Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

The old ugandan chick I used to canoodle and cavort with back in late 2018/early 2019 just reached out to me today. How she's been dreaming about me for weeks and just had a dream that I was getting married

Said she was surprised I didn't hang up or was angry


How she hopes we can possibly meet up for coffee etc.

 

[MikelArteta]

bruh def on the coli



Nah but he spit good game on this account ngl

he is breh that is @Sharp
he doesn't post here as much as he used to though

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

The old ugandan chick I used to canoodle and cavort with back in late 2018/early 2019 just reached out to me today. How she's been dreaming about me for weeks and just had a dream that I was getting married

Said she was surprised I didn't hang up or was angry


How she hopes we can possibly meet up for coffee etc.

She running game.
Just fukk and go about yo business

 

[360dagod]

67 degrees on Friday in NYC.



Gona be a preview of summer

shyt gonna be lit out here

 

[Killigraphy]

When women using “horoscopes” to flirt but then say they’re being friendly.



Horoscopes is the number 1 flirt for women.

This is basically the example of what someone who has not idea how to flirt, reacts. Women simply are the biggest cornballs and have no amount of charm or smoothness. I love when any girls asks the same dumb platitude "what do you rate me?"....Again, I just laugh and ask for the blowjob there.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’m pretty sure I just took an L. I agree with shorty to take her out to eat today at noon. She ain’t answer my text. Let’s see what bogus excuse she gonna hit me with. It’s like outside of tinder I’m on a losing streak with women I meet organically. fukk it, I’m still have a good day.

 

[The ADD]

It ain’t even that. There’s this female I been hanging out with and taking out to eat. We hooked up once. She has kids and she can’t have anymore which is all fine by me. But I take her out regularly cause she’s pretty and I’m well aware of how attractive u can become if other women see u with a woman who’s easy on the eyes. The issue is on more than a few occasions there’s been girls who were blatantly flirting in front of her, which she didn’t like. But at the same time I think it made her more attracted or whatever. I must admit I take her out for my own selfish reasons. People think I’m menacing and unapproachable cause I hardly smile. So I take her out so they see I’m not so bad after all if another female consistently hangs out with him Lol.

it’s frustrating really cause I told her I’m single for a specific reason. Being in a relationship is tiring. Constant texting, talking on the phone, going out all the time. Your weekends are never consistently quiet. Always into somesh1t. And being in my 30s i realize my peace of mind supersedes all things. What I had going with her I thought was a good deal. I take her out to eat and I pay and we go our separate ways. I don’t invite her back to my place cause then that means I have to entertain her.

meh it’s whatever. She’ll probably dip when she realizes I’m not gonna give her what she secretly wants.

Weird play you running breh. Investing time and money with a woman you aren’t interested in being with and doesn’t give you a direct path to other chicks easily. I can see why she’s catching feelings because you keep engaging with her.

 

[TRUEST]

Weird play you running breh. Investing time and money with a woman you aren’t interested in being with and doesn’t give you a direct path to other chicks easily. I can see why she’s catching feelings because you keep engaging with her.

meh she goes on dates. And there was some dude she was dating for a while. I really didn’t give a sh1t. Every man needs a female friend. This dynamic really only confirms to me the old thinking that men and women can’t be true friends.

 

[The ADD]

meh she goes on dates. And there was some dude she was dating for a while. I really didn’t give a sh1t. Every man needs a female friend. This dynamic really only confirms to me the old thinking that men and women can’t be true friends.

Gotta look at it from both sides. You are dangling hope in front of her real or perceived. I’m not saying you wrong breh but it’s the likely outcome for her to have feelings.

After a certain stage in life they can’t unless it was built on a different type of bond. Casually meeting a female and it being real friends after a certain age ain’t realistic IMO.

 

[Apollo Creed]

meh she goes on dates. And there was some dude she was dating for a while. I really didn’t give a sh1t. Every man needs a female friend. This dynamic really only confirms to me the old thinking that men and women can’t be true friends.

i think men and women can be associates but friends? Nah. With Associates the relationship usually revolves around a particular thing of focus which keeps things focused and away from getting “awkward”. But two single people that arent related being “friends” lol nah

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Some game changers for mindset:

- Instead of worrying "What should I text her", create an EMOTION in her. Remember, women are emotional beings and want to FEEL.
Plant things in her mind, give her that special experience. As long she isn't bored, she'll follow.

You can even take the Patrice O'Neal route. But be careful, getting her angry then sweet talking her = GREAT skill. If you fukk up, its a DUBBBBB!

- Feed her scraps time to time

- IG DM game. Add the words "We and "Us" in your messages. Creates intimacy.

- Develop your CHARISMA. Charisma is about uplifting others

- Never let a woman get you emotional. Be cold and stoic.

- Use statements. Statements make the convo casual. Ask questions to know her.

- Remove using filler words like "uh, so" etc. Start using action verbs and active language.

- LEAD, don't FOLLOW! Men are natural hunters, the creators. Women are the receivers.

- Move like a cat instead of a dog. This is a classic sigma male move.

- Use ABSENCE to make her miss you. Attraction grows in space. Familiarity brings contempt.

- Less is more.

- Have an abundance mentality. Treat yourself as a king and act accordingly.

- EXPRESS yourself, DON'T IMPRESS her. Having fun is all about self-amusement. She wants to join your kingdom.

- Don't reward negative behavior. If she acts up, put her on ice.

- Going MODE 1 is the fastest way to arouse her. Like AMS said, women have two stimulation spots. Their G spot and their mind. Get her mind first!

- Take your time to respond.

Last by not least - Be on your purpose. Focus on becoming the most attractive version of YOU!

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[DapMeUp!]

meh she goes on dates. And there was some dude she was dating for a while. I really didn’t give a sh1t. Every man needs a female friend. This dynamic really only confirms to me the old thinking that men and women can’t be true friends.

Why do you deem this to be true?

I'm 3 decades and I have legit never had a female "friend" ie we speak regular/every week and the relationship has never been sexual.
Pretty much every women I speak to we have been involved before, or we are progressing towards that.Can't say I have ever needed one.

 

[DapMeUp!]

It ain’t even that. There’s this female I been hanging out with and taking out to eat. We hooked up once. She has kids and she can’t have anymore which is all fine by me. But I take her out regularly cause she’s pretty and I’m well aware of how attractive u can become if other women see u with a woman who’s easy on the eyes. The issue is on more than a few occasions there’s been girls who were blatantly flirting in front of her, which she didn’t like. But at the same time I think it made her more attracted or whatever. I must admit I take her out for my own selfish reasons. People think I’m menacing and unapproachable cause I hardly smile. So I take her out so they see I’m not so bad after all if another female consistently hangs out with him Lol.

it’s frustrating really cause I told her I’m single for a specific reason. Being in a relationship is tiring. Constant texting, talking on the phone, going out all the time. Your weekends are never consistently quiet. Always into somesh1t. And being in my 30s i realize my peace of mind supersedes all things. What I had going with her I thought was a good deal. I take her out to eat and I pay and we go our separate ways. I don’t invite her back to my place cause then that means I have to entertain her.

meh it’s whatever. She’ll probably dip when she realizes I’m not gonna give her what she secretly wants.

I have only just read your story properly now. So you have slept with her before...Is she aware you are only taking her out as a "Friend?"

You have already had sex with her...of course she is going to catch feelings when you are taking her out regularly.
This could very much be seen as relationship behavior considering you have been sexually involved already.

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’m pretty sure I just took an L. I agree with shorty to take her out to eat today at noon. She ain’t answer my text. Let’s see what bogus excuse she gonna hit me with. It’s like outside of tinder I’m on a losing streak with women I meet organically. fukk it, I’m still have a good day.

@Ezekiel 25:17 peep my L since you like to hate. Still went to the mall and bought bullshyt.

 

[TRUEST]

I have only just read your story properly now. So you have slept with her before...Is she aware you are only taking her out as a "Friend?"

You have already had sex with her...of course she is going to catch feelings when you are taking her out regularly.
This could very much be seen as relationship behavior considering you have been sexually involved already.

lol yea she’s said it many times that we’re friends. And I’ve told her numerous dates I’ve been on and the girls I’ve stopped talking to when they start complaining about us doing the same thing every weekend. Basically everything u shouldn’t say to a girl u really want I told her.

her issue is the last time we went out. After we got up to leave the restaurant, we passed the bar area. She was walking in front and saw all the women gaze in my direction. I didn’t think much of it cause being brolic I’ve gotten used to the stares. But on this night, after we got outside of the restaurant there was a spring in her step. Like she’s proud or something. She turns back to me and goes hun all the women back there were staring at u. I’m telling you that shirt really highlights ur muscles.

meh she’ll get over it. Told her numerous times I’m really a chill guy in every sense of the word. I just like to chill. There’s plenty of guys out there who can’t stay the fucck home. That’s what u deserve. It is what it is.