Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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When do u think its too fast to move in?

Been dating this blasian nurse since Nov. She asked me this last week and I brushed it off thinking it was too fast.

she cool... wifeable. Absolutely 0 concerns with living with her.. My first serious relationship ever no joke . I live with my parents she lives in an apartment alone so she wants me to move in or buy another place. I don't really mind at all living at home. It has saved me alot of $$$ and talking to my parents daily as an Grown adult has really changed me. I
If you're asking breh then can only conclude you aren't ready, if anything do it for yourself not a woman.
 

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Ayo brehs I've been wondering this for a minute....what's that smell you can smell from women on certain days? At first I thought they had stank p*ssy :dead: but I've noticed this smell from several different women so it cant be that...is it pheromones or some shyt?

Yall must know the smell I'm talking about. Like I can just smell their p*ssy. Surely I'm not going crazy :russ:

Titty sweat
 

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Day 16

- Decided to go ahead and approach this black chick, cute, blonde hair looking like she's in her mid 30s. Says whats up but she looking at me all confused. Then tells me she speaks French and if i do. Im like nah so she gestures..wait. So we're literally outside her house which i didn't realise, she goes in and calls for someone. Im thinking she's gone to call her friend or something.. nah, this little girl emerges :dwillhuh: So she tells the girl to translate for me to her and im thinking to myself, there was no way i'm gonna spit game to a little girl to go ahead and translate for what could be her mother :unimpressed:. I tell the girl to tell the mum she looks nice and have a nice day as i bounce.

Falling into old habits today, didn't make approaches when i could have. Had another cute black chick with her mother seemingly showing interest at the supermarket. Didn't make the move, overthinking and didn't feel urgency to do it.
 

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When do u think its too fast to move in?

Been dating this blasian nurse since Nov. She asked me this last week and I brushed it off thinking it was too fast.

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When do u think its too fast to move in?

Been dating this blasian nurse since Nov. She asked me this last week and I brushed it off thinking it was too fast.

she cool... wifeable. Absolutely 0 concerns with living with her.. My first serious relationship ever no joke . I live with my parents she lives in an apartment alone so she wants me to move in or buy another place. I don't really mind at all living at home. It has saved me alot of $$$ and talking to my parents daily as an Grown adult has really changed me. I

You're talking about moving in with a chick that you haven't even known for a year :stopitslime:
 

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So some broads are hating on him for being with a much younger chick. :mjlol:

Marques Houston is a JW (I was raised in it myself so I know all about them) and they preach marriage and he's marrying a much younger chick who is 19. In the religion you can't fukk around - even though some do lol - so a lot of them marry real young. It's not uncommon to see couples in there married as soon as they reach legal age - needless to say the divorce rate is very high too.

Personally for me, religion or not, I'm in his age group and I wouldn't even fukk around with a 19 year old much less actually marry one. Not knocking him cos to each his own.

The point is though, if you have your shyt together in all aspects of your life and keep healthy and get your mind right, you got a lot of choices. These bitter broads would rather you get with a bloated and washed up chick like Vivica Fox who wasn't taking shyt serious until she got much older and lost her looks and now wants to settle down at like 56 years old, than get with a younger version of themselves. They'd rather that because you getting with a younger chick is a reminder of how they fukked up when they were younger and in their prime and never expected the tables to turn.

If a man is 40 and he's got a choice of two women for example - both women had nearly the exact same looks, body shape, personality, etc but one is the man's age and the other is 30, EVERY man with his shyt together is going to choose the 30 year old each and every time. I will never understand why any man would let women shame him and try to dictate his dating choices and preferences. Most times they didn't even want you themselves at one point but they don't want you to have options either lol.
 

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A woman is never too busy for you breh, I have a chick hitting me up right now and she is busy as hell.
If she talks that busy shyt, cut her off.

Another thing, I’m not even interested in this chick, and she’s going hard in the paint to try to communicate with me.
It goes to show the less you care about these chicks the more love they show you :yeshrug:
 

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A woman is never too busy for you breh, I have a chick hitting me up right now and she is busy as hell.
If she talks that busy shyt, cut her off.

Another thing, I’m not even interested in this chick, and she’s going hard in the paint to try to communicate with me.
It goes to show the less you care about these chicks the more love they show you :yeshrug:

Bingo.

There's a book I got that talks about the 'metaphysical' aspect of nonchalance. In life when you stop caring about something or stop being anxious over it that's when it usually makes its appearance, be it people, things, certain types of jobs etc.

That's why you just have to be on your grind, doing you.
 

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Bingo.

There's a book I got that talks about the 'metaphysical' aspect of nonchalance. In life when you stop caring about something or stop being anxious over it that's when it usually makes its appearance, be it people, things, certain types of jobs etc.

That's why you just have to be on your grind, doing you.

:feedme:
 

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When do u think its too fast to move in?

Been dating this blasian nurse since Nov. She asked me this last week and I brushed it off thinking it was too fast.

she cool... wifeable. Absolutely 0 concerns with living with her.. My first serious relationship ever no joke . I live with my parents she lives in an apartment alone so she wants me to move in or buy another place. I don't really mind at all living at home. It has saved me alot of $$$ and talking to my parents daily as an Grown adult has really changed me. I

I had this situation in my early 20s. It sucks but on balance, the girl I was seeing dumped me later and I saved tens of thousands of dollars without paying rent and the other BS expenses for a couple of years. It saved my ass when 2008 came and the economy went to shyt. Explain to her if you are trying to save up for education or a home and how the situation works. It isn't like you are a loser living in your basement for no reason but being a mama's boy. Getting your own place is going to be a financial drain and what do you get out of it besides p*ssy you are already smashing?

My usual advice is don't live with a chick unless you are nearly engaged or married. It doesn't make the LTR go any better and one side ALWAYS has more expectations of where it will go than the other. If she makes more she can also hold that over you if she is subsidizing your home.

What was the reason she gave for you to move out? You just can't chill at her place or is she looking to split the bill? Are your parents monopolizing your time, saying you can't spend the night at her place?
 

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A woman is never too busy for you breh, I have a chick hitting me up right now and she is busy as hell.
If she talks that busy shyt, cut her off.

Another thing, I’m not even interested in this chick, and she’s going hard in the paint to try to communicate with me.
It goes to show the less you care about these chicks the more love they show you :yeshrug:

This only works if the woman had an initial attraction to you. Otherwise, she’ll just move on to the next. Still, if you’re on your grind, it doesn’t matter either way.
 

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I wish I remembered the name of the book breh, it's been in storage in a huge pile for years. There's other books that touch on that: The subtle art of not giving a fukk and Frequency, the power of personal vibration. If you're interested in going much deeper into that topic check out any book by Joe Dispenza.
 
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