Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

Y’all better start approaching even with your mask on. A lot of these women are thirsty for interaction. Just have fun with it, don’t be too focused on just bagging. The cheat code is actually “getting to know her” and her “interest”

It all comes together

 

[Icantspell]

Never fully replicate the energy. Always make sure to stay below the 50% interest in a relationship/flow. Even if you really really like her, never express it. As soon as you are 51% more invested into actually speaking or hanging out with a female, you lost.


That means she is 49% invested and will likely feel too attractive for you as a whole and start to become the witch.


Women want to be lowkey insecure about the men they are feeling tbh.

im losing fr

 

[InGodWeTrust]

I dont want this fitness chick. Shes a vegetarian, about a 6-7, and wouldnt like that I drink and

Friend zoning her. Shes nice

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I dont want this fitness chick. Shes a vegetarian, about a 6-7, and wouldnt like that I drink and

Friend zoning her. Shes nice

Whats bad about her being a vegetarian?

 

[InGodWeTrust]

Whats bad about her being a vegetarian?

She don't even eat seafood. I'm good.

The teacher chick: sent a "good morning handsome" text. Shes only 27 and about a cool 7 that cleans up her "around the way girl" look very well and could be a dime.

My Caribbean date must be at work. Really like her despite her having very small t*ts in person. I love her accent and shes in school for electrical engineering (28 yrs old).

Matched with a young chick on okcupid and she's already talking about "looking to get into something" as far as smoking, drinking etc. I don't trust that kind of forward woman. Not inviting her to the place or responding.

My best friend from back home said she wants to get pregnant in August. Said she loves me and always has since college freshmen year where we were intimate and almost relationship status. She's getting divorced and back in my hometown. I got more life to live and she kinda blew up after having a miscarriage.

Crazy times.

 

[Astroslik]

Whats bad about her being a vegetarian?

A lot of them are annoying judgmental. Can’t eat shyt without them critiquing and their holier than though attitude.

 

[Astroslik]

She don't even eat seafood. I'm good.

The teacher chick: sent a "good morning handsome" text. Shes only 27 and about a cool 7 that cleans up her "around the way girl" look very well and could be a dime.

My Caribbean date must be at work. Really like her despite her having very small t*ts in person. I love her accent and shes in school for electrical engineering (28 yrs old).

Matched with a young chick on okcupid and she's already talking about "looking to get into something" as far as smoking, drinking etc. I don't trust that kind of forward woman. Not inviting her to the place or responding.

My best friend from back home said she wants to get pregnant in August. Said she loves me and always has since college freshmen year where we were intimate and almost relationship status. She's getting divorced and back in my hometown. I got more life to live and she kinda blew up after having a miscarriage.

Crazy times.

That’s a huge leap and she can’t ever be a dime. She’s a 7. People aren’t dolled up 24/7 and you can’t count makeup enhancements/weave towards natural beauty.

 

[InGodWeTrust]

That’s a huge leap and she can’t ever be a dime. She’s a 7. People aren’t dolled up 24/7 and you can’t count makeup enhancements/weave towards natural beauty.

true shes bout an 8 at best

 

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[Rocket Scientist]

Aight brehs.I met a woman at the gym she is an employee real bad looks like Keri Hilson .We chit chat she told me she might be interested yet doesn't wanna date etc. Also told me she got my # since I'm a member and she gonna reach out. Over the weekend I see her social media,I found pics from year or so of her and her ex I also notice she be on his page .So at this point im not even interested .The last 3 days she been giving me these up&down looks.I catch her staring ,peeping I'm basically at this ignoring her.Is ol girl looking to use me as rebound or is she creepin?Seems like she playing hard to get .She also happen to study physcology in college

 

[Max.]

I got this girl # from bumble...she crazy pretty...tittys n ass big ..but she like 20 pounds overweight...


Im not perfect either...maybe this can be FWB

 

[Babymama Magnet]

Day 22

- Saw this curly haired white slight bohemian chick in the supermarket.. i was actually checking her out from behind. She looked good . I don't pay much attention and go about my business doing my shopping. As i'm going back to pick up some drink i cross paths with her (and her friend she was with). Gave her eye contact (showing interested expression) and held it as i walked past. About a second or so later i look back and i see that she does the same.. Ok cool so she has interest. I didn't make my move because i'm still gonna get my drink but i decide to hang around a bit instead of going straight to the tills.

About a minute later shes comes to my area without her friend. We briefly lock eyes again as she walks away in the opposite direction. She's out of sight so i move towards the tills but i see her again in front of me so i call her out.. "Excuse me, whats up" Didn't have anything planned to say in my head so i do a pause and tell her shes cute, whats her name, what she doing and if shes single. She says yes so i get her number and tell her i'll catch her later and move.

I've been dissapointed with myself as i went on a 5 day streak of not cold approaching (i was mainly in the house or work.. but no excuse) so my anxiety was increasing but approaching this girl i was relaxed and didn't have much anxiety.. just went through the motion and didn't over think

Yesterday tho i could have approached at least 3 chick but pussied out and felt like i was going back to my old habits hence why my anxiety was increasing.

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

You can’t work something out like a long distance relationship

Hey bruh.


I thought about it and while i'd love to have one and visit her every few months or so/see her when she comes home... I don't know the intricacies of what this LDR would entail.


Law school, from my understanding, is gruesome as hell.


She seems in it for me, but she also said last week, when i brought up how she felt, she said that she didn't want me to get too invested (and i paraphrase), in the event she commits to Law school in AZ.


Lo and fukkin' behold, she does the following week.


But she did tell me over the weekend that the only reservation/thing holder her back from going was me. We were drunk as hell coming back from the house party when she mentioned it. I know what y'all going to say; go by what does does, never what she says.

Spoiler

You know the idea that people come in and out of our lives... everything I learned since meeting her (last Thanksgiving), i'll take with me for the rest of my life.


Crazy that even at this stage in my existence, I evolved so much as a human.


Learned how to love, be patient, be anxious and share my heart/care for someone else and realize that this world really ain't just about me (i've been selfish for the longest).


I know a lot of y'all would tell me to just leave her/let it be and allow her to go her own path.



But if i'm lying than i'm flying: I've dating dozens of women, had a few long term relationships and i've never felt this alive and normal (not saying i'm dependent on her for my happiness, but I would be lying if i said i wasn't still healing from self resentment, regret and guilt of doing my ex of 5 years dirty).



When you connect, and you have chemistry and you feel as tho they are your soul mate... you want to make it last like Keith.



I'm gonna drop a bomb on y'all... Since we first met, in November, she told me she would be busy studying for LSAT and wouldnbe be free until January.


Long story short, CORONA hit and we remained chatting through phone/texts and i finally didn't get to meet her again until mid April.



We hung out another time in May for my Beeday.



But this month alone, I've already seen her 3 times, and the 4th time this weekend to drive out to the coast of Washington (she's bringing her cousin along, but that's fine, even tho i wanted exclusive time with her).



I still have anxiety about our relationship, and it's even worse now that she's leaving.



Perhaps, I wasn't done healing and may have been subconsciously holding on to her because i lost love (my mom and ex) within a short period of time, and the flings were simply masking my pain...until i met her.




It's gone to the point where i've been unhealthily obsessing over her... and even when i try to sabotage our union with massive texts and pour my heart... she always comes back. Same day every time... as if she thrives off of it.



The key take away has been the past couple weeks and how much more we've connected and seeing her interact with my friends. It's such a big deal.


This is why she wants me to meet her cousin this weekend... now that i look at everything, perhaps... the Long Distance aspect may be a considerable/viable option.



What do you guys think, for this reformed simp gone back to simpin?

.

 

[DapMeUp!]

A lot of them are annoying judgmental. Can’t eat shyt without them critiquing and their holier than though attitude.

A girl I used to see in my early 20s. met up with some people when she was working in Amsterdam, came back with exactly that attitude your talking about after turning Vegan over there.

 

[DaHNIC82]

If a chick can't follow simple tasks... Bush her.

nikkahs gotta stop treating these broads like they handicapped.. They damn sure follow directions when it comes to their job.. If you instruct her to text her your number and she dont do and she say "she forgot" Bush her.

If she can't follow simple tasks then why would you wanna be with her?