Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Vinny Lupton]

Just in case anyone needs to hear this.

Reasons 1 & 6 hit a nerve....my old self. I cringe when I think back to that.

Reason 1 especially is why I refuse to listen to chick's problems. Don't be that guy.

Not gonna press play on hoe babble, what's the summary ?

 

[DaRealness]

Not gonna press play on hoe babble, what's the summary ?

I don't post hoe babble, especially in this thread.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Do women not care about the pandemic where you are?

They care, but I have game.

Word of advice, it is better to not be talking to chicks at all than be stuck virtual dating 100%.

That's too much time to talk yourself out of p*ssy when a lot of these chicks will smash the first decent looking guy they go on a physical date with post-quarantine.

 

[Sonny Bonds]

They care, but I have game.

Word of advice, it is better to not be talking to chicks at all than be stuck virtual dating 100%.

That's too much time to talk yourself out of p*ssy when a lot of these chicks will smash the first decent looking guy they go on a physical date with post-quarantine.

That's part of the reason why I think a phone call would be better than FaceTime. It's easier to do a quick call and try to set something up in person. FaceTime would have them trying to give me a virtual tour of their place.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

That's part of the reason why I think a phone call would be better than FaceTime. It's easier to do a quick call and try to set something up in person. FaceTime would have them trying to give me a virtual tour of their place.

Just be efficient with your time. By 20 minutes in, you should have dropped hints about meeting. By the half hour mark, you should have a place and time picked.

And to be generous, maybe a second phone call if you really like the chick. If you don't have a date planned by the second call, you are more than likely wasting your time.

 

[phcitywarrior]

Word of advice, it is better to not be talking to chicks at all than be stuck virtual dating 100%.

This right here.

Quoted + Dapped + Repped.

 

[qwasi]

I need you Tinder Hall of Famers and Text Gold Medalist to help me turn this around. Matched with her when I was buzzed and in my feelings (Valentines). Anyway look at this cringe intro and her response. Wanted to say == Wow, thanks for the compliment. I like you too but that seems even more clownish. I'll accept my neg, negus but I need turn this around.

Spoiler

 

[Apollo Creed]

I need you Tinder Hall of Famers and Text Gold Medalist to help me turn this around. Matched with her when I was buzzed and in my feelings (Valentines). Anyway look at this cringe intro and her response. Wanted to say == Wow, thanks for the compliment. I like you too but that seems even more clownish. I'll accept my neg, negus but I need turn this around.

Spoiler

 

[phcitywarrior]

but I need turn this around.

Spoiler

Yea just eat that L my G, it’s over.

 

[brandy]

I need you Tinder Hall of Famers and Text Gold Medalist to help me turn this around. Matched with her when I was buzzed and in my feelings (Valentines). Anyway look at this cringe intro and her response. Wanted to say == Wow, thanks for the compliment. I like you too but that seems even more clownish. I'll accept my neg, negus but I need turn this around.

Spoiler

Don't overthink. Just keep chatting. If it was that bad, she would have unmatched.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Don't overthink. Just keep chatting. If it was that bad, she would have unmatched.

main thing is him starting in a position of weakness he may already be starting in the pen pal/attention zone. We don't know how she perceives his looks though because if someone thinks you are attractive enough they will listen to any dumb thing you say lol

 

[brandy]

main thing is him starting in a position of weakness he may already be starting in the pen pal/attention zone. We don't know how she perceives his looks though because if someone thinks you are attractive enough they will listen to any dumb thing you say lol

That is why I said keep chatting lol. If she likes you, it's a lol and keep moving in conversation. Could have easily ignored him or unmatched, but she playfully responded.

 

[qwasi]

Shock and Denial.

Yea just eat that L my G, it’s over.

Pain and Guilt.

Don't overthink. Just keep chatting. If it was that bad, she would have unmatched.

Anger and Bargaining

main thing is him starting in a position of weakness he may already be starting in the pen pal/attention zone. We don't know how she perceives his looks though because if someone thinks you are attractive enough they will listen to any dumb thing you say lol

Depression

That is why I said keep chatting lol. If she likes you, it's a lol and keep moving in conversation. Could have easily ignored him or unmatched, but she playfully responded.

Reconstruction and Working Through

I won't lie, of all the matches I've had she's the closest to what I'd date. I matched on Wednesday and its Friday. Yall taken me through 6 of the 7 stages of grief. Its time for Acceptance and Hope. I need a cold line to hit this PAWG with.

 

[CP3.]

I need you Tinder Hall of Famers and Text Gold Medalist to help me turn this around. Matched with her when I was buzzed and in my feelings (Valentines). Anyway look at this cringe intro and her response. Wanted to say == Wow, thanks for the compliment. I like you too but that seems even more clownish. I'll accept my neg, negus but I need turn this around.

Spoiler

Dani a savage

Just laugh it off and change the conversation asap. It's redeemable. JUST...

 

[VertigoKnight]

I need you Tinder Hall of Famers and Text Gold Medalist to help me turn this around. Matched with her when I was buzzed and in my feelings (Valentines). Anyway look at this cringe intro and her response. Wanted to say == Wow, thanks for the compliment. I like you too but that seems even more clownish. I'll accept my neg, negus but I need turn this around.

Spoiler

You needed to hit her back asap after that exchange.



Leaving a gap and then trying to come back to chat will probably have her



self deprecation could work but it would depend on her sense of humour. And if you were then able to regain the upper hand chat wise.