Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It was pretty average for a first date. I only fuxked up on not tryna touch and kiss cuz I never felt like it was the right timing. And I learned from someone here can’t remember who so I can’t give credit but basically they said to get women to talk about themselves so that’s what I did and that worked:ehh:, I wasn’t feeling the “fukk me” vibes and as a breh that unknowingly missed out on tons of p*ssy I recognize the signs that a woman wants the D, I guess I accurately sized her up, just a bookworm lil Asian girl.I’m curious to keep trying:patrice:


Your only problem is that you didn't initiate and or get her used to your touch. Simple games like numbers, hand measuring against yours, or even playing with her hair are enough to get the majority of women on board. I've heard countless times "I like my haired played with/pulled"...its too fukking easy. Another common one that works for me all the time, the lower back, right above or at her waistline, place your hand there either to guide her into some place, or just when you're walking. Women want to be led, so you combine that with light touches, and boom, its anal city.
 

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I'm starting to feel like I do. I guess I wouldn't put up with what I do if I didn't. Ehhh shyt probably not the thread to get into this. I'm ashamed to talk about the low points of our relationship

This is the perfect place to talk about this, I and many others are here to help....not berate. With that said, your happiness comes first and from within, it then trickles down into everything you do. Doesn't mean always be happy(whos always fukking happy?), but create a positive bias effect....so many women and humans in general, love the downward spiral of the negative bias effect, you're chasing the dragon of filth....instead ride that elevator up into greatness...which again, isn't found in her or your relationship. You must be selfish with what you want out of life; from happiness to being a better version of yourself, everyday.

No that doesn't mean try to change the world and or be a superhero, it means being a renaissance man. Dabble in all things, and eventually you might find something you wish to master. But never be sedentary. Two simple creeds to live by;

Be agendaless, Be awesome, Be gone.

Make yourself unavailable.

Get lost in your journey to becoming great, and you'll realize that your potential for greatness, is nigh unstoppable.
 

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Yes 21. Most ppl been fw dates and shyt since like 12 though. I just been fukkin:russ:I got one more date set up and then I’m done:wow:

No they didn't breh :mjlol:

I didn't start actually taking women out on dates till I was over 25 :pachaha:Before that age come to the crib and chill worked just fine.
If I was dating at your age I would be clueless tbh.
 

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No they didn't breh :mjlol:

I didn't start actually taking women out on dates till I was over 25 :pachaha:Before that age come to the crib and chill worked just fine.
If I was dating at your age I would be clueless tbh.

he young breh lol. People who count HS stuff tend to not have much real experience.
 

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Just a word advice: don't go on smear campaigns or revenge missions against a chick just because she ghosted you. It's not a good look and is actually feminine. Piers looks bytchmade over his obsession with Meghan and literally ended up walking out of a job because of it. He didn't even know her like that and they weren't in a relationship but you'd think they were married or something. :skip:

Who's never been ghosted? It ain't fun, but as a man you just have to lick your wounds and KIM when it comes to these broads out here and stop getting so easily attached. You can't let someone have that much power over you.
 

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Just a word advice: don't go on smear campaigns or revenge missions against a chick just because she ghosted you. It's not a good look and is actually feminine. Piers looks bytchmade over his obsession with Meghan and literally ended up walking out of a job because of it. He didn't even know her like that and they weren't in a relationship but you'd think they were married or something. :skip:

Who's never been ghosted? It ain't fun, but as a man you just have to lick your wounds and KIM when it comes to these broads out here and stop getting so easily attached. You can't let someone have that much power over you.


I say it all the time....no one is taking up rent in my brain, for free. A lot of men however, have zero guidance when it comes to actually dealing with women. Sure get to fukk a few birds and be charming, but few ever get to understanding how they work and in turn become exactly like females, petulant, sedentary, and ultimately effete. Its all these simps have left, to chat away and complain, instead of being great and meeting women just as passionate and awe inspiring as they are. In this case, Morgan is bytch made through and through, a successful talk show host, but a fragile specimen on the inside. This here is a teachable moment.
 

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I say it all the time....no one is taking up rent in my brain, for free. A lot of men however, have zero guidance when it comes to actually dealing with women. Sure get to fukk a few birds and be charming, but few ever get to understanding how they work and in turn become exactly like females, petulant, sedentary, and ultimately effete. Its all these simps have left, to chat away and complain, instead of being great and meeting women just as passionate and awe inspiring as they are. In this case, Morgan is bytch made through and through, a successful talk show host, but a fragile specimen on the inside. This here is a teachable moment.

Exactly.
 

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Question breh, what do y’all recommend for a first date as far as dress goes.

im thinking of either this white button up shirt I got with black polka dots or a grey cardigan but can’t make up my mind. This chick I’m talking to is into fashion and she’s launching her own fashion brand so I wanna look sharp.
 

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Question breh, what do y’all recommend for a first date as far as dress goes.

im thinking of either this white button up shirt I got with black polka dots or a grey cardigan but can’t make up my mind. This chick I’m talking to is into fashion and she’s launching her own fashion brand so I wanna look sharp.

the venue should dictate that
 

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No they didn't breh :mjlol:

I didn't start actually taking women out on dates till I was over 25 :pachaha:Before that age come to the crib and chill worked just fine.
If I was dating at your age I would be clueless tbh.
Real talk:jbhmm:thought I was behind lol. But I been doing the same thing just replace my spot with theirs or this dingy motel in Hollywood that accepts cash. Idk how these brehs do the dating shyt either:yeshrug:
 

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Question breh, what do y’all recommend for a first date as far as dress goes.

im thinking of either this white button up shirt I got with black polka dots or a grey cardigan but can’t make up my mind. This chick I’m talking to is into fashion and she’s launching her own fashion brand so I wanna look sharp.

What's always worked for me (In every setting) is a long sleeve plain shirt, jeans or slacks, with chelsea style boot. All black everything of course. I peacock enough as it is from my chain to pinky ring and bracelet/watch, the simplicity of the fit, only compliments the jewelry/charms. I've used this for everything from movie theaters to 5th avenue restaurants. Chelsea boots basically are all purpose, I haven't had one complaint about any of em, to be fair, not having laces, is classy enough, but also, its extremely simple of a look, its chic without being too much.
 

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Main thing is making sure your clothes fit lol.

a shirt or polo that fits and dark denim will do numbers. Spruce it up with nice frames, cologne, and shoes


This...some cheap ass rose gold frames, jeans and a well fit shirt gave me all the compliments, helps I don't look like a fat slob, but also less is more, always spend more time on the accents. Rings, bracelets, chains, etc. You don't have to be ballin, just get something that looks nice.
 

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Appreciate the advice fellas! Thanks a lot. About to hit up Macy’s later and see what pieces I can find.

Wish me luck.
 
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