Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Well the average woman doesnt find the avg dude physically attractive like that or even care for that matter. Women are always more picky.

the average woman is not going to be giving serious play to the average dude until he proves himself. Stop selling these young nikkas dreams. Lol at 25% when you first meet a chick
Idk how you living breh. I stopped dealing with women that showed initial low attraction before I settled down. You speaking from the perspective of a man not in a position of power when it comes to women.


Sounds like you deal with women that tolerate you as opposed to initiate. There's ways to change that but you seem to believe you have all the answers so proceed.
 

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Whats her red flags they concerned with?

Culture, age - she's one year older, I'm the first kid so they want someone from Nigeria

My head is heated. Part of me doesn't even want to put her through this incoming bullshyt
 

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Culture, age - she's one year older, I'm the first kid so they want someone from Nigeria

My head is heated. Part of me doesn't even want to put her through this incoming bullshyt

You're gonna have to expand on this a bit. There might be something else they're seeing.
 

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Idk how you living breh. I stopped dealing with women that showed initial low attraction before I settled down. You speaking from the perspective of a man not in a position of power when it comes to women.


Sounds like you deal with women that tolerate you as opposed to initiate. There's ways to change that but you seem to believe you have all the answers so proceed.
Just being realistic for the average man. But go ahead wilt chamberlain. Tell these dudes how to mack
 

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You're gonna have to expand on this a bit. There might be something else they're seeing.

I've found especially with African parents they have a real issue with some other black people. Ask anyone West Indian the heat they got when they met their Africans partners fam.

I used to seriously date a chick from Gambia. Her fam was not on it when they found out my dad was Jamaican, that was always a problem. Heard they were happy when me and her split
 

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Just being realistic for the average man. But go ahead wilt chamberlain. Tell these dudes how to mack
Has nothing to do with macking and everything to do with attraction. Women aren't telling their girls about the dudes that have to carry the conversation...they're telling their girls about the dude they're highly attracted to that they can't stop thinking about.

That's the dude you'd rather be as opposed to the one initiating every "good morning beautiful" "How is your day going?" text. I can speak like this because I've been that guy before and it sucks.


I've been on both sides of it...the only way to be in the position of power is to take actions that will increase your "sexual market value" as most dating coaches put it.
 

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Has nothing to do with macking and everything to do with attraction. Women aren't telling their girls about the dudes that have to carry the conversation...they're telling their girls about the dude they're highly attracted to that they can't stop thinking about.

That's the dude you'd rather be as opposed to the one initiating every "good morning beautiful" "How is your day going?" text. I can speak like this because I've been that guy before and it sucks.


I've been on both sides of it...the only way to be in the position of power is to take actions that will increase your "sexual market value" as most dating coaches put it.
I agree with all of this. Doesnt change what i said though
 

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What happen big homie

we were supposed to link last week, she hit me with that I’ll let you know shyt because she had “plans” but the week before when I asked her she said she was free. :martin:then when the days come she says nothing at all after we decided on the days. She be pulling weirdo shyt all the time, but I let her rock since we’ve been friends for so long. But to not give me that courtesy which she failed to do on multiple occasions is disrespectful to me and my time. Especially since I always make sure to give her the benefit of doubt. I don’t associate with people like that :camby:
 

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Anyone date a childhood friend?

Haven't talked to her in a minute but wanted to call her this week. Been hearing some things from her mom about us hooking up and all of that
:gurl:

Just throw out a tester and see if she's with it.
 
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