Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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A lot of times they don’t have shyt to talk about
Yea if you're still in Houston I already know about that bullshyt

It's why I recommend not going on a date until you have that phone call or vid chat to filter them out.

Fukk I look like paying for their meal, paying for multiple drinks, annnd trying to carry a dry ass platonic conversation. For what?
 

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Yea if you're still in Houston I already know about that bullshyt

It's why I recommend not going on a date until you have that phone call or vid chat to filter them out.

Fukk I look like paying for their meal, paying for multiple drinks, annnd trying to carry a dry ass platonic conversation. For what?
yeah if the convo dry af im not meeting up, I use texting to warm up the oven. dudes cant be afraid to move on from dry convo hoes. flood your pipeline with activity and options
 

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Had to cancel a date yesterday.

Set the date for 6.30 Saturday. But my gut told me let me message this chick before I set off.

At 6 I text her, I'll see you there. She messages me at 6.10 saying she just got in from being out all afternoon running errands and her phone died.

She says that we could go to the bar I choose next week and asks if we can just meet in her hood a bit later. I picked out a specific bar for a reason and I dont want to go sit in a bright as fukk sports bar.

I just told her sounds like shes rushed off her feet and we should do it another day. I could already see going to meet her would probably be a frustrating half assed evening. I've had good dates with this woman before so no need for the bushes just yet.

She is very apologetic but my thought process was. I had a really great date on friday and I have another date with a new chick this sunday. I'm not desperate enough where I have to go see her if I feel it's just not going to be fun.
 

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Why these hoes always show up to dates hungry? :mjlol:

:huhldup:

Haven’t had this. You can either get them to come over to your place and cook, grab an app to share (stating you had a big lunch), or try and assess their motives ahead of time.

Or....

When planning to meet or tell her “I just finished eating, let’s meet around .....”

I honestly don’t have a problem paying for a drinks / a bottle of wine and a small app tho. Dinner / breakfast is only after Ive smashed.
 
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Had to cancel a date yesterday.

Set the date for 6.30 Saturday. But my gut told me let me message this chick before I set off.

At 6 I text her, I'll see you there. She messages me at 6.10 saying she just got in from being out all afternoon running errands and her phone died.

She says that we could go to the bar I choose next week and asks if we can just meet in her hood a bit later. I picked out a specific bar for a reason and I dont want to go sit in a bright as fukk sports bar.

I just told her sounds like shes rushed off her feet and we should do it another day. I could already see going to meet her would probably be a frustrating half assed evening. I've had good dates with this woman before so no need for the bushes just yet.

She is very apologetic but my thought process was. I had a really great date on friday and I have another date with a new chick this sunday. I'm not desperate enough where I have to go see her if I feel it's just not going to be fun.
I don’t know breh maybe I’m wrong but I would have went and tried to compromise with her and leverage her being late into getting the draws some how lol. Plus you would have been in her hood so you could have easily got her in the mood and went back to her place depending on y’all relationship and your goal.

At the same time if you wasn’t in the mood it’s better you don’t go, I learned that lesson the hard way. Plus you canceling she’ll for sure make sure her shyt is together if you ask her out again.
 

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Okay, Spring Break REALLY humblin me :francis:

After a year of being inside and only on apps a nikka has NO club game at all :mjcry:

& watching other nikkas effortlessly make it sexual with a phat assed southern girl they just met while I'm having regular convos really showed I need some practice, but where in nyc :snoop:
 

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Okay, Spring Break REALLY humblin me :francis:

After a year of being inside and only on apps a nikka has NO club game at all :mjcry:

& watching other nikkas effortlessly make it sexual with a phat assed southern girl they just met while I'm having regular convos really showed I need some practice, but where in nyc :snoop:
How would you get practice? You just gonna pull up on women? I’m only asking cuz in case the university I transfer to is in person i still wanna fuxk lots of women there, I got a trip to Vegas in a few months that might help:lupe:.
 

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Okay, Spring Break REALLY humblin me :francis:

After a year of being inside and only on apps a nikka has NO club game at all :mjcry:

& watching other nikkas effortlessly make it sexual with a phat assed southern girl they just met while I'm having regular convos really showed I need some practice, but where in nyc :snoop:

if cold approaching is going to be your thing you just gotta do high volume. Cant make shots you dont take
 

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How would you get practice? You just gonna pull up on women? I’m only asking cuz in case the university I transfer to is in person i still wanna fuxk lots of women there, I got a trip to Vegas in a few months that might help:lupe:.
I'm planning a memorial weekend vegas trip too :ehh: but before then I need to work on this shyt

And I have no idea breh, Imma see what union square lookin like for street game & Also looks like there might be some open spots in yonkers:manny:
 

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Gonna get a new girl or side bytch
 
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I don’t know breh maybe I’m wrong but I would have went and tried to compromise with her and leverage her being late into getting the draws some how lol. Plus you would have been in her hood so you could have easily got her in the mood and went back to her place depending on y’all relationship and your goal.

At the same time if you wasn’t in the mood it’s better you don’t go, I learned that lesson the hard way. Plus you canceling she’ll for sure make sure her shyt is together if you ask her out again.

I've been trying to follow my gut feelings a lot more with women these days. I think it would have been a low energy date. She actually messaged me this afternoon apologising again and saying she's going to make it up to me.

Tbh I think having an early night last night was probably the better move.
 

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Had to cancel a date yesterday.

Set the date for 6.30 Saturday. But my gut told me let me message this chick before I set off.

At 6 I text her, I'll see you there. She messages me at 6.10 saying she just got in from being out all afternoon running errands and her phone died.

She says that we could go to the bar I choose next week and asks if we can just meet in her hood a bit later. I picked out a specific bar for a reason and I dont want to go sit in a bright as fukk sports bar.

I just told her sounds like shes rushed off her feet and we should do it another day. I could already see going to meet her would probably be a frustrating half assed evening. I've had good dates with this woman before so no need for the bushes just yet.

She is very apologetic but my thought process was. I had a really great date on friday and I have another date with a new chick this sunday. I'm not desperate enough where I have to go see her if I feel it's just not going to be fun.
Would have done the same :manny:
 

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Okay, Spring Break REALLY humblin me :francis:

After a year of being inside and only on apps a nikka has NO club game at all :mjcry:

& watching other nikkas effortlessly make it sexual with a phat assed southern girl they just met while I'm having regular convos really showed I need some practice, but where in nyc :snoop:

You gotta go to spots near crowded areas where masks are either on their chin or off...

So if you go to 125th, you would have to be not on the actual strip but casually walking down blocks..
Of course be careful, but it's a decent alternative

SLOWLY, people starting to loosen up and once we get consistent spring weather, its gonna be an easier play...

If your easy on the eyes:dame:, chances increase
 
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