible sometimes

They're always late, which is why I tell them to text me when they're getting to or leaving to said place, but congrats fella, so do we call those CoBlows 19 now?

 

[Vinny Lupton]

They're always late, which is why I tell them to text me when they're getting to or leaving to said place, but congrats fella, so do we call those CoBlows 19 now?

She pulled a you on me i think, how you gon be 20 min late and you live 20 min away. Either way a #Coblow was had

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

You really don't understand shyt sometimes until you experience it yourself.

Two non-female-related examples would be like you were on bad terms with your parents growing up until you had your own kids and then you start understanding how rough life could be and dealing with badass kids makes it worse.

Or if you've been cut off from a friend group or people stopped fukking with you until you've had to cut someone out of your life because they were too wild or some shyt.

Now I believe in not being interested in women who are not interested in me. Back in the day, however, I couldn't always take a hint.


I got this chick who can't take the hints that I'm not interested in her. I could just straight up say stop messaging me but you would think when someone hasn't opened your snapchat in days-- multiple times-- that you would realize something.

I couldn't imagine what women have to deal with.

 

[Macallik86]

You really don't understand shyt sometimes until you experience it yourself.

Two non-female-related examples would be like you were on bad terms with your parents growing up until you had your own kids and then you start understanding how rough life could be and dealing with badass kids makes it worse.

Or if you've been cut off from a friend group or people stopped fukking with you until you've had to cut someone out of your life because they were too wild or some shyt.

Now I believe in not being interested in women who are not interested in me. Back in the day, however, I couldn't always take a hint.


I got this chick who can't take the hints that I'm not interested in her. I could just straight up say stop messaging me but you would think when someone hasn't opened your snapchat in days-- multiple times-- that you would realize something.

I couldn't imagine what women have to deal with.

This was a big shift for me mentally. A lot of stuff women do isn't because they are inherently indifferent about my time or random shyt like that, it is because when you have options, you rarely have enough time to fit everyone in. I think both sexes are pretty similar when they are being pursued.

 

[Killigraphy]

You really don't understand shyt sometimes until you experience it yourself.

Two non-female-related examples would be like you were on bad terms with your parents growing up until you had your own kids and then you start understanding how rough life could be and dealing with badass kids makes it worse.

Or if you've been cut off from a friend group or people stopped fukking with you until you've had to cut someone out of your life because they were too wild or some shyt.

Now I believe in not being interested in women who are not interested in me. Back in the day, however, I couldn't always take a hint.


I got this chick who can't take the hints that I'm not interested in her. I could just straight up say stop messaging me but you would think when someone hasn't opened your snapchat in days-- multiple times-- that you would realize something.

I couldn't imagine what women have to deal with.

Look I'm not saying I'm Don Juan De La Nooch...but I'm an above average looking guy, long hair, Hawaiian, goes to the gym, with a beard that can connect, I always get dumb broads saying "Do you know Jason Momoa? are you guys related?" and even dumber guys saying shyt like "Do you wrestle? You know Roman Reigns right?"...it gets pretty fukking annoying. But I always say to men; imagine being called handsome 24/7...its like saying the word "fork" 50 times...it loses its meaning. Also if that's the only ice breaker you got, I'm walking away. If more men actually lived with mentality, they would see women are boring one shots, further defining your own greatness, instead of simping on onlyfans.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

This was a big shift for me mentally. A lot of stuff women do isn't because they are inherently indifferent about my time or random shyt like that, it is because when you have options, you rarely have enough time to fit everyone in. I think both sexes are pretty similar when they are being pursued.

We are the same being pursued. Guys aren't being pursued as much.
It's always our fault too. Most never learn either.
Lot's of guys will have simpish behavior for their entire lives
Can't save them all and I guess it's a positive for dudes like us.

Long as you're on your shyt options will always be there.
a whole new roster of women at college every year
Some chick just broke up with her BF
Some chick just got divorced


My original point though was that damn it's probably 1000times worse for women when dudes can't move on.

Look I'm not saying I'm Don Juan De La Nooch...but I'm an above average looking guy, long hair, Hawaiian, goes to the gym, with a beard that can connect, I always get dumb broads saying "Do you know Jason Momoa? are you guys related?" and even dumber guys saying shyt like "Do you wrestle? You know Roman Reigns right?"...it gets pretty fukking annoying. But I always say to men; imagine being called handsome 24/7...its like saying the word "fork" 50 times...it loses its meaning. Also if that's the only ice breaker you got, I'm walking away. If more men actually lived with mentality, they would see women are boring one shots, further defining your own greatness, instead of simping on onlyfans.

I I get called handsome all the time too. Though I don't ever get tired of being labeled handsome like you do


What your post is really saying is this.

Don't let other people define you.

If praise about your looks from others holds that much weight to you then a negative comment will tear you down just as easily.

Just like when dudes validate themselves through getting the hottest chick in the room or a number of girls then usually they're putting up with bullshyt or messing with 4's and 5's.


You gotta feel like you're handsome af yourself no matter if others agree with you or not.

Dudes should always feel like they're dope af regardless if the women approve or not

Because they don't want someone who wants their approval

 

[360dagod]

These bytches really think your gonna talk to them all day...

Find a hobby or something

 

[Ahadi]

The weather was incredible today.

Summer is going to be insane.

 

[Primetime]

It was pretty average for a first date. I only fuxked up on not tryna touch and kiss cuz I never felt like it was the right timing. And I learned from someone here can’t remember who so I can’t give credit but basically they said to get women to talk about themselves so that’s what I did and that worked, I wasn’t feeling the “fukk me” vibes and as a breh that unknowingly missed out on tons of p*ssy I recognize the signs that a woman wants the D, I guess I accurately sized her up, just a bookworm lil Asian girl.I’m curious to keep trying

This is just my own .2 but over time I've simply learned to avoid going on a date until i've had an initial phone call or video chat with the chick... to gauge interest level and confirm with myself that a date would be worth my time.

We've all had that date where you and the chick just don't have any chemistry and getting the p*ssy feels like you trying to win a series down 3-1.

Well fukk all that lol. A 10-15 min call or facetime is enough for me to gauge what type of vibe we got; and if she doesn't pass the test of being feminine, easy to converse with and (most important) exhibiting a level of flirtation//interest/sexual attraction i can work with... then I don't need to be on a date with that chick.

Not that a 3-1'er is impossible but her p*ssy ain't no more special than the chick who treats you like the '96 Bulls on your date.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Had a great date with this filipino chick yesterday. We started talking on Monday but decided within 5 messages that we should meet offline for a drink as talking online is tedious. Decided to meet on Friday.

One thing I immediately liked is that she was at the bar before me 10 mins early. No bad timekeeping.

And she's in shape and very pretty. Body looked tight. No covid weight gain.

She was great company, we chatted for about 3 hrs, as usual got her used to me respectfully touching her early into the date. One thing I liked that she told me, is in her bumble pictures she didn't have any makeup on. Which I appreciate, we see how wildly different makeup can make a woman look. I like a woman who can go without and still look good and she looks good with and without.

Anyway bars close at 10pm here so date ended and I walked her to her car. Hugged her goodbye, then went for the kiss which she reciprocated. We stood there kissing for a few mins. Despite me only living a few mins away she offered me a lift.

I got in and she drove round and parked up, we carried on chatting, then started kissing again and touching. My hand moved from her titties to the top of her thighs. I offered to show her my place... but I don't think she's quite there yet, no rush anyway. Anyway she got home and messaged me saying she wants to meet again next week and lets do something.

So we shall see.

 

[Apollo Creed]

These bytches really think your gonna talk to them all day...

Find a hobby or something

Respond slowly on purpose lol or just say you busy but lets have a call/ facetime later

 

[Guvnor]

This was a big shift for me mentally. A lot of stuff women do isn't because they are inherently indifferent about my time or random shyt like that, it is because when you have options, you rarely have enough time to fit everyone in. I think both sexes are pretty similar when they are being pursued.

Yeah breh I realize that now, I definitely bit off more than I can chew and women are getting upset with me about it. Just don’t have enough time on the day. About to just to have a roster of 3 maybe 4 and keep it moving focusing more on my life and getting shyt rolling.

Had a great date with this filipino chick yesterday. We started talking on Monday but decided within 5 messages that we should meet offline for a drink as talking online is tedious. Decided to meet on Friday.

One thing I immediately liked is that she was at the bar before me 10 mins early. No bad timekeeping.

And she's in shape and very pretty. Body looked tight. No covid weight gain.

She was great company, we chatted for about 3 hrs, as usual got her used to me respectfully touching her early into the date. One thing I liked that she told me, is in her bumble pictures she didn't have any makeup on. Which I appreciate, we see how wildly different makeup can make a woman look. I like a woman who can go without and still look good and she looks good with and without.

Anyway bars close at 10pm here so date ended and I walked her to her car. Hugged her goodbye, then went for the kiss which she reciprocated. We stood there kissing for a few mins. Despite me only living a few mins away she offered me a lift.

I got in and she drove round and parked up, we carried on chatting, then started kissing again and touching. My hand moved from her titties to the top of her thighs. I offered to show her my place... but I don't think she's quite there yet, no rush anyway. Anyway she got home and messaged me saying she wants to meet again next week and lets do something.

So we shall see.

Lucky b*stard lol. That's dope though.

My shyt was the opposite. I went out with this this bad thick chick, she is working on her own fashion line after working in the industry for awhile and is from the south. Me and her have been talking for like 2 weeks now or something like that after meeting on hinge. Based on our conversations she seemed very intelligent, feminine, down to earth, funny and ambitious which are all things that I liked. She also seemed to want something serious as well.

So we went out yesterday and shyt wasn't what I'm used to and I can't really call it. On the phone our covnos are cool and she seemed real interested but in person she seemed a little more boring and it's like she relied on me to ask her questions. I don't know if I got too spoiled and used to at the least sucking tittes on the first date these days or what but I did break the touch barrier holding hands and I got a little kiss though she tried to play me talking about "Mask Kiss" when we parted ways but I can't call it. She said she had a good time and I said to myself I was gonna cut her off unless she initiated conversation this morning and what do you know, she sent me a good morning text. I didn't get much flirting or nothing though she did say she found me handsome. She also kept taking out her phone to take IG pics and shyt like that.

Idk, I wonder if I should give her another shot or cut it off.

 

[Guvnor]

Is going for drinks an acceptable first date? Might just go out with this other chick this evening and I'm not really trying to invest too much.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I just sent my girlfriend some simp shyt
Because I’m lit. I sent a song and kiss with heart emoji. Damn man I fukked up.