Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

the older i get the more i start to think that open relationships is the only answer for folks out here in toronto

nikkas still think im off that pack when I bring this topic up but seeing consistent flimsy as relationships got me thinking more and more about it

I’ve already opted out of Toronto women

 

[jay83]

I’ve already opted out of Toronto women

for some reason Toronto women don’t get the same criticism American women do. But I don’t live in Canada so I do t know.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

Turned my Hinge back on today and it's metro boomin want some more today. Sunday is the day to do this bullshyt cuz they're all home. I'ma pause my profile again during the week and go fishing again next Sunday too

 

[Killigraphy]

The thing is we'll always have wants and desires deep down as humans, we're kidding ourselves otherwise. Best thing is just to be your highest self and not be in a place of panic and desperation and everything else will fall into place without you trying too hard. The one thing I've learned is just to go through the process of doing what you have to do and then you get the results quicker and better.

Eliminate desire comes with a very big asterisk...eliminate your desire to want to fukk everything in sight. Which can be done, get lost in conversation with people, network, bloviate about nonsense or things you love/hobbies. You're eliminating that testosterone fueled first greeting desire to beast fukk said broad. You're basically controlling your agenda aroma, because women can smell it like flies to shyt. For this era, you can replace rule 1 with; "Don't be thirsty".

 

[Killigraphy]

Thread title:
“Gems on dealing with women”


Starts off strong


By page 5010 it sounds like a help group for simps (respectfully)


One dude replies to a Tinder match with kissing ass and “you could snag me”


One dude was “having a moment” because he saw a 9 year old Facebook memory (yes from 2012) and asked “Should I add her”


That is N O T the topic of the thread.

Be weak if you want, but then don’t ask why there are no girls around in your life.


Dating and getting girls is a game: it is not about any of the 100 reasons you tell yourself you can’t get so and so chick. Keep saying that and it’ll be and stay reality (as you’ve noticed). It’s about you being YOU and leading, and being the decider of where this goes. That is an uncomfortable position, it is different and it stands out 1,000x better than “thank you for blessing me with a text” wtf.These hoes don’t know you. So.. you can be whoever you want to be. Stop making life evolve around these girls, and soon their minds (this is just how it is) will be wondering why all the other guys do notice them but you play it cool. Be different, and stop giving away so much power.

The very sad/hard truth, is that many men are simps. Game community is very small compared to the general populous. And not everyone is a 6'1 chad. I got genetically lucky, and I hung around women, so I know how to deal with them and their broken mentality....I Just never taught a course on it, since I figured (at a young age) that all men were like me...then I started hearing about the straight male "best friend" and what people in game today called "arbiter" I used to call em the waiters since thats all they spent their time doing. Basically game has always existed, we just didn't structure it into a book or magazine/video.

Not every kid out there is gonna understand shyt tests, frame breaking, qualifying, etc...they just get into pointless arguments and wonder "why?" I don't see game as trying to get women, because even the biggest nerd, can get a broad. Its about dealing with women and controlling your responses to them, in-turn keeping them at bay with their bullshyt. Ultimately I rather a guy work on himself, become a Renaissance man, the whores will be the byproduct of a good life well lived. But we have to be honest with ourselves...many boys/men out there, never got the guidance from their fathers, many never had one to begin with, there's a reason Jordan Peterson blew up, both with 20 year old men, and 40 something year olds......men have been struggling for a while.

Don't see game as a way to get women, you can pay for p*ssy and or get laid eventually, think of it as a means to do better with the women you do get.

 

[BaggerofTea]

East coast brethren...

Weather starting to warm up...

Hope nikkas in striking range of their fitness goals

Been in the lab on my prison work out shyt for the longest

 

[BaggerofTea]

The very sad/hard truth, is that many men are simps. Game community is very small compared to the general populous. And not everyone is a 6'1 chad. I got genetically lucky, and I hung around women, so I know how to deal with them and their broken mentality....I Just never taught a course on it, since I figured (at a young age) that all men were like me...then I started hearing about the straight male "best friend" and what people in game today called "arbiter" I used to call em the waiters since thats all they spent their time doing. Basically game has always existed, we just didn't structure it into a book or magazine/video.

Not every kid out there is gonna understand shyt tests, frame breaking, qualifying, etc...they just get into pointless arguments and wonder "why?" I don't see game as trying to get women, because even the biggest nerd, can get a broad. Its about dealing with women and controlling your responses to them, in-turn keeping them at bay with their bullshyt. Ultimately I rather a guy work on himself, become a Renaissance man, the whores will be the byproduct of a good life well lived. But we have to be honest with ourselves...many boys/men out there, never got the guidance from their fathers, many never had one to begin with, there's a reason Jordan Peterson blew up, both with 20 year old men, and 40 something year olds......men have been struggling for a while.

Don't see game as a way to get women, you can pay for p*ssy and or get laid eventually, think of it as a means to do better with the women you do get.

The safest best for a man in this existence is to "be on his purpose", first, foremost and always

Learned this very early in my life when I was considered "corny" and no women were checking for me.

Had to adjust accordingly and discard pointless distractions and put single minded dedication to mastering my purpose in life.

 

[Killigraphy]

The safest best for a man in this existence is to "be on his purpose", first, foremost and always

Learned this very early in my life when I was considered "corny" and no women were checking for me.

Had to adjust accordingly and discard pointless distractions and put single minded dedication to mastering my purpose in life.

The best times in my life have been and continue to be, when I'm mastering myself. I could give a fukk what women consider "corny" or "tacky" since women are the ground zero of all corny bullshyt. From believing in kismet to astrology. Women are some of the corniest beings on the planet. Realizing that its all just projection and goal post moving from them, I just did/do what I love doing; reading, working out, films, etc. I say it to every guy I know, Its your movie, you're the rockstar, you know how it all ends, so your best bet is to make sure things go your way till your bones touch the Earth.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Boring women doing the least complaining you distant and not messaging them
These women so used to guys thirsting and chasing over them they think everyone on that shyt, you giving me shyt responses or not replying...Then complaining about me not messaging you.

Well shyt if you responded to my message we could actually have a good chat or actually try and create convo.

If you wanna speak to me hit me up shyt stop thinking you a princess and snap back to reality.

Concluded shes an attention seeker and she barely sends shyt to me but will happily throw pics on her story....clearly to get her messages flooded with compliments.
If I hadn't seen her in person once I would've thought she was a catfish and isn't who she says she is.

And no I aint saying she gotta send me shyt but shyt we on snapchat talking (where she sad she prefers) and we just basically texting lmao whilst she posts the same attention seeking pictures on her story.

Yo one attention multiple simps attention

 

[Killigraphy]

Question.

If a female is advertising that she's interested in getting snake eye piercings in her tongue or already has them, is that pretty much a covert admission that she's about sucking dikk?

I'm asking because there's a female on Facebook that I'm friends with that is talking about it and I just wanted to broach the question here.

In general, I've found that its either a tongue piercing and or any kind of oral fixation; smoking, mints, bubblegum, etc...you know realistically speaking, not a mint after a dinner, but just needs something in her mouth. These are the girls to look out for. Piercings are the obvious call sign, but plenty of women out there without any. Though the typical tropes still hold true; tattoos, piercings, smokes, etc, she more than likely loves giving head. All those moves are basically her acting out her slutty tendencies. Met a milf with a tiny rose tattoo right under her waist line that read "Always a lady"....an oxymoron of course, seeing as it was easy to get head from her.

 

[Killigraphy]

Boring women doing the least complaining you distant and not messaging them
These women so used to guys thirsting and chasing over them they think everyone on that shyt, you giving me shyt responses or not replying...Then complaining about me not messaging you.

Well shyt if you responded to my message we could actually have a good chat or actually try and create convo.

If you wanna speak to me hit me up shyt stop thinking you a princess and snap back to reality.

Concluded shes an attention seeker and she barely sends shyt to me but will happily throw pics on her story....clearly to get her messages flooded with compliments.
If I hadn't seen her in person once I would've thought she was a catfish and isn't who she says she is.

And no I aint saying she gotta send me shyt but shyt we on snapchat talking (where she sad she prefers) and we just basically texting lmao whilst she posts the same attention seeking pictures on her story.

This is the case with "fun" girls who are hot. They think they deserve everything they haven't worked for. Continue being great and put her on ice. Relegated to texts and nothing else. Let her work her repost game on FB....that's all shes worth.

 

[Krazy]

This is the case with "fun" girls who are hot. They think they deserve everything they haven't worked for. Continue being great and put her on ice. Relegated to texts and nothing else. Let her work her repost game on FB....that's all shes worth.

She got dropped out.
I signed out like a month ago that desire to have sex with her died. I was just trying to keep it warm for when we get some freedom back.

She boring as shyt complaining about she used to attention and consistency but ain’t showing the same back. fukk outta here.
Can’t give you attention if you not doing anything or saying worth giving attention to.

Maybe I’ll catch her in a club one night and smash i don’t know but don’t care either way. Seemed cordial we both understood we wanted different things, she talking about feelings and blah blah when I said from day one I’m just trying to have fun.

Ive got p*ssy there so it’s whatever.

Im going back to focusing on myself intentionally trying to spend less time on socials.

Deactivated IG last month.

Way too much ish going on in this pandemic for me spending my time chatting to attention seeking women lol.

She can continue entertaining the circus of men who are willing to do the most. I’ll sit this one out

 

[Killigraphy]

She got dropped out.
I signed out like a month ago that desire to have sex with her died. I was just trying to keep it warm for when we get some freedom back.

She boring as shyt complaining about she used to attention and consistency but ain’t showing the same back. fukk outta here.
Can’t give you attention if you not doing anything or saying worth giving attention to.

Maybe I’ll catch her in a club one night and smash i don’t know but don’t care either way. Seemed cordial we both understood we wanted different things, she talking about feelings and blah blah when I said from day one I’m just trying to have fun.

Ive got p*ssy there so it’s whatever.

Im going back to focusing on myself intentionally trying to spend less time on socials.

Deactivated IG last month.

Way too much ish going on in this pandemic for me spending my time chatting to attention seeking women lol.

She can continue entertaining the circus of men who are willing to do the most. I’ll sit this one out

 

[Ahadi]

Thread title:
“Gems on dealing with women”


Starts off strong


By page 5010 it sounds like a help group for simps (respectfully)


One dude replies to a Tinder match with kissing ass and “you could snag me”


One dude was “having a moment” because he saw a 9 year old Facebook memory (yes from 2012) and asked “Should I add her”


That is N O T the topic of the thread.

Be weak if you want, but then don’t ask why there are no girls around in your life.


Dating and getting girls is a game: it is not about any of the 100 reasons you tell yourself you can’t get so and so chick. Keep saying that and it’ll be and stay reality (as you’ve noticed). It’s about you being YOU and leading, and being the decider of where this goes. That is an uncomfortable position, it is different and it stands out 1,000x better than “thank you for blessing me with a text” wtf.These hoes don’t know you. So.. you can be whoever you want to be. Stop making life evolve around these girls, and soon their minds (this is just how it is) will be wondering why all the other guys do notice them but you play it cool. Be different, and stop giving away so much power.

I only posted about her because, yes I still have a bit of feelings for the girl. Nothing wrong with being vulnerable. Which is what black ppl should be more of. Bottom line is the girl still looks really good and I honestly haven’t been focusing on woman. Yes, I check hinge, rack up matches, but more focused on bettering my self. I’m working on an app, studying 2 languages, working out, promoted into new corporate position, coding, possibly a new forum since this owner and the moderation is abandoned.



And it’s It’s funny everyone is shytting on me about that lol cause she ended up adding me on LinkedIn.



Life works in mysterious ways.

Everyone got those “curiosity / moments” it’s called being human.

Everyone can’t be suavemente all the time. Hell, I’m one of the few guys that gives solid advice

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Pretty much.
I have 0 interest in her I did wanna smash at one point now like I’m like yawn.
Definitely not chasing a woman that I only wanna fukk lol.

We’ve been speaking for months and due to lockdown in the U.K. it’s not materialised.

Im at the point of let’s just kill the small talk and pick back up when things are back open.
I’m all for checking in every so often I just can’t be doing the boring small talk day in day out to show you I’m interested.
We’ve done it enough now...and I ain’t gonna be seeing you anytime soon so let’s just relax.

Send me a meme or snap from time to time shyt fukk you wanna have the same dead ass conversation day in day out especially if you giving Wack responses or not replying

I think ultimately we just don’t have much in common

Again, it's better not to be talking to females at all than to be stuck 100% virtual dating.

I've said it before, a lot of these females will fukk the first decently attractive dude they meet up with physically post-quarantine.

So if you're video-chatting with these chicks for weeks (or God forbid months)

without meeting, all you are doing is warming up the p*ssy for him.


















That being said, thank you for your service