Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Real spit, but at the same time Im confused why a female would want to discourage a niqqa she's interested in --- I damn sure wouldnt do that to a female I was feeling (or at least I dont purposely). I dunno --- I guess there is something about me that is unlikeable to a lot of females --- or perhaps they have this entitlement about them, or maybe a mix of both. It seems like if I just turned my brain off and doggedly pursued, I would have more success.

Females sometimes go out of their way to not appear easy. They'll like a nikka, but wanna make him feel he has to earn it. Stupid ass logic on their part.
 

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Mixed signals are for people who enjoy wasting the time of others. Since guys constantly inflate girls' egos when they play these games, they have little to no incentive to change. Playing games with these types of girls helps enable this kind of crap. Cut them off.
 

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What do you guys think about the trend it seems of women wearing leopard print. Im noto one to judge quickly but is it a trend or something deeper?

She a trend hopper without a mind of her own. Jumpoff material.
 

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Females sometimes go out of their way to not appear easy. They'll like a nikka, but wanna make him feel he has to earn it. Stupid ass logic on their part.

some chicks act like they into u to see if ur into them. some use it mainly for ego stroking.
 

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I asked this in another thread, and I'll pose it here as well:

Serious question: Is aggressiveness, persistence, and overall a man's willingness to ignore mixed signals and continue advancement on a female the best overall qualities a man can have?

As an aside, on NYE my man's girlfriends friend was part of our group of partygoers. I was pleasant to shorty, but I interpreted her behavior as disinterest towards me, so I didnt really dance up on her and pursue her...Anyway, i woke up the next day receiving angry text messages from the other members of the group. Apparently she made it a point to ask "what was wrong with me" to them during the party, and out of frustration she left with another dude. I never picked up on any of that.

Ive noticed this pattern where I seem to upset girls because of my lack of aggressiveness. If I interpret a signal as disinterest in me, I completely abandon any and all pursuit. Its a hangup I suppose, but I just inclined to be gentlemanly and act within myself. That said, it seems like a lot of the females that I stop pursuing, end up angry towards me. I dont get it.

:mindblown: Now this is one of the things about females that kills me the most. Even if a chick is interested in you, who the fukk says you have to be interested in her too?! Maybe you just don't like the broad in that way, so what?! Does this chick like every dude that has ever shown interest in her? Maybe a dude just ain't interested, but they just can't accept it. You stated you were polite to her, so what's her fukking problem??? I don't get it.

As for those other people sending you angry text messages (and I don't, for the life of me, understand what it is to them whether you'd be interested in her or not), it sounds like you're better off without any of those people in your life and should probably start to make new friends who aren't so petty and know when to mind their own business. Bullshyt like this is why I'm really selective of who I hang with these days. I just stick mainly to (real) family personally.

Don't jump through hoops to impress any chick or inflate her lil female ego. If a broad is too stupid to let a man know in some way that she's interested, then she's not even worth the makeup on her face anyway.

I swear, people nowadays are just fukked up.
 

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:ohlawd: I think we've found a winner here, guys. :bow: This is an example of how looks can be deceiving. She looks like just another pretty Cali chick, but not only does she drop some gems for guys in what to look for in a woman, but her spiritual knowledge is prime time!!

Obviously if you're a church going christian, then she wouldn't be for you on anything more than a friendship level. But she shares a lot of similar spiritual views I do so this is the kind of woman I'd make my wife. Nonetheless, (because I don't want to divert from the thread theme) it's always a breath of fresh air to come across this kind of honesty and level headedness from a female since nowadays it is more rare than seeing a penguin with a gumby haircut wearing a business suit while flying a helicopter upside down.
 
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:mindblown: Now this is one of the things about females that kills me the most. Even if a chick is interested in you, who the fukk says you have to be interested in her too?! Maybe you just don't like the broad in that way, so what?! Does this chick like every dude that has ever shown interest in her? Maybe a dude just ain't interested, but they just can't accept it. You stated you were polite to her, so what's her fukking problem??? I don't get it.

As for those other people sending you angry text messages (and I don't, for the life of me, understand what it is to them whether you'd be interested in her or not), it sounds like you're better off without any of those people in your life and should probably start to make new friends who aren't so petty and know when to mind their own business. Bullshyt like this is why I'm really selective of who I hang with these days. I just stick mainly to (real) family personally.

Don't jump through hoops to impress any chick or inflate her lil female ego. If a broad is too stupid to let a man know in some way that she's interested, then she's not even worth the makeup on her face anyway.

I swear, people nowadays are just fukked up.

women depend on the thirst. and some men act like without that, theres nothing else in life. the thirst is another level of simpdom, as men are following women and doing whatever to get them. thirst dictates their whole lives. men who need women all the time are like the other coin side version of simps who are hungry for an emotional connection from a woman, and doing whatever to get it. thirst and simpery can go hand in hand, but all in all its just out of control behavior. it all leads to chasing women relentlessly and lowering your standards :wow:

and for the homie @No_bammer_weed you did what you supposed to if you wasnt feeling her. but if you wanted to get with her, you try and then dont give a fukk about rejection. so you did good. and thats just how it goes. dudes who are feeling themselves so much that they dont sweat any broad heavily are the ones who get the most out of the game, as they arent slow to be looking elsewhere and exploring other options that they like regardless.

so if her attitude, or something else made you not want to fukk with her, than you just step and go holla at some girl who was cooperative. make ol girl look even more stupid, while you handling your shyt and doin what you want having a good night.

its always good to never make the thirsty move or the depsereate attempts for ANY female. just go for shyt, and keep it moving in whichever direction it shall go. just dont lower your standards or self respect. I agree with not playing into the thirst and just focus on having fun out there and doing you. :boss:
 
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:ohlawd: I think we've found a winner here, guys. :bow: This is an example of how looks can be deceiving. She looks like just another pretty Cali chick, but not only does she drop some gems for guys in what to look for in a woman, but her spiritual knowledge is prime time!!

Obviously if you're a church going christian, then she wouldn't be for you on anything more than a friendship level. But she shares a lot of similar spiritual views I do so this is the kind of woman I'd make my wife. Nonetheless, (because I don't want to divert from the thread theme) it's always a breath of fresh air to come across this kind of honesty and level headedness from a female since nowadays it is more rare than seeing a penguin with a gumby haircut wearing a business suit while flying a helicopter upside down.

Lemme watch this
 

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:ohlawd: I think we've found a winner here, guys. :bow: This is an example of how looks can be deceiving. She looks like just another pretty Cali chick, but not only does she drop some gems for guys in what to look for in a woman, but her spiritual knowledge is prime time!!

Obviously if you're a church going christian, then she wouldn't be for you on anything more than a friendship level. But she shares a lot of similar spiritual views I do so this is the kind of woman I'd make my wife. Nonetheless, (because I don't want to divert from the thread theme) it's always a breath of fresh air to come across this kind of honesty and level headedness from a female since nowadays it is more rare than seeing a penguin with a gumby haircut wearing a business suit while flying a helicopter upside down.

:notimpressed:

Sounds like the typical I'm not like that broad
 

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How To Know When You Found a Good Girl - YouTube

:ohlawd: I think we've found a winner here, guys. :bow: This is an example of how looks can be deceiving. She looks like just another pretty Cali chick, but not only does she drop some gems for guys in what to look for in a woman, but her spiritual knowledge is prime time!!

Obviously if you're a church going christian, then she wouldn't be for you on anything more than a friendship level. But she shares a lot of similar spiritual views I do so this is the kind of woman I'd make my wife. Nonetheless, (because I don't want to divert from the thread theme) it's always a breath of fresh air to come across this kind of honesty and level headedness from a female since nowadays it is more rare than seeing a penguin with a gumby haircut wearing a business suit while flying a helicopter upside down.

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She talks about why Aliens aren't landing....she may be crazy.
 

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I had something similar to this brehs if anyone wants to ask questions let me know....

I have two clamps on my vas deferens that prevent me from excreting sperm and getting someone prego... In the future I would have to pay like 8,000 to get them removed but I dont think I ever will :yeshrug: I've already had a kid and im happy with my daughter, Im good on that.... My birth control failed me but I dont regret a thing :win: Even with this done I still protect myself, there is no way I want an STD :scusthov:


So you are saying that even WITH the clamps you still got a women pregnant?

I would be happy paying $8000 when I have found someone I want kids with, because in the long run I am saving more money anyways.

I remember someone posting up an article about the new birth control that is currently being tested in India, I have to do some more research on that.
 

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How To Know When You Found a Good Girl - YouTube

:ohlawd: I think we've found a winner here, guys. :bow: This is an example of how looks can be deceiving. She looks like just another pretty Cali chick, but not only does she drop some gems for guys in what to look for in a woman, but her spiritual knowledge is prime time!!

Obviously if you're a church going christian, then she wouldn't be for you on anything more than a friendship level. But she shares a lot of similar spiritual views I do so this is the kind of woman I'd make my wife. Nonetheless, (because I don't want to divert from the thread theme) it's always a breath of fresh air to come across this kind of honesty and level headedness from a female since nowadays it is more rare than seeing a penguin with a gumby haircut wearing a business suit while flying a helicopter upside down.

what she says makes sense. but i dont even trust that b1tch. she put up that video not to "drop a gem" but to garner attention.
 

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what she says makes sense. but i dont even trust that b1tch. she put up that video not to "drop a gem" but to garner attention.

Usually I'd think that too, but the rest of her videos are about spirituality which most people wouldn't be into if that's not where their interest lies.
 
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