Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Mickey Kane

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Ayy yall...this is driving me crazy...

Why do some ladies swipe yes/add you/message you/etc do all the work...are usually pretty excited to speak ("Hey!! :smile:" ) and some even message me first...just to not reply or get all dry when I say something back.

I always match theit energy and have tested all types of replies...they always just stop replying or get real mf dull...on some one word shyt.

It has to be something I'm doing or not doing because tha shyt keeps happening...

However...I ain't doin shyt wrong bro...

The bytches say hi wit an emoji, I give tha same shyt back. I tried the, "Hi, how are you doin?" And THAT NEVER GETS A REPLY WTF LOL

So then I try a simple "Hi" and that gets a reply 8/10 but as soon as I ask how are you/how was your day...its almost always over for whatever reason. Again, if they do reply to it...its like they got turned off or something. Idk bro. shyt irritating like wtf yall want me to say?

Limit interactions on the phone to the bare minimum, without giving off the impression you're trying to play the game or you're uninterested.

Try to move it to face to face interactions. Even suggesting a date or hanging out will be a better gauge of how interested she's in.
 

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My boy said the same thing to me just a couple hours ago.



Real talk; besides the potential preggo aspect:



What is the true benefit to bussin' in her?



From an anatomical and/or physiological perspective (hope i'm asking the right question).


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I was just talking about trapping her, But she sounds like she got her ish together so she's probably on birth control.




Ain't nothing like nutting in a chick you in love with though :wow:
 

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Girl got accepted to law school in AZ.


She committed and it looks like the local school isn't hitting her back from the waitlist.



She's leaving fam... got the news last night... and i can't keep my composure.



I understand the adage, "If you love something, let it go... "



But at 38, i've never been in love before and this is a tough loss. But i understand it.



If she comes back and we're both still available, it was meant to be... damn.



And things were finally hitting a nice stride and she met my friends for the first time last saturday. Shiit really hurts.



Well... i have another month and a half with her before i help her move down there.



Gotta make this summer count... it's her golden year... so i can't hold her back. She gotta do what she gotta do.



It's what's best... but just ain't easy.

Went through something eerily similar a few years back. My advice, forget about her once she leaves breh. Trust me.
 

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Unfortunately the only therapy is you remove them from your life and hope they get the hint and try to change.

Any and every toxic woman I find I cut em off quick. If they turn into toxic women I do the same. Got to have inner peace before any and everything. Also, don’t compromise yourself, ideals or beliefs for no fukking body. Tell em poof! Be gone!

:camby:
 

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Girl got accepted to law school in AZ.


She committed and it looks like the local school isn't hitting her back from the waitlist.



She's leaving fam... got the news last night... and i can't keep my composure.



I understand the adage, "If you love something, let it go... "



But at 38, i've never been in love before and this is a tough loss. But i understand it.



If she comes back and we're both still available, it was meant to be... damn.



And things were finally hitting a nice stride and she met my friends for the first time last saturday. Shiit really hurts.



Well... i have another month and a half with her before i help her move down there.



Gotta make this summer count... it's her golden year... so i can't hold her back. She gotta do what she gotta do.



It's what's best... but just ain't easy.


Take your turn before she leaves and try your best to mark your territory!

:wow:
 

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I was just talking about trapping her, But she sounds like she got her ish together so she's probably on birth control.




Ain't nothing like nutting in a chick you in love with though :wow:
:ohlawd::ohlawd::ohlawd: Nutting in a chick you smashed on the first date after you spent weeks plotting and planning the whole evening then pulling it off perfectly.>>>
 

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Girl got accepted to law school in AZ.


She committed and it looks like the local school isn't hitting her back from the waitlist.



She's leaving fam... got the news last night... and i can't keep my composure.



I understand the adage, "If you love something, let it go... "



But at 38, i've never been in love before and this is a tough loss. But i understand it.



If she comes back and we're both still available, it was meant to be... damn.



And things were finally hitting a nice stride and she met my friends for the first time last saturday. Shiit really hurts.



Well... i have another month and a half with her before i help her move down there.



Gotta make this summer count... it's her golden year... so i can't hold her back. She gotta do what she gotta do.



It's what's best... but just ain't easy.
You can’t work something out like a long distance relationship
 

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Ayy yall...this is driving me crazy...

Why do some ladies swipe yes/add you/message you/etc do all the work...are usually pretty excited to speak ("Hey!! :smile:" ) and some even message me first...just to not reply or get all dry when I say something back.

I always match theit energy and have tested all types of replies...they always just stop replying or get real mf dull...on some one word shyt.

It has to be something I'm doing or not doing because tha shyt keeps happening...

However...I ain't doin shyt wrong bro...

The bytches say hi wit an emoji, I give tha same shyt back. I tried the, "Hi, how are you doin?" And THAT NEVER GETS A REPLY WTF LOL

So then I try a simple "Hi" and that gets a reply 8/10 but as soon as I ask how are you/how was your day...its almost always over for whatever reason. Again, if they do reply to it...its like they got turned off or something. Idk bro. shyt irritating like wtf yall want me to say?


Never fully replicate the energy. Always make sure to stay below the 50% interest in a relationship/flow. Even if you really really like her, never express it. As soon as you are 51% more invested into actually speaking or hanging out with a female, you lost.


That means she is 49% invested and will likely feel too attractive for you as a whole and start to become the witch.


Women want to be lowkey insecure about the men they are feeling tbh.
 
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