Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Me and my main are mutually agreeing to part ways. I honestly lowkey kind of sabotaged this. I wasn’t happy at all with her and was just there for convenience/pride.

And even on Valentine’s I was thinking of the side women while with her in the hotel suite decorated like crazy

She wants to pick up her few things tomorrow. But I think I’ll drop it off. She’s going to want to talk and hear my side but I already know it could get ugly if I allow it

I was eating on it last year so I’m back on Hinge after next week when I clear my head to make sure I’m good :wow:
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this is true don't trust these photos women are using online many are 2-3 years old. The last few chicks I facetimed with were FAT while their pictures using they were slim

Had a decent 6 want to facetime...met off of PoF....."oh you really are tall"....summon my massive eyeroll and this bytch out here with a keg on her chest.....talking about "Oh I put on some Covid weight".

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Whats wrong with nurses? :ohhh:


So this is from what I gathered from observing nurses both whenever I went to the hospital for whatever reason(s), and when I talked to one; what I like to call "ER Bull"...he put me on the game that I assume existed.

Most of them are fukking everybody in the building, but the doctors. The hours are hell so they're usually pill heads, alcoholics and or doing coke whenever they can. And the one I hated finding out; They are dirty. Many of them will wear the same scrubs they walked their stinking ass in all day, the next shift.

The only good thing about them is that they're easy to fukk, and if you have the same vice; smoking, drinking, pills, etc, you'll have a fun-ish time. Now why is that guy called the "ER Bull"? Dude literally had photos of each nurse during his rounds late at night. He was always getting them food, and in return these thots were sucking and fukking.

RIP if your girlfriend or daughters are nurses :picard:
 

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I just watched this video and remembered this post I made a while back.


Keep in mind, you have to actually not want it. This has worked for me, and I've gotten everything from free drinks, to food, games, books, etc. People can't do anything alone, and at most times they rather not be alone. fukk all that FB introvert repost nonsense. People are lonely, and will come out their wallet just to have you there with them, even if its for a drink, a meal, a couple minutes , etc.

However, you have to be in the mindset of not wanting something. It works the same way with women. I'm not there for you, I'm there for me. I self amuse, I network, I chat it up with everyone. In other words;

1. Eliminate your desires.

2. Do something excellent in her presence, thereby proving your sexual worthiness.

3. Retreat, for as Heidegger said, "We pursue that which retreats from us".
 

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Had a decent 6 want to facetime...met off of PoF....."oh you really are tall"....summon my massive eyeroll and this bytch out here with a keg on her chest.....talking about "Oh I put on some Covid weight".

LhHR9RG.gif

yup
every girl i've facetimed with the past few months have been so much fatter than their photos
 

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the older i get the more i start to think that open relationships is the only answer for folks out here in toronto:jbhmm:

nikkas still think im off that pack when I bring this topic up but seeing consistent flimsy as relationships got me thinking more and more about it
 

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the older i get the more i start to think that open relationships is the only answer for folks out here in toronto:jbhmm:

nikkas still think im off that pack when I bring this topic up but seeing consistent flimsy as relationships got me thinking more and more about it


Show em the divorce rates. Women want to lock down a beta then complain that he's exhibiting beta behavior. You can't want stability with Alpha's when as men get older they become more desirable to all types of women. Men age like wine, women like bread.....and they're mad about that very hard fact.
 

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I always come in here trying to drop jewels but I be messing up sometimes too. :francis:

My biggest problem is myself. :russ: I realize I have a social media addiction where I'm always on FB and Snapchat.
I post WAYYYYY too much and believe it or not that shyt makes you come off weird. :francis:

The way I am on social media is how I am in person but it works in person because I have a character so I stand out. I always succeed.

I'm just the person to go overboard online instead of being the chill laid back dude which a lot of times backfires.

So after today no more social media posts... going ghost from it all.

I'm vastly more fun in person than I am in social media, I don't like reposting, sharing, groups, etc. Its all circle-jerk, with no release. I'll read a book, work out, or watch films (I'm a huge film buff). I save texts to through in my personality. FB is full of fake deep people posting garbage and IG is just a like/emoji fest....I'm good, I let these broads qualify for me.
 

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Thread title:
“Gems on dealing with women”
:ehh:

Starts off strong
:wow:

By page 5010 it sounds like a help group for simps (respectfully)
:hhh:

One dude replies to a Tinder match with kissing ass and “you could snag me”
:picard:

One dude was “having a moment” because he saw a 9 year old Facebook memory (yes from 2012) and asked “Should I add her”
:gucci:

That is N O T the topic of the thread.

Be weak if you want, but then don’t ask why there are no girls around in your life.
:hubie:

Dating and getting girls is a game: it is not about any of the 100 reasons you tell yourself you can’t get so and so chick. Keep saying that and it’ll be and stay reality (as you’ve noticed). It’s about you being YOU and leading, and being the decider of where this goes. That is an uncomfortable position, it is different and it stands out 1,000x better than “thank you for blessing me with a text” wtf.These hoes don’t know you. So.. you can be whoever you want to be. Stop making life evolve around these girls, and soon their minds (this is just how it is) will be wondering why all the other guys do notice them but you play it cool. Be different, and stop giving away so much power.
:ufdup:
 

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Keep in mind, you have to actually not want it. This has worked for me, and I've gotten everything from free drinks, to food, games, books, etc. People can't do anything alone, and at most times they rather not be alone. fukk all that FB introvert repost nonsense. People are lonely, and will come out their wallet just to have you there with them, even if its for a drink, a meal, a couple minutes , etc.

However, you have to be in the mindset of not wanting something. It works the same way with women. I'm not there for you, I'm there for me. I self amuse, I network, I chat it up with everyone. In other words;

1. Eliminate your desires.

2. Do something excellent in her presence, thereby proving your sexual worthiness.

3. Retreat, for as Heidegger said, "We pursue that which retreats from us".

The thing is we'll always have wants and desires deep down as humans, we're kidding ourselves otherwise. Best thing is just to be your highest self and not be in a place of panic and desperation and everything else will fall into place without you trying too hard. The one thing I've learned is just to go through the process of doing what you have to do and then you get the results quicker and better.
 

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Thread title:
“Gems on dealing with women”
:ehh:

Starts off strong
:wow:

By page 5010 it sounds like a help group for simps (respectfully)
:hhh:

One dude replies to a Tinder match with kissing ass and “you could snag me”
:picard:

One dude was “having a moment” because he saw a 9 year old Facebook memory (yes from 2012) and asked “Should I add her”
:gucci:

That is N O T the topic of the thread.

Be weak if you want, but then don’t ask why there are no girls around in your life.
:hubie:

Dating and getting girls is a game: it is not about any of the 100 reasons you tell yourself you can’t get so and so chick. Keep saying that and it’ll be and stay reality (as you’ve noticed). It’s about you being YOU and leading, and being the decider of where this goes. That is an uncomfortable position, it is different and it stands out 1,000x better than “thank you for blessing me with a text” wtf.These hoes don’t know you. So.. you can be whoever you want to be. Stop making life evolve around these girls, and soon their minds (this is just how it is) will be wondering why all the other guys do notice them but you play it cool. Be different, and stop giving away so much power.
:ufdup:

Some of us have said YEARS ago it's better to title the thread "how to improve as men" because that's what should really be the focus.
 
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