Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs that are strictly sex, how do y’all move? I understand it’s a numbers game but I kinda fell back on finding new fuxkbuddies for a while cuz I can’t find a girl that’s just dtf and nothing else. When she low key thirsting over me but dry up once she finds out I just wanna pipe:mjcry:. I’d appreciate tips from brehs that are straight with it, not the ones that be lying to these women:yeshrug:
 

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Brehs that are strictly sex, how do y’all move? I understand it’s a numbers game but I kinda fell back on finding new fuxkbuddies for a while cuz I can’t find a girl that’s just dtf and nothing else. When she low key thirsting over me but dry up once she finds out I just wanna pipe:mjcry:. I’d appreciate tips from brehs that are straight with it, not the ones that be lying to these women:yeshrug:
Sounds like you're overcommunicating your intentions. Find a chick, smash, then string her along until she stops responding to your texts. Whats the problem?
 

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Brehs that are strictly sex, how do y’all move? I understand it’s a numbers game but I kinda fell back on finding new fuxkbuddies for a while cuz I can’t find a girl that’s just dtf and nothing else. When she low key thirsting over me but dry up once she finds out I just wanna pipe:mjcry:. I’d appreciate tips from brehs that are straight with it, not the ones that be lying to these women:yeshrug:

I have three on the roster who are up for regular sex and hanging out. 1 I've known for a year and a half she's very good. We both have a true FWB situation and are very clear about what our needs and wants are.

1 I fukked just before Covid hit hard and everyone had to stay indoors and not mingle, she will get in touch every 2 weeks to hang out, maybe eat something and have sex, and 1 I started talking to a few weeks ago who is damn near insatiable.

I just basically told them variations of where I'm at, i.e not in a relationship space but open to things and it's up to them if they want to still see me.

Now I'm not saying that it's all about fukking we casually hang, we occasionally watch something and most importantly I'm open and honest with them. No point lying to these broads, it just makes things more complicated than they need to be. If she knows the levels she can act accordingly.

Now I'm sure you know all of this is for naught if the pipe game is weak, she has to know that you know how to send her off happy and she'll do the same to you.
 

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Hey bruh.


I thought about it and while i'd love to have one and visit her every few months or so/see her when she comes home... I don't know the intricacies of what this LDR would entail.


Law school, from my understanding, is gruesome as hell.


She seems in it for me, but she also said last week, when i brought up how she felt, she said that she didn't want me to get too invested (and i paraphrase), in the event she commits to Law school in AZ.


Lo and fukkin' behold, she does the following week.


But she did tell me over the weekend that the only reservation/thing holder her back from going was me. We were drunk as hell coming back from the house party when she mentioned it. I know what y'all going to say; go by what does does, never what she says.


You know the idea that people come in and out of our lives... everything I learned since meeting her (last Thanksgiving), i'll take with me for the rest of my life.


Crazy that even at this stage in my existence, I evolved so much as a human.


Learned how to love, be patient, be anxious and share my heart/care for someone else and realize that this world really ain't just about me (i've been selfish for the longest).


I know a lot of y'all would tell me to just leave her/let it be and allow her to go her own path.



But if i'm lying than i'm flying: I've dating dozens of women, had a few long term relationships and i've never felt this alive and normal (not saying i'm dependent on her for my happiness, but I would be lying if i said i wasn't still healing from self resentment, regret and guilt of doing my ex of 5 years dirty).



When you connect, and you have chemistry and you feel as tho they are your soul mate... you want to make it last like Keith.



I'm gonna drop a bomb on y'all... Since we first met, in November, she told me she would be busy studying for LSAT and wouldnbe be free until January.


Long story short, CORONA hit and we remained chatting through phone/texts and i finally didn't get to meet her again until mid April.



We hung out another time in May for my Beeday.



But this month alone, I've already seen her 3 times, and the 4th time this weekend to drive out to the coast of Washington (she's bringing her cousin along, but that's fine, even tho i wanted exclusive time with her).



I still have anxiety about our relationship, and it's even worse now that she's leaving.



Perhaps, I wasn't done healing and may have been subconsciously holding on to her because i lost love (my mom and ex) within a short period of time, and the flings were simply masking my pain...until i met her.




It's gone to the point where i've been unhealthily obsessing over her... and even when i try to sabotage our union with massive texts and pour my heart... she always comes back. Same day every time... as if she thrives off of it.



The key take away has been the past couple weeks and how much more we've connected and seeing her interact with my friends. It's such a big deal.


This is why she wants me to meet her cousin this weekend... now that i look at everything, perhaps... the Long Distance aspect may be a considerable/viable option.



What do you guys think, for this reformed simp gone back to simpin?

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I think you simping a little too much breh, but if she doesn’t have a problem with it who am I to judge.
 

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Brehs that are strictly sex, how do y’all move? I understand it’s a numbers game but I kinda fell back on finding new fuxkbuddies for a while cuz I can’t find a girl that’s just dtf and nothing else. When she low key thirsting over me but dry up once she finds out I just wanna pipe:mjcry:. I’d appreciate tips from brehs that are straight with it, not the ones that be lying to these women:yeshrug:
The thing is if you about the dtf life you’ll have to get use to more rejections because of social conditioning.
 

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Its interesting how some of your own female relatives will feel some kind of way and hate just because you have standards when it comes to the type of women you choose to deal with. Men never tell the women in their family they should deal with a lowlife - ever. It literally never happens.

Someone asked in this thread if anyone has toxic female relatives....the answer is yes. :francis:
 

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Its interesting how some of your own female relatives will feel some kind of way and hate just because you have standards when it comes to the type of women you choose to deal with. Men never tell the women in their family they should deal with a lowlife - ever. It literally never happens.

Someone asked in this thread if anyone has toxic female relatives....the answer is yes. :francis:

Your female family members usually want you to go after whack women and to not be the type of man they are actually attracted to........
 

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Your female family members usually want you to go after whack women and to not be the type of man they are actually attracted to........

Cos deep down they know they're birds themselves, therefore you rejecting women of the same calibre is a reflection on them too.

The difference between men and women is that even if a dude knows he's a no good bum he'll never want a family member to date someone like him. He always wants better for them.
 

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Cos deep down they know they're birds themselves, therefore you rejecting women of the same calibre is a reflection on them too.

The difference between men and women is that even if a dude knows he's a no good bum he'll never want a family member to date someone like him. He always wants better for them.

you have to look at how they treat younger female family Members too, they usually do not mind them sharing the same misery
 

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And to keep it a buck she kinda chubby...like belly wise..it doesnt look hela sloppy or nothn but u can tell ...but her face and arms look normal...

Like if she lost 25 pounds she might be a strong 8

Post up your matches
 

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Be pen pals brehs.

What’s gona happen is, y’all will talk so much online and she’ll never wana meet up cause she enjoyed your “online” personality.

I have some girl on hinge talking about “let’s exchange travel stories”

:mjtf:
 
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Its interesting how some of your own female relatives will feel some kind of way and hate just because you have standards when it comes to the type of women you choose to deal with. Men never tell the women in their family they should deal with a lowlife - ever. It literally never happens.

Someone asked in this thread if anyone has toxic female relatives....the answer is yes. :francis:
In my experience men are on that hating shyt also, they just hide it a bit better
 
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