Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Action Mike]

Any you guys had parents that when it came to marriage talk they wasn't onboard?

My first reaction was damn that Im going to do want i want as a grown man, but this shyt hurts. My culture means a lot to me, marriage is the family bonding too.

They had questions before when I brought her around, thought they could get past it but I didn't think they'd settle on just no.

If family don't support this...I'm in-between a rock and a hard place. fukk.

 

[Icantspell]

i got ghosted brehs

should have listened to yall & focused on myself

 

[Silkk]

Any you guys had parents that when it came to marriage talk they wasn't onboard?

My first reaction was damn that Im going to do want i want as a grown man, but this shyt hurts. My culture means a lot to me, marriage is the family bonding too.

They had questions before when I brought her around, thought they could get past it but I didn't think they'd settle on just no.

If family don't support this...I'm in-between a rock and a hard place. fukk.

She white?

i got ghosted brehs

should have listened to yall & focused on myself

She’ll be back. They always are.


Unless you just wanna block her & keep it moving

 

[Action Mike]

She white?

No she black. Just not nigerian

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yeah i figured as much but text convos are a weird form of communication.

I've seen people more talkative in person vs. thru text

Yeah some women are terrible texters. Have you asked this woman to meet up?

 

[goatmane]

Any you guys had parents that when it came to marriage talk they wasn't onboard?

My first reaction was damn that Im going to do want i want as a grown man, but this shyt hurts. My culture means a lot to me, marriage is the family bonding too.

They had questions before when I brought her around, thought they could get past it but I didn't think they'd settle on just no.

If family don't support this...I'm in-between a rock and a hard place. fukk.

Whats her red flags they concerned with?

 

[Krisrunner2049]

i got ghosted brehs

should have listened to yall & focused on myself

I feel ya. Wasted my time on a potential tinder hookup that didn’t pan out.

 

[Vinny Lupton]

A genuine friendship that could potentially deepen into a mutually exclusive relationship. Friendship is the baseline for all great relationships. Then watch em salivate

bars

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

She white?


She’ll be back. They always are.


Unless you just wanna block her & keep it moving

They only always come back if you was around them long enough to create an attachment to where when they think about you it's good thoughts...if not you're just another dude

 

[PrnzHakeem]

No she black. Just not nigerian

Ignore them, especially if you we're raised in the US.

Some Nigerian parents wont be happy unless they handpick your spouse. fukk all that.

 

[Ohene]

Yes. Women are very talkative with men they're highly attracted to. All you have to do is carry 25% of the convo and they'd take it from there.

Not initially. At the beginning youre gonna have to carry at least 50% until you meet /go out in person. More likely youll have to carry like. 75%

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Not initially. At the beginning youre gonna have to carry at least 50% until you meet /go out in person. More likely youll have to carry like. 75%

Depends on attraction level chief.

 

[phcitywarrior]

No she black. Just not nigerian

There must be something they saw in her character that has them apprehensive. I think that thing of Nigerian parents wanting their kids to marry another Nigerian is more so about values that they feel are inherent/generally accepted within the diaspora Nigerian culture (education, work ethic, family values, faith etc)

They only always come back if you was around them long enough to create an attachment to where when they think about you it's good thoughts...if not you're just another dude

To the T. If you never made an impression then don't think they'll come back. There had to have been a connection.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Also, nikkas got step their macking game up.

Recently, 2 of my homegirls been showing me how nikkas on hinge hola at them.

nikkas in their 30s, mind you.
shyt be mad corny and see-through , on some:


Like chill out poet , you aint gotta do the most to mack on chicks.

They're generally more cynical than us, and we aren't in the 90's, boyz II men era

We in WAP era. Not sayin' you gotta come at her extra aggressive, but be normal....damn.

Be careful.

I posted about this on here before. I had a girl I was fukking with do the same shyt.

She was on the phone with me telling me all the lame shyt some nikka was writing her. We were making fun of him. She cracked a lot of jokes.

The next day this nikka brings her flowers to class. We laughed about that too.

A week later he smashed.

He did everything wrong and still hit. You know why? Because she found him attractive.

I've seen this play out other times as well.

Sometimes their rules only apply to the men they have no intentions of fukking anyway.

That doesn't mean go out and be a simp

It just means that if she's into you, corny lines are better than not trying at all.

Because I could've smashed that same chick. But I took my sweet ass time.

 

[Ohene]

Depends on attraction level chief.

Well the average woman doesnt find the avg dude physically attractive like that or even care for that matter. Women are always more picky.

the average woman is not going to be giving serious play to the average dude until he proves himself. Stop selling these young nikkas dreams. Lol at 25% when you first meet a chick