Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Man, the quality of women as whole continues to decline as time progresses and I am seeing and hearing more outlandish shyt from them. I just watched a video(on worldstarhiphop and tommy sotomayor's commentary on the video on youtube) in which a young female was basically saying she loves to suck dikk BUT is waiting for the "right man" to have sex with. This is some straight bullshyt. Now granted, the chick is ratchet but I am certain there are appear-to-be classy females who have this same train of thought and act accordingly. As it has been said many times before, it is disheartening that men,at least those with high standards, have to sort through these types of females in order to find quality ones.

Sucking dikk to alot of women these days is just like a hug or a kiss


Here's a story for you, years ago in my unrighteous days I met a girl of the ibternet the first day I met her she gave me a blowjob, however she would not allow me to finger her, grope a titty, or even kiss her. i had to wait a month before i couls smash in case i was just a hit it and quit it type of dude in her mind, but she had no problem slobbing on my dikk, 15 min after meeting her.


Funny thing some poor sucker knocked her up with twins and she's married now to him, doubt he knows his wife was slobbing on my dikk 15 min after meeting her for the first time
 

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I had a couple of homeboys who had successes with dealing with chicks in the workplace and they both are married to them, but the job they met them at were jobs they were comfortable with losing. Neither one of them still works at the job they met their wife at. It wasn't some huge, important, life-defining career type job. If you actually need your job, I'd be real careful about dealing with workplace chicks... especially knowing how chicks can be so cool when you're just friendly with them and can transform once you start dealing with them on a deeper level.

ALWAYS do your research on a chick. Ask the homies that work up at the job about her and see what comes up. A lot of times, that will give you some very important information.

It's amazing how folks will do research on a car, get a home inspector to inspect a house before they buy, even for a little videogame read a review

Yet men will jump right into dating a woman just because she looks good

A frog is a frog if you don't know any better you may pick up a poisonous frog but if you do your research you will know whih is poisnonous and which is not
 

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when it comes to dating, i really dont discriminate. but there's a certain race of girls that treats sucking d1ck too casually. as for the story reinca told a few post earlier, this is all too common nowadays with girls. and there are some b1tchmade n1ggas who do the same...eating puccy of chicks they just met. so we cant attribute this foolishness just to women.

i think when STD testing girls should have tissues / sample from their mouth examined. cause if u tested that, u'd be shocked at the findings.
 

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Any of yall run into a chick who talks about her friends being situations... and you get feeling she's talking about her self? Like, fishing for a reaction or opinion on her "friend"...
 

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Any of yall run into a chick who talks about her friends being situations... and you get feeling she's talking about her self? Like, fishing for a reaction or opinion on her "friend"...

There's a saying you are what your friends are, if she's talking about all thee ratchet situations regarding her friends she's probably ratchet herself
 

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I asked this in another thread, and I'll pose it here as well:

Serious question: Is aggressiveness, persistence, and overall a man's willingness to ignore mixed signals and continue advancement on a female the best overall qualities a man can have?

As an aside, on NYE my man's girlfriends friend was part of our group of partygoers. I was pleasant to shorty, but I interpreted her behavior as disinterest towards me, so I didnt really dance up on her and pursue her...Anyway, i woke up the next day receiving angry text messages from the other members of the group. Apparently she made it a point to ask "what was wrong with me" to them during the party, and out of frustration she left with another dude. I never picked up on any of that.

Ive noticed this pattern where I seem to upset girls because of my lack of aggressiveness. If I interpret a signal as disinterest in me, I completely abandon any and all pursuit. Its a hangup I suppose, but I just inclined to be gentlemanly and act within myself. That said, it seems like a lot of the females that I stop pursuing, end up angry towards me. I dont get it.
 

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brehs how do yall deal with needy females ? dealing with the first one like this and I'm clueless
 

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That said, it seems like a lot of the females that I stop pursuing, end up angry towards me. I dont get it.

They want you to make a move, cuz they gave you a "sign" lol and when you dont they lose their shyt. "All these other nikkas on me why u aint?"
 

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They want you to make a move, cuz they gave you a "sign" lol and when you dont they lose their shyt. "All these other nikkas on me why u aint?"

Thats exactly how it played out. Niqqas was trying to dance with her all night (shorty is bad), and she was openly flirting with a lot of other niqqas but never me tho, so I figured she wasnt interested. Thats why all this anger the next day towards me is confusing. Dont get it. I never dissed her or anything --- I just didnt sweat her.
 

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I asked this in another thread, and I'll pose it here as well:

Serious question: Is aggressiveness, persistence, and overall a man's willingness to ignore mixed signals and continue advancement on a female the best overall qualities a man can have?

As an aside, on NYE my man's girlfriends friend was part of our group of partygoers. I was pleasant to shorty, but I interpreted her behavior as disinterest towards me, so I didnt really dance up on her and pursue her...Anyway, i woke up the next day receiving angry text messages from the other members of the group. Apparently she made it a point to ask "what was wrong with me" to them during the party, and out of frustration she left with another dude. I never picked up on any of that.

Ive noticed this pattern where I seem to upset girls because of my lack of aggressiveness. If I interpret a signal as disinterest in me, I completely abandon any and all pursuit. Its a hangup I suppose, but I just inclined to be gentlemanly and act within myself. That said, it seems like a lot of the females that I stop pursuing, end up angry towards me. I dont get it.

It's pure ego. :pachaha:
 

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I asked this in another thread, and I'll pose it here as well:

Serious question: Is aggressiveness, persistence, and overall a man's willingness to ignore mixed signals and continue advancement on a female the best overall qualities a man can have?

As an aside, on NYE my man's girlfriends friend was part of our group of partygoers. I was pleasant to shorty, but I interpreted her behavior as disinterest towards me, so I didnt really dance up on her and pursue her...Anyway, i woke up the next day receiving angry text messages from the other members of the group. Apparently she made it a point to ask "what was wrong with me" to them during the party, and out of frustration she left with another dude. I never picked up on any of that.

Ive noticed this pattern where I seem to upset girls because of my lack of aggressiveness. If I interpret a signal as disinterest in me, I completely abandon any and all pursuit. Its a hangup I suppose, but I just inclined to be gentlemanly and act within myself. That said, it seems like a lot of the females that I stop pursuing, end up angry towards me. I dont get it.

Tell her that directly to stop playing games and stop being an attention whore.
 

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I asked this in another thread, and I'll pose it here as well:

Serious question: Is aggressiveness, persistence, and overall a man's willingness to ignore mixed signals and continue advancement on a female the best overall qualities a man can have?

As an aside, on NYE my man's girlfriends friend was part of our group of partygoers. I was pleasant to shorty, but I interpreted her behavior as disinterest towards me, so I didnt really dance up on her and pursue her...Anyway, i woke up the next day receiving angry text messages from the other members of the group. Apparently she made it a point to ask "what was wrong with me" to them during the party, and out of frustration she left with another dude. I never picked up on any of that.

Ive noticed this pattern where I seem to upset girls because of my lack of aggressiveness. If I interpret a signal as disinterest in me, I completely abandon any and all pursuit. Its a hangup I suppose, but I just inclined to be gentlemanly and act within myself. That said, it seems like a lot of the females that I stop pursuing, end up angry towards me. I dont get it.

I'm the EXACT same way. I'm not about to be doing magic tricks for these chicks. Too many females out here to be concerned with one who's playing games.
 

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I'm the EXACT same way. I'm not about to be doing magic tricks for these chicks. Too many females out here to be concerned with one who's playing games.

Real spit, but at the same time Im confused why a female would want to discourage a niqqa she's interested in --- I damn sure wouldnt do that to a female I was feeling (or at least I dont purposely). I dunno --- I guess there is something about me that is unlikeable to a lot of females --- or perhaps they have this entitlement about them, or maybe a mix of both. It seems like if I just turned my brain off and doggedly pursued, I would have more success.
 

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What do you guys think about the trend it seems of women wearing leopard print. Im noto one to judge quickly but is it a trend or something deeper?
 
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