Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Day 14

- Weren't seeing many options available today. It's like when i'm actively looking the women become scarce. Anyway my only approach was with this natural haired bougie looking dark skinned black chick. Cute ting. We're in the supermarket and we lock eyes, she looks familiar but don't say anything. So im in the next aisle looking at cereal and she comes walking by so i approach.. Excuse me, you look familiar.. Before i could say another word she was like "Nope!" and kept walking

Girl couldn't even let me finish my sentence :unimpressed: Had to laugh that off.

Brehs, any tips on how to approach 2 girls at the same time?
Just some friendly advice, speak to these women about things that you notice about them like a tattoo or just about cereal. You'd be amazed where you end up.
 

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Day 14

- Weren't seeing many options available today. It's like when i'm actively looking the women become scarce. Anyway my only approach was with this natural haired bougie looking dark skinned black chick. Cute ting. We're in the supermarket and we lock eyes, she looks familiar but don't say anything. So im in the next aisle looking at cereal and she comes walking by so i approach.. Excuse me, you look familiar.. Before i could say another word she was like "Nope!" and kept walking

Girl couldn't even let me finish my sentence :unimpressed: Had to laugh that off.

Brehs, any tips on how to approach 2 girls at the same time?

Pro tip, dont try lines that worked for ben affleck in that rom com you saw one time.
 

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Just some friendly advice, speak to these women about things that you notice about them like a tattoo or just about cereal. You'd be amazed where you end up.
The first thing I noticed about her was her natural hair... was gonna tell her it looked beautiful but didn’t say it.

appreciate the advise.
 

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I guess I'm reading it wrong, but it sounds like she wanted to smoke him out and fukk him.

Or maybe I'm just an optimist :manny:
I’ve bought shortys weed before but it’s just a goofy situation for me , they’ll be blazing up and I’ll be sitting there like :unimpressed:

doesn’t always lead to sex either
 

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The first thing I noticed about her was her natural hair... was gonna tell her it looked beautiful but didn’t say it.

appreciate the advise.

Yeah, use the environment you are in

You are in the cereal aisle. You could have asked her for advice " Hey, could I ask you if you don't mind? My sister in town and she wants some cereal. You think she would like this type, as a woman?" Look serious too. Like you genuinely want her advice and not noticing a thing about her. That gives you a 3-way street.

1. (negative) She brushes you off= You just say thanks, apologies for bothering you. you did not get talked down to. She appeared as pushy, and mean. Her L. I would proceed by asking another female to make her feel like she was being an ass.

2. (Neutral) She genuinely helps and gives you advice= you try to ask her more questions about cereals and make a slight comment about women. You can even make it a small talk about cereal and why she likes a certain type. Then you could finish like "my sister is a little like that. She likes xyz type stuff. Wow, you been tremendous help" Then, you could proceed by opening a door to say "I gotta tell you how she likes it. I will have your number if you do not mind.

3. (Positive) She helps you/plays along= you can then keep it about cereal and be the prey. Make her laugh a little and say something about her. Then, grab her number.

Also, use Rona and social distancing to your advantage. Make funny/concern troll comments about her. Never shower girls with compliments on the first encounter. You become an easy fish and women may not see this as a strong point.

See, the thing about the game is to always be neutral, nonchalant, while you are showing her she catches your eye. Don't over commit too early.
 

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There’s exceptions. My ex would
only smok weed with me and it would be rare if she did. I’m talking like 1 or 2 hits out the blunt and that’s it.
Doesn’t sound like she’d be considered a weedhead then. Im talking about chicks that smoke damn near every day.
 
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Day 15

- Lightskinned black or mixed chick walking towards me. Slight ratchet vibe but she’s giving me eye contact which we both maintain. So I hit her with the line.. you look familiar (imma start saying other things lol).. she was like yeah probably [place]. I ain’t ever seen the chick in my life. :skip:
So we talk for a brief min.. where you going.. I’m heading back to work.. where you live. Ask her if she single, she says yes so I go ahead and get her number.

Soon as she’s giving me her number I see this fly Middle Eastern looking chick walking towards me.. flair pants showing that big ass and a crop top wearing no bra :noah:. Wanted to move to her but she already saw me approach this chick.

Honestly I weren’t in no mood to be approaching but today it clicked.. it was casual like Oh your cute.. let me chat to you.. there was no slight anxiety or thinking behind it on the approach.. it seemed natural.

Gotta keep doing this to establish that feeling on approaches.

Side note: I ain’t calling that chick.. rachet, from south and probably has a bf
 

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Day 15

- Lightskinned black or mixed chick walking towards me. Slight ratchet vibe but she’s giving me eye contact which we both maintain. So I hit her with the line.. you look familiar (imma start saying other things lol).. she was like yeah probably [place]. I ain’t ever seen the chick in my life. :skip:
So we talk for a brief min.. where you going.. I’m heading back to work.. where you live. Ask her if she single, she says yes so I go ahead and get her number.

Soon as she’s giving me her number I see this fly Middle Eastern looking chick walking towards me.. flair pants showing that big ass and a crop top wearing no bra :noah:. Wanted to move to her but she already saw me approach this chick.

Honestly I weren’t in no mood to be approaching but today it clicked.. it was casual like Oh your cute.. let me chat to you.. there was no slight anxiety or thinking behind it on the approach.. it seemed natural.

Gotta keep doing this to establish that feeling on approaches.

Side note: I ain’t calling that chick.. rachet, from south and probably has a bf
What city are you approaching this women again
 

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When do u think its too fast to move in?

Been dating this blasian nurse since Nov. She asked me this last week and I brushed it off thinking it was too fast.

she cool... wifeable. Absolutely 0 concerns with living with her.. My first serious relationship ever no joke . I live with my parents she lives in an apartment alone so she wants me to move in or buy another place. I don't really mind at all living at home. It has saved me alot of $$$ and talking to my parents daily as an Grown adult has really changed me. I
 
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