Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

goatmane

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I had this situation in my early 20s. It sucks but on balance, the girl I was seeing dumped me later and I saved tens of thousands of dollars without paying rent and the other BS expenses for a couple of years. It saved my ass when 2008 came and the economy went to shyt. Explain to her if you are trying to save up for education or a home and how the situation works. It isn't like you are a loser living in your basement for no reason but being a mama's boy. Getting your own place is going to be a financial drain and what do you get out of it besides p*ssy you are already smashing?

My usual advice is don't live with a chick unless you are nearly engaged or married. It doesn't make the LTR go any better and one side ALWAYS has more expectations of where it will go than the other. If she makes more she can also hold that over you if she is subsidizing your home.

What was the reason she gave for you to move out? You just can't chill at her place or is she looking to split the bill? Are your parents monopolizing your time, saying you can't spend the night at her place?

Yea u explained the exact reasons I'm hesitant . My family owns several rental properties so I understand the game somewhat. Paying $1.2 a month on rent is crazy to me. In 1 yr, that's $12k, a decent down payment fund

But nah lol my folks treat me as equals. I do whatever. I never brought a girl home besides her.

The reason she brought it up bc she wants us to spend more time together and. Her roommate got laid off and the lease is up at her place in a few months. And her roommate is blowing thru her unemployment checks bc she thinks the landlords will continue to freeze rent plus 2nd stimulus is coming:snoop:
 

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Got a date lined up with a chic from hinge. I peeped she went to The same school of another chic I smashed in January. Looked her up on Ig and sure enough they’re friends.

please let me clip before she finds out :blessed:


shyt I know some bytches don’t even gaf. But I’d rather be safe than sorry.

Her bio said "if you're not at least 6ft don't even bother"

Imma violate the box for my short brehs :salute:
 

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Man working night shift sucks, it sucks away my social life. Add in the fukking virus and I dont get out as much at the moment with my current job. Got me thinking of approaching these 2 BBWs at my warehouse :dead:
I honestly gave up on a social life. I got my weights, the PS4 and my guitars, I'm good.

Just do online dating breh, random hookups
 

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Well, she already started the "doesn't want to have sex anymore" tale...aka she found new dikk

No problem, I've already got a date with a different chick set up for tomorrow

I just replied "ok" and went on with my day.

Abundance mindset
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The 19 year old?
 

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Man working night shift sucks, it sucks away my social life. Add in the fukking virus and I dont get out as much at the moment with my current job. Got me thinking of approaching these 2 BBWs at my warehouse :dead:
You get days off right?
 
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