Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Day 2

- Decent looking white chick walking towards me. Feeling ready to approach. As she comes closer her face is looking down towards the ground. I p*ssy out again :snoop:. Had to tell myself im thinking too much about this. Instant approach, no thoughts.

- Foreign looking white chick again approaching towards me. Not my type but approached, tried stopping her as she's walking past "Hey can i talk to you". She hit me with the :hubie:and kept it moving. Cool

- Walking out the grocery store i see this cute mixed chick. Told myself fvck it and made the approach. She had her headphones in but stopped her as she's walking past. I feel relaxed and calm, told her she looked familiar. Conversation was very brief and asked her to hang out. She said she had a bf. Cool. Said goodbye and kept it moving.

Not much options to approach but it was a better day today. Feel i need to extend on my conversations with the approach.
 

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30 day approach challenge? How about a 30 day Pushups,situps,and squats challenge? A 30 day learning challenge? A 30 hustling challenge? Those challenges will attract way more women for you down the line. You wasting valuable time to approach some raggedy bytches on the street for what? Make yourself a valuable man of skill, resources, and assets.

Sup Breh.

- I'm currently doing a 30 day click funnel challenge and im learning marketing and copywriting skills that i aim to put to use for my business.
- I've started a 20min x 2 ab workout challenge everyday until it becomes a habit
- I've also joined a whatsapp group and we're currently doing a 30 min creative writing challenge everyday for the month
- I've set this challenge for myself because i need to kill the fear i have of cold approaching women as well as fearing rejection. If you think it's about getting women it definitely isn't.

Appreciate the advice tho.
 
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Day 2

- Decent looking white chick walking towards me. Feeling ready to approach. As she comes closer her face is looking down towards the ground. I p*ssy out again :snoop:. Had to tell myself im thinking too much about this. Instant approach, no thoughts.

- Foreign looking white chick again approaching towards me. Not my type but approached, tried stopping her as she's walking past "Hey can i talk to you". She hit me with the :hubie:and kept it moving. Cool

- Walking out the grocery store i see this cute mixed chick. Told myself fvck it and made the approach. She had her headphones in but stopped her as she's walking past. I feel relaxed and calm, told her she looked familiar. Conversation was very brief and asked her to hang out. She said she had a bf. Cool. Said goodbye and kept it moving.

Not much options to approach but it was a better day today. Feel i need to extend on my conversations with the approach.

Dog you gotta change energy beginning with your daily minimums and just start talking to people period. Try making it a small daily goal of complimenting/shouting out something you like. Doesn't matter as long as its genuine. Don't matter if its male or female. Work your way up to introducing yourself on top of that and exchange names when meeting people will start to be second natural. Work your way up to connecting with a new person a week. Once this becomes second nature having casual conversation won't be what I think is your problem. Doing this will inevitably involve women you find attractive and think the same of you. Hopefully you won't be dumb enough to blow the opportunity to escalate if she choosing correct :snoop:.
 

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Man these women are funny....Long story short, I had a coworker who wanted to hang out, one thing led to another and we slept together. We were forming the way to a relationship, but then she decided to give her ex of 10 plus years who she was broken up with another chance. I accepted it and moved on. She moved away with him and all. Now she keeps constantly contacting me. Lmaoo. shyt is ridiculous.
 

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I been at this job for a few months now and there's this attractive older woman that works in another department than mine.

We were both going to our department and I started some small talk with her.

Then a few days later I'm in my car waiting to go in and I see her in her car.

She waits to get out of her car until I do, then walks with me and we start talking again.


I pulled up to the parking lot today saw her, and purposely waited just to see if she was waiting on me.

She waited for a minute, then got out and looked over at me before she went in.

Idk what any of that means, but I noticed she don't really talk to anybody else from my department.

I'm just gunna keep doing the small talk if we just so happen to be around each other and not be too aggressive.
 
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Same fukk shyt quarantine or not...

I jumped back on Hinge just to see what the temperature was at this time after taking time out.

A Portuguese Bish liked me, she only had her body pics but I was intrigued enough so I matched with her.
She drops her insta cause she said she didn't have face pics on Hinge cause she wants to be low key. Take a look and :ehh:

Exchange a few messages back and forth. Then she asks if I have Whatsapp/Snapchat cause she's not on here all that much. I say cool add me and give her the addy..
A day later she responds back with her snap telling me to add her:why::camby:

Lmao Mf be dragging mf through 3 or 4 apps to get to some dialogue? :stopitslime: I don’t blame you, fukk em! Met a girl off one of those apps and she was like hit me on Instagram I was like :comeon: foh
 

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How do you guys get over a woman that you were crushing on who ghosted you? I want to say that there is way more important things going on but why does my mind still try and think about her I mean she obviously has some problems being single at 30 in Atlanta While being so pretty.

go ice cold breh. Pretend like her ass never existed in any reality. No plane of existence. In a few months she’ll come around, bytches like her always go get their faces wiped by the dikks of dudes who dog em out then they’ll wake up one day and think about the ‘good guy’ depending on how you want to swing it, I’d blow my load across her lips, wipe my dikk off on her face and tell her thanks for a great time last night. Beat it

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How do you guys get over a woman that you were crushing on who ghosted you? I want to say that there is way more important things going on but why does my mind still try and think about her I mean she obviously has some problems being single at 30 in Atlanta While being so pretty.

This has happened to me a few times but really you just have to look at it like she has deeply disrespected you so instead of being in your feelings about her just say fukk her and move on to the next one :camby:
 

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Day 3

- Saw this tall mixed chick across the street in running gear with her dog. Locked eyes and she didn't look away. Moving towards her i was thinking of what i could say to her. Didn't have nothing and psyched myself out :martin:. Turned to the next road towards work and only then i knew what i could have said.

- Girl next door looking black girl i noticed while walking out grocery store. Cute. I slowed down my walk and waited for her to catch up. Thought she had locs so was gonna lead with that but she had braids. Stopped her, said hello, thought she was cute and asked if she had a bf. She did... Cool, have a good day and bounced.

- White girl approaching, stop her, lead with the same line, she said she had a bf. Cool, bounce

- Buying a cable from phone stand, noticed this thick black girl waiting for the bus. Sexy af. As the indian shopkeeper goes to get my money i approach. Told her she looked familiar, she agreed. Brief hows things and what you doing, you working. Asked if she had a man then asked for her number which she gave to me. Told her, have a nice day then bounced (tbh i feel she gave me a number she doesn't use but i'll send her a message later on)

- East african girl, must have been mid to late 30s approaching. Didn't know what to lead with but stopped her anyway and told her her hair was beautiful. She gave a little smile and kept it moving :beli:


I feel my conversations need to improve. doesn't flow well, apart from the girl i got the number from.. I will learn with practice. Also need to continue to get into the mindset of 'just do' and not think about what im gonna do. I get the most anxiety on my first approach but getting it out the way, i feel more relaxed
 
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During this quarantine don't fall into the trap of wasting time talking to bytches who only want attention. You should be on your purpose more than ever now. Don't be on the phone ki-ki'ing with bytches helping their days go by faster and bringing entertainment to their boring lives. bytches will be more open and receptive than they've ever been before because they have nothing to do, not because they're suddenly feeling you or you magically turned into mack daddy overnight. Don't be putting your health on the line by linking up with these filthy whores. Get focused and grind so that when this shyt is finally over you can stunt on em. Women need entertainment, MEN NEED PURPOSE.
I needed to hear this :wow:
 

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At one of the local pizza spots waiting on my food when I seen this older chick(I love older women) she had the whole joint staring at her. I hit her with some corny old shyt

Bummy looking Teezus: damn girl is you from Iraq?

Shorty: no why you ask?

Bummy looking Teezus: cause girl... you the bomb*in my sexy low voice.

got the hoe to laugh and gave her my number. She texted me immediately asking if I drink. Being a corny nikka has its share of benefits :wow:
 

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I been at this job for a few months now and there's this attractive older woman that works in another department than mine.

We were both going to our department and I started some small talk with her.

Then a few days later I'm in my car waiting to go in and I see her in her car.

She waits to get out of her car until I do, then walks with me and we start talking again.


I pulled up to the parking lot today saw her, and purposely waited just to see if she was waiting on me.

She waited for a minute, then got out and looked over at me before she went in.

Idk what any of that means, but I noticed she don't really talk to anybody else from my department.

I'm just gunna keep doing the small talk if we just so happen to be around each other and not be too aggressive.

Come on now breh...
:snoop:
 
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