Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[killacal]

Man, i have been red pill for almost a year now, reading this thread, reading blogs, being apart of the "manosphere". It's crazy when i go out with friends and they have single girls around with them, i don't even get excited or worked up trying to impress them anymore. I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing but i feel completely indifferent to the lives and thoughts of women around me. This is me around women now.

GIFSoup

Im the same way but kinda naturally picked up on things in highschool. I never sweated chicks and it payed dividends for me to just be myself. And now Im 24 and watching dudes chase hoes whose actual goal is to get chased Its a rat race to nowhere. Dudes are lining up to attempt a shot on the carnival rims with a lid on it And when you dont play that game its like they take the lid of the rim at the carnival swish

 

[Wild self]

One of the guys that I respect most is one of the guys I grew up with, my best friend Erik. He made it a distinct point to never, ever let his standards slip, even in the coldest of cold streaks. That's not to say all the women he's been with have been 10's, but what it does say is that he never stopped believing that he himself deserved the best he could possibly get, and if maintaining that high standard of exclusivity for who he hooked up with or dated meant foregoing easier p*ssy along the way, it meant an occasional dry spell. A lot of guys fall into the trap of, "HURR fukk FATTIES AND WORK YOUR WAY UP!!" No, no, no, no, NO! You'll lower your dating field to uglier girls that you hook up with and word will get around about your "fukk anything that moves" kind of ways.

You know how certain night clubs attract the hottest and most beautiful women? They act extra exclusive. The admission is expensive unless you know the manager. The drinks are expensive. The lines will be made purposely to be VERY long and the door men will only let in the hottest girls. And rightfully so. They have a business to run and by inflating their worth by making it seem like they can only allow the hottest girls in causes women to desperately try to prove their self-worth by being one of the women who was able to make the list. Getting women to desperately clamor to get in is what gets the men to be willing to shell out hundreds of dollars to pay to get in and pay for such overpriced drinks. All of that money goes toward paying for headliner artists, which in turn causes the girls to clamor even harder to get let in. It's a beautiful synergy.

It's something that needs to be embraced by the brehthren reading this. It'll go a long way for you, exclusivity. Especially if it comes from a place of self-respect and lack of willingness to demand less than the best for yourself.

So damn true. Good business model, but few men eat in prosperity. Always aim high and always learn something new.

 

[bloodsimple.]

Man, i have been red pill for almost a year now, reading this thread, reading blogs, being apart of the "manosphere". It's crazy when i go out with friends and they have single girls around with them, i don't even get excited or worked up trying to impress them anymore. I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing but i feel completely indifferent to the lives and thoughts of women around me. This is me around women now.

GIFSoup

This is me lately to a fault. I'm actually not even trying to go out and date anymore really...

What's the point in doing it right now anyway knowing what we all know about the nature of the game? If you're not at your best, you're gonna get compromised and I feel like I'm not there yet.

I see myself as that boxer who realizes he's gonna need years of training before he's ready to step back into the ring again.

For reference, my cheating story happened well-before I got clued-in to the reality of the situation some 3+ years ago. Ever since then (while I haven't exactly been apart of the manosphere) I've been on a mission to improve myself and get used to this new world of hypergamy through reading similar stories and blogs posted in this thread.

I was on the misc section of bodybuilding.com for a while which had the same idea that you brehs have, but they took it to a way negative and more loser-ish extreme.

Even before then, I had always wondered "can women ever REALLY be happy?"

And in one single word, everything was explained to me (more or less) and my reality change.

HYPERGAMY.

 

[Jason B]

The female who wrote this aint about shyt. I notice that many modern day women love to justify any kind of wrongdoing until they are forced to have to deal with the consequences. Then, they begin complaining about the very things that they brought on themselves, acting like victims and looking for SIMPathy from others especially from men.

 

[kevm3]

That's one of the absolute biggest ways you will get played is being way too sympathetic, aka feeling sorry for some woman... because more times than not, she doesn't want to be saved and she won't appreciate you saving her either. Paying her bills, her school, all of that is a no-no. The sad thing is that these women ask and try to manipulate men to do these things and lose respect for them once they do.

What men need to understand, your financial resources and your time is just like a woman's vagina. If she gives that up to you easily, you lose respect for her. Women try to play you out of favors, time, and finances. If you come up off of that easily, they lose their respect for you.

 

[Jason B]

Powerful breh, powerful



I think about this from time to time. When I was 17, 18...my mind was pure, innocent. I had been in a few relationships by then but, I was still overall untained. Then I met that bytch who shall remain nameless and she shattered all that Cory Matthews Boy Meets World idealism I was on.....and now at 24, I'm pretty much at most of these broads. I've seen some things I can never un-see



I think about it because you dont want to end up bitter. But if you dont have your guard up, these chicks will play you. They'll eat you alive out here The dating game is like some virus spreading, infecting one person after the next. Girl really loves a boy and he takes advantage of her, so she takes it out on the next dude, that dude becomes a player and hurts the next girl, and so on, and eventually you end up in this cess pool today where everybody jaded with emotional baggage.

This some chick from some tv show I ran across yesterday but, she reminds me of the ideal chick I'd see myself with. Not because she white But because she just comes off real cheerful, innocent, pure, good person to be around. But even if I met that sort of ideal chick, i dont know, id always have doubts She'd only get 98%....and thats kinda fukked up because had I met her years ago, she would've got 100%. Both men and women do it. People give the bad ones unconditional everything, then after a few failed relationships, bring the good ones some fragmented, scarred versions of themselves.






TL/DR: these bytches is crazy be careful out here. just dont be too guarded. you might meet the one thats for you and in order to truly be happy, you got to let her in brehs, even if it means going against everything you're dating experience has taught you

Cosign. My mindset was almost parallel to yours when I was much younger. When you are raised to be a decent, morally upstanding person and live accordingly as humanly possible, you assume that everyone else is raised the same way and live in a similar manner. However, as you become older, you learn the hard way that everyone does not value a decent and morally upstanding lifestyle.

As a result, your perception is shattered and you begin to question whether or not that everything you were taught as a child was a complete lie. Quite frankly, it does leave a bitter taste in one's mouth, causing him or her to become very distrustful of everything and everyone. I struggle with being extremely distrustful and guarded when dealing with people. I know I should not feel this way because it is unhealthy for the mind but it is very hard to not have this feeling especially when you see how many people have the "wrong is right, right is wrong" mentality.

 

[Jason B]

That's one of the absolute biggest ways you will get played is being way too sympathetic, aka feeling sorry for some woman... because more times than not, she doesn't want to be saved and she won't appreciate you saving her either. Paying her bills, her school, all of that is a no-no. The sad thing is that these women ask and try to manipulate men to do these things and lose respect for them once they do.

What men need to understand, your financial resources and your time is just like a woman's vagina. If she gives that up to you easily, you lose respect for her. Women try to play you out of favors, time, and finances. If you come up off of that easily, they lose their respect for you.

This is real talk. The thing is, there are lot of ignorant dudes who still believe that they can save women from their problems despite it being quite evident that a man cannot and SHOULD NOT even attempt to play superhero for a female because it always results in failure across the board.

 

[Wild self]

Cosign. My mindset was almost parallel to yours when I was much younger. When you are raised to be a decent, morally upstanding person and live accordingly as humanly possible, you assume that everyone else is raised the same way and live in a similar manner. However, as you become older, you learn the hard way that everyone does not value a decent and morally upstanding lifestyle.

As a result, your perception is shattered and you begin to question whether or not that everything you were taught as a child was a complete lie. Quite frankly, it does leave a bitter taste in one's mouth, causing him or her to become very distrustful of everything and everyone. I struggle with being extremely distrustful and guarded when dealing with people. I know I should not feel this way because it is unhealthy for the mind but it is very hard to not have this feeling especially when you see how many people have the "wrong is right, right is wrong" mentality.

It also teaches you to re-program our nature from protecting women to straight shytting on them.

 

[kevm3]

Yessir, this image right here is the fate for you super sympathetic men out there who want to be too soft on these women and not believe what in the world we're telling you... You're playing daddy while some other negro gets it going on and floods her womb. He gets the pleasure, you get the responsibility.

 

[Jason B]

So damn true. Good business model, but few men eat in prosperity. Always aim high and always learn something new.

Yup. I have always been told by most of the men in my family that you have to view yourself like a Fortune 500 company because a Fortune 500 company has high standards and therefore, it is not going to even consider subpar applicants.

 

[bloodsimple.]

Yessir, this image right here is the fate for you super sympathetic men out there who want to be too soft on these women and not believe what in the world we're telling you... You're playing daddy while some other negro gets it going on and floods her womb. He gets the pleasure, you get the responsibility.

I love women, but that doesn't mean I'm going to or simp for one ever again.

 

[darius19]

What do you feel guys feel about couples who buy each other TONS of gifts?

I see this shyt in college relationships all the time, seems like every week dudes are spending their part-time paycheck to buy their girl something new, and then, to their credit, most girls will return the favour once in a while. I find it crazy that people in college who are already piling up debt have so much money to freely spend on their S/O, especially when they haven't been dating that long.

 

[Jason B]

I love women, but that doesn't mean I'm going to or simp for one ever again.

For me, it is extremely hard to love and respect ANY woman at this point in my life given all the foul shyt I have seen numerous women do. Sometimes, a part of me feels that I should just dog women out for the fukk of it. But on the other hand, I do have a conscience due to my upbringing which, in my opinion, has been counterproductive based on personal experience.

 

[bloodsimple.]

For me, it is extremely hard to love and respect ANY woman at this point in my life given all the foul shyt I have seen numerous women do. Sometimes, a part of me feels that I should just dog women out for the fukk of it. But on the other hand, I do have a conscience due to my upbringing which, in my opinion, has been counterproductive based on personal experience.

I feel you. I used to think just like you.

I had seen some shyt and I wanted to hold every woman responsible for it. Suddenly every girl I looked at was the devil incarnate and I would just shake my head . I would feel guilty about crushing on a chick, and hate myself for it because, in my mind, I knew where this would head: me getting compromised somehow. I thought that catching feelings automatically equaled being weak, and I would look at dudes in relationships like , "you know what's gonna happen, right? "

So if I ever liked a girl, I would disregard that shyt with the quickness after a while.

The truth is, as it is with anything, some individuals earn your respect and admiration, and others get tossed to the bushes.

Women are no different. Nobody's perfect.

Because of that, in the future, I'm going to avoid the foul women and I won't give the "good" ones any incentive to hit me with that dirt.

There's a big difference between love and simping and I'm not ashamed to say that I'm still learning the differences (the obvious stuff is easy, though: don't buy her shyt...etc.), but this will help the quality of women that I attract.

It's like dude said earlier in the thread, if you attract the highest quality people like a fortune 500 company, you won't get any of that low quality behavior that we've both seen and know all too well.

 

[Captain Crunch]

exactly. piss off ur woman and see what she'll do to get back at u. a woman that decides to flirt with other men (jjust to get u jealous or anger u), a woman that does sh1t along those lines are to be immediately crossed off the list of wifey material.

i was watching a movie a couple of days ago. these two girls found out they were dating the same guy. so they both planned to show up in his apartment at the same time. when the guy was confronted by both of them, and as the movie played on, u can tell which one of the girls actually cared for him.

one of the girls cussed him out, called him all sorts of sh1t, called him short. the other girl was angry, but she kept whatever she said on a leveled playing field. called him a pathological liar but didn't say anything that can be considered lowblow or "defects" she found in him. at the end of the movie, the guys mother dies, and guess who's there to console him, and making funeral arrangements for him? the girl who didn't insult him.

yeah i know its just a movie. but, something to think about.

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