Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

VertigoKnight

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I need you Tinder Hall of Famers and Text Gold Medalist to help me turn this around. Matched with her when I was buzzed and in my feelings (Valentines). Anyway look at this cringe intro and her response. Wanted to say == Wow, thanks for the compliment. I like you too but that seems even more clownish. I'll accept my neg, negus but I need turn this around.

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You needed to hit her back asap after that exchange.

:russ:

Leaving a gap and then trying to come back to chat will probably have her

:hhh::francis:

self deprecation could work but it would depend on her sense of humour. And if you were then able to regain the upper hand chat wise.
 

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Do women not care about the pandemic where you are?
Some do some don’t. Post pandemic I’m going use parameters to weed out the people who never stopped going out. Some of y’all in must really live in a secluded area or under a rock if haven’t realized that there’s a segment of people who never stopped partying and going out since the pandemic started, and I say this as someone who lives in a strict state regarding COVID enforcement and regulation.


As me personally, I’ve sustained since the pandemic because I’m mature enough to enjoy my own company. It’s much better to use this time to work other areas in your life that could be better. Learn skills, get in shape, take of debt, etc.
 

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They care, but I have game.

Word of advice, it is better to not be talking to chicks at all than be stuck virtual dating 100%.

That's too much time to talk yourself out of p*ssy when a lot of these chicks will smash the first decent looking guy they go on a physical date with post-quarantine.
I did this early because I was too scared to meet up. Girl was 100% my type wifey ish. But honestly I couldn’t think of shyt to do. Legit nothing was open, I got bored of talking so we lost contact. I stopped trying talk to women like that afterwards. Even though now you can definitely maneuver better than last March.

It’s just not necessarily a priority for me, unless I meet another wifey type, which will still be easier maneuver post pandemic.
 

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I did this early because I was too scared to meet up. Girl was 100% my type wifey ish. But honestly I couldn’t think of shyt to do. Legit nothing was open, I got bored of talking so we lost contact. I stopped trying talk to women like that afterwards. Even though now you can definitely maneuver better than last March.

It’s just not necessarily a priority for me, unless I meet another wifey type, which will still be easier maneuver post pandemic.

yeah brehs just have to assess their situation to see if the risk is worth the reward. Most should be using this time to become the best version of themselves.
 

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I'd rather briefly FaceTime before I meet a chick just to make sure I'm not getting catfished. I'd be damned if I meet a beach whale or some chick who posted a pic from 20 years ago.
Exactly. When I was on dating apps, I absolutely facetimed broads before ever stepping out the door for an actual meet up.
 

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So I admit, I’m having a moment. I’m looking at my Facebook memories and I see a nice chat with an ex.from 2012...

:mjcry:

Should I add her brehs? We kinda got into a fight a year ago and she “blocked” me. But as I’m on her page it seems like she unblocked me.

EDIT: I’m going to stay strong and not add lol them Facebook Memories be fukking you up.
 
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So I admit, I’m having a moment. I’m looking at my Facebook memories and I see a nice chat with an ex.from 2012...

:mjcry:

Should I add her brehs? We kinda got into a fight a year ago and she “blocked” me. But as I’m on her page it seems like she unblocked me.

EDIT: I’m going to stay strong and not add lol them Facebook Memories be fukking you up.
Bro, you have too stay strong and delete those Facebook memories of your ex.
 

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So I admit, I’m having a moment. I’m looking at my Facebook memories and I see a nice chat with an ex.from 2012...

:mjcry:

Should I add her brehs? We kinda got into a fight a year ago and she “blocked” me. But as I’m on her page it seems like she unblocked me.

EDIT: I’m going to stay strong and not add lol them Facebook Memories be fukking you up.

Get rid of everything that no longer serves you. Memory lane does f*ck all in the long run and only holds you back.
 

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I still have memories setup on my FB so on the odd occasion I pop on I sometimes see pics of me and her if we posted anything on that date.

But I literally feel nothing now seeing pics of us.
 

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On the subject of ex’s, i feel no ways about mine. Was with her for just over a year and and a bit and i ended it last spring cuz my gut along with other stuff was tellin me she wasn’t acting the same even though she kept tryna tell me she was the same, still loves me etc.

Kid you not, that moment i ended it and put a period on the last word i said to her...slept like a baby that night and onwards. Didn’t second guess my decision or nothing even though i cared a lot about her. Simply said we ain’t on the same page and that’s cool and that i have no hard feelings towards her and wish her all the best. She responded childishly and immaturely...but i didn’t care.

She blocked me on the gram :yeshrug:but still has me on snap. :manny: But i haven’t viewed her stories or communicated a single word to her since the few days before i ended it last year.

Yea in those split seconds when i see snippets of her story in the previews and see her face i remember the good times...but i also remember how i felt that day i ended it and the days leading upto it and that’s what keeps me going. :ufdup:

So for those of you allowing positive thoughts about your ex trickle into your head....counter it with the bad stuff. :ufdup:
 
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How come like half the chicks on these dating apps are like 6'1 and love wearing heels :dahell:

Don't know if it's the food or something but it seems like women are taller these days
 
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