I keep my texts with women pretty short and objective so I can't give you too much advice there. However, in general, if you're doing all of the convo work when you guys are talking, then the interest isn't there. Women love to talk and you really should only have to do 25-35% of the talking. Main thing to steer the convo and give occasional confirmations that you're listening.
I think I was recently guilty of this
Really liked her but she mentioned twice about our conversations. The first was over the phone . Even though it was with her doing nearly all of the talking, the call went over two hours. The second time was when we went out for dinner . I was just trying to carry the conversation. I didn’t want to go out with someone and just have awkward silences the whole time. She was like "you're pretty talkative "
I remember her telling me about how she had a bad date with a guy a month prior where breh didn't have anything to talk about besides sex
I was thinking "why is she telling me this?"
Maybe it's our age differences showing (she's 25 Im 39) cause I had trouble with carrying on a conversation back then . Or she just prefers nikkas that don't speak up
Think I should just limit any text convos to a bare minimum let alone keep dealing with her at all.