Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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philmonroe
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Didn't read this whole thread but here is an article that reminded me of something that Kevm3 had said before about Charlatans. Dude that wrote this article trying to be on that Steve Harvey pandering to women train. I like how reading the comments dude didn't answer the question if he would mess with a chick that was in a gangbang with people he knew. Also was laughing at how women and some men don't like double standards but will be the first one that can't put a dime towards the courting process or ask a man out. Funny I tell ya.
How Many Men She Slept With Shouldn't Matter - Relationship Expert
How Many Men She Slept With Shouldn't Matter - Relationship Expert
i am liberated, i am free. even before back in teh day with my mindset i still held out a little bit of hope, i was still on dating and social sites, still going out on dates hoping, well those days are done i could say, i dont even have a facebook, a twitter, a attentionwhoregram, a dating profile nothing. Once in a while ill just head to pof or ok cupid do a search in my area and chuckle at all these women who are on the path to cat ladies,.
What is everyone's thoughts in this situation: My cousin has been w/ this chick for 18 months, he loves her, she has always been there for him when he needed her. She brings him food to work all the time and when he misses one of her family functions she saves him a plate and takes it to him. She isnt materialistic and is satisfied and appreciates the small things/gestures. She pays on dates and stays giving him bomb gifts. He once mentioned to her in passing that he needed a new cover for his iron board and later that day she brought him one
anyways he is thinking about using some of his tax refund i guess as a down payment for an e-ring and then he hopes to pay the rest off within a year
anyways he is thinking about using some of his tax refund i guess as a down payment for an e-ring and then he hopes to pay the rest off within a year
These dudes dive into debt buying rings, having weddings, going on honeymoons, paying off her credit cards and student loans and buying a big house in the suburbs that they dont need.
These dudes dive into debt buying rings, having weddings, going on honeymoons, paying off her credit cards and student loans and buying a big house in the suburbs that they dont need.
well thats not the case in his situation but thanks
MadameMoreaux
Pro
"Hypergamy simply means womens base sexual nature is attracted to a higher status in relation to herself. In other words, if she does not look up to a man in some way, she will not be attracted to that man. The higher status can be on one or more characteristics which is why the unemployed musician can often date a woman who has job and disposable income. She may make more money but she looks up to his musical talents, and he may be physically good looking to boot, despite not having a job, money or a car and so therefore her hypergamous attraction instincts are satisfied in mating with him, despite her higher socio-economic status."
I agree with this.
I admire all of the things that I find attractive about my husband. His love for God, his honesty, his dignity, his compassion. It's hard to allow a man to lead you and your family if you don't "look up to" or admire him. I only hope that he passes on those traits to our children.
I don't think I agree with the notion that women are incapable of giving or receiving true love though. It is in a womans nature to give love. That is why god entrusted us to be the primary caregivers for children. I know that many mothers withstand abusive or unfulfilling relationships out of pure love for their children. A lot of women are loving to a fault.
Not to say that men aren't capable of loving, because I definitely feel loved and cherished by my husband father and brother.
This is a brief cheat sheet that I've put together in regards to how to deal with women.
1. Never argue with a woman.
Always talk calmly. Say what you have to say clearly and only once. Women like to have you repeat yourself so that they can talk you into a circle. Abruptly end the conversation with "We'll continue this conversation when you decide to actually listen."
2. Never fight over a woman.
You'll never have to fight for a woman who wants to be with you.
3. Always be yourself
Impressing women have been the downfall of all men. Be yourself, and either she's with it, or she'll be about her way. Why waste your time on a woman who doesn't like you for who you really are?
4. Take Care Of Yourself
Do things to better yourself, not to impress women. Don't get a car because you think it will make women like you. Get a car because it's something you want. Stay well groomed, well dressed, and steadily improving... not because you want to attract women, but because it will make you feel good about yourself and gain confidence
5. Confidence Trumps All
Do all the things you need to do to feel confident. The way you feel about yourself will exude in all that you do, and all that you come in contact with
6. Don't Talk About It, Be About It
Confident is the acquired result of being aware of your strengths and weaknesses. If you know you can do something, instead of talking about it just do it. Instead of talking about all the women you can get, go get these women
7. Do Not Save Her
Contrary to what society tells you, your job as a man is not to take care of some woman. Your job is to be the best man you can be. If you're a good person genuinely, this will carry over into your relationship. Do not make a woman make you feel pressured into changing her world. Stay away from these needy women.
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1. Never argue with a woman.
Always talk calmly. Say what you have to say clearly and only once. Women like to have you repeat yourself so that they can talk you into a circle. Abruptly end the conversation with "We'll continue this conversation when you decide to actually listen."
2. Never fight over a woman.
You'll never have to fight for a woman who wants to be with you.
3. Always be yourself
Impressing women have been the downfall of all men. Be yourself, and either she's with it, or she'll be about her way. Why waste your time on a woman who doesn't like you for who you really are?
4. Take Care Of Yourself
Do things to better yourself, not to impress women. Don't get a car because you think it will make women like you. Get a car because it's something you want. Stay well groomed, well dressed, and steadily improving... not because you want to attract women, but because it will make you feel good about yourself and gain confidence
5. Confidence Trumps All
Do all the things you need to do to feel confident. The way you feel about yourself will exude in all that you do, and all that you come in contact with
6. Don't Talk About It, Be About It
Confident is the acquired result of being aware of your strengths and weaknesses. If you know you can do something, instead of talking about it just do it. Instead of talking about all the women you can get, go get these women
7. Do Not Save Her
Contrary to what society tells you, your job as a man is not to take care of some woman. Your job is to be the best man you can be. If you're a good person genuinely, this will carry over into your relationship. Do not make a woman make you feel pressured into changing her world. Stay away from these needy women.
more to come
" if a guy steps on a land mine and gets his leg blown off, it never grows back. The deep, overwhelming, all-consuming love that a young man is capable of feeling for a woman is only possible from a state of innocence and the ability to trust absolutely. Once a man has had that love used one too many times to exploit him and screw him over, he loses his ability to trust in it. Use something as a weapon against a man too many times, and he will find a way to disarm you."
someone dapped this thought id bump it again
Scustin Trillberlake
Banned
Powerful.
