Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

the original girl nope always making excuses telling me her laptop got stolen and her car got broken into which she showed me pics and then she moved but she also went to Barbados.

Yeah, she was most definitely playing, I would have bushed her, but I understand that pull of wanting someone who you think you have a chance with if you just persevere as she ticks your boxes. it's really not worth your dignity or time if nothing is reciprocated. Trust me give it a month or two and you'll think of her and grimace in disgust at the effect she used to have on you.

With women to be blunt, it doesn't matter about your money or status. The simple fact is if you don't get her p*ssy wet and excited, nothing is happening. other than her keeping you on a string for attention and a fallback.

I make sure I smash early, as once she's given that up, the power and energy shifts, A chick not wanting sex within two weeks is a major red flag for me personally.

 

[semicko82]

Yeah, she was most definitely playing, I would have bushed her, but I understand that pull of wanting someone who you think you have a chance with if you just persevere as she ticks your boxes. it's really not worth your dignity or time if nothing is reciprocated. Trust me give it a month or two and you'll think of her and grimace in disgust at the effect she used to have on you.

With women to be blunt, it doesn't matter about your money or status. The simple fact is if you don't get her p*ssy wet and excited, nothing is happening. other than her keeping you on a string for attention and a fallback.

I make sure I smash early, as once she's given that up the power and energy shifts, A chick not wanting sex within two weeks is a major red flag for me personally.

 

[HARLEM AL]

No cursing them out is giving me what I want.
If another man disrespects you you’ll throw hands, but if you let a chick disrespects you just take it

That what’s she’s looking for. When they do that and you react that way you give them what they want.

Don’t compare what a nikka do to you then what a broad do to you. Unless that bytch put hands on you, fukk what she’s talking about. That type of emotional response get nikkas out in jail. All it takes if for her go off and you curse her out for doing so. Then she say some more outrageous shyt. And you take it upon yourself to put hands on her because now you just put her in the same shoes you would a nikka.

 

[HARLEM AL]

So im doing this 30 Day approach challenge which started today. I honestly don't like approaching, main reasons being i don't know what to say to the girl once i've approached them and i don't want to end up looking stupid either + from a young age I've always been shy which has inhibited me from pursuing girls... but fvck it, i need to learn and improve myself when approaching/conversating with women.

Everyday i'm gonna do my best in logging what happened everyday and track my progress. The goal is to approach at least one girl everyday

Day 1

- Had the opportunity to approach this middle eastern/south asian chick at the bus stop today. Had no clue what to say to her (main problem. My mind goes blank). We get on the bus and i go upstairs, she stays down. We get off at the same destination and this is the perfect time to make the approach but i p*ssy out because she was looking at her phone. So i walk ahead but when i look back i see shes looking around confused as if she doesn't know where she is. Perfect opportunity to go ask her if she's lost and start a conversation.. Again my mind pussies out and i keep on walking.

- Walking towards this big booty suspect midget turk. Again perfect opportunity to stop and approach (even though she had her headphones in) but i don't. She's not my type . Had to remind myself the reasons why i'm doing this

- Grocery shopping and i look eyes with this cute black girl, brownskin and big booty. She had a typical black girl look on her face like "Don't approach me, not interested" so i keep it moving (Should have approached anyway). So we bump into each other in the aisle a couple time and as im going to the check out i see her from afar checking me out then looking away. I don't bother because i'm already about to pay but im pissed off with myself while walking out because she seemed like she had interest.

- Went to another supermarket and saw a girl i used to go to school with. Black girl, decent looking, big booty This is a warm approach so i go over, say hello and we have a brief chat about what we're doing. I decide to cut the chat because the conversation was getting dry but i ask her if she had a man and i asked her for her number (i really didn't care for her number ) She said she had a man.. cool so we say goodbye and i bounce. The feeling of rejection swiftly goes.

I was beating myself up the whole day because i had prime opportunities to approach and i wasn't but happy got the first one out. Revise, what happened, make the adjustment and go onto tomorrow.

Stop making it complex. Just talk to any woman you see. Good morning, hello, etc.....

 

[semicko82]

That what’s she’s looking for. When they do that and you react that way you give them what they want.

Don’t compare what a nikka do to you then what a broad do to you. Unless that bytch our hands on you, fukk what she’s talking about. That type of emotional response get nikkas out in jail. All it takes if for her go off and you curse her out for doing. Then she say some more outrageous shyt. And you take it upon yourself to put hands on her because now you just put her in the same shoes you would a nikka.

I know what you are saying is right, but I let my pride get in front of the cart sometimes

 

[HARLEM AL]

I know what you are saying is right, but I let my pride get in front of the cart sometimes

You know, I can’t hate that. You know yourself. That’s half the battle there.

 

[Astroslik]

Br

How do you guys get over a woman that you were crushing on who ghosted you? I want to say that there is way more important things going on but why does my mind still try and think about her I mean she obviously has some problems being single at 30 in Atlanta While being so pretty.

bruh you’re STILL love struck over that chick you never met? The one You bought a gift for and she ghosted you?

You nikkas never learn. You came out the gate bragging how you’re 6 feet 215 with a good job but yet you have simp flowing through your veins. Perfect example of how accolades don’t get you p*ssy. You seem the type to rely on your allocades to get females.

 

[Astroslik]

So im doing this 30 Day approach challenge which started today. I honestly don't like approaching, main reasons being i don't know what to say to the girl once i've approached them and i don't want to end up looking stupid either + from a young age I've always been shy which has inhibited me from pursuing girls... but fvck it, i need to learn and improve myself when approaching/conversating with women.

Everyday i'm gonna do my best in logging what happened everyday and track my progress. The goal is to approach at least one girl everyday

Day 1

- Had the opportunity to approach this middle eastern/south asian chick at the bus stop today. Had no clue what to say to her (main problem. My mind goes blank). We get on the bus and i go upstairs, she stays down. We get off at the same destination and this is the perfect time to make the approach but i p*ssy out because she was looking at her phone. So i walk ahead but when i look back i see shes looking around confused as if she doesn't know where she is. Perfect opportunity to go ask her if she's lost and start a conversation.. Again my mind pussies out and i keep on walking.

- Walking towards this big booty suspect midget turk. Again perfect opportunity to stop and approach (even though she had her headphones in) but i don't. She's not my type . Had to remind myself the reasons why i'm doing this

- Grocery shopping and i look eyes with this cute black girl, brownskin and big booty. She had a typical black girl look on her face like "Don't approach me, not interested" so i keep it moving (Should have approached anyway). So we bump into each other in the aisle a couple time and as im going to the check out i see her from afar checking me out then looking away. I don't bother because i'm already about to pay but im pissed off with myself while walking out because she seemed like she had interest.

- Went to another supermarket and saw a girl i used to go to school with. Black girl, decent looking, big booty This is a warm approach so i go over, say hello and we have a brief chat about what we're doing. I decide to cut the chat because the conversation was getting dry but i ask her if she had a man and i asked her for her number (i really didn't care for her number ) She said she had a man.. cool so we say goodbye and i bounce. The feeling of rejection swiftly goes.

I was beating myself up the whole day because i had prime opportunities to approach and i wasn't but happy got the first one out. Revise, what happened, make the adjustment and go onto tomorrow.

Post a day 1 log and not approach one woman on day 1 brehs..


You’re psyching yourself out. Just say something.

 

[J.E.T.S]

Fixed

don’t touch our thread brehs

they tried us

 

[sfgiants]

How do you guys get over a woman that you were crushing on who ghosted you? I want to say that there is way more important things going on but why does my mind still try and think about her I mean she obviously has some problems being single at 30 in Atlanta While being so pretty.

no homo you need to crank one out and keep it movin. You didn’t even fukk this bytch
I got the “this isn’t working out” convo from this bad bytch in late April after CRAZY vibing and bonding over so much shyt we had in common. And I was nutsack deep RAW in her
Hundreds of creampies between January and April then all of a sudden shyt isn’t working out for her and it was a wrap.
If I can get over it and move on even with severe withdrawals from consistently rawing with powerful intense ejaculations inside of her and imagining being with that bytch long term, you can too

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

So im doing this 30 Day approach challenge which started today. I honestly don't like approaching, main reasons being i don't know what to say to the girl once i've approached them and i don't want to end up looking stupid either + from a young age I've always been shy which has inhibited me from pursuing girls... but fvck it, i need to learn and improve myself when approaching/conversating with women.

Everyday i'm gonna do my best in logging what happened everyday and track my progress. The goal is to approach at least one girl everyday

Day 1

- Had the opportunity to approach this middle eastern/south asian chick at the bus stop today. Had no clue what to say to her (main problem. My mind goes blank). We get on the bus and i go upstairs, she stays down. We get off at the same destination and this is the perfect time to make the approach but i p*ssy out because she was looking at her phone. So i walk ahead but when i look back i see shes looking around confused as if she doesn't know where she is. Perfect opportunity to go ask her if she's lost and start a conversation.. Again my mind pussies out and i keep on walking.

- Walking towards this big booty suspect midget turk. Again perfect opportunity to stop and approach (even though she had her headphones in) but i don't. She's not my type . Had to remind myself the reasons why i'm doing this

- Grocery shopping and i look eyes with this cute black girl, brownskin and big booty. She had a typical black girl look on her face like "Don't approach me, not interested" so i keep it moving (Should have approached anyway). So we bump into each other in the aisle a couple time and as im going to the check out i see her from afar checking me out then looking away. I don't bother because i'm already about to pay but im pissed off with myself while walking out because she seemed like she had interest.

- Went to another supermarket and saw a girl i used to go to school with. Black girl, decent looking, big booty This is a warm approach so i go over, say hello and we have a brief chat about what we're doing. I decide to cut the chat because the conversation was getting dry but i ask her if she had a man and i asked her for her number (i really didn't care for her number ) She said she had a man.. cool so we say goodbye and i bounce. The feeling of rejection swiftly goes.

I was beating myself up the whole day because i had prime opportunities to approach and i wasn't but happy got the first one out. Revise, what happened, make the adjustment and go onto tomorrow.

The first chick, you could've easily asked for the time since she pulled out her phone. The second chick you could've made a stalking joke.

Half of your problem is expecting a big conversation. Treat each encounter as general chit chat that you could expound upon if need be. The more approaches made, the more you'll find out what to do and not to do.

Good luck, been.

 

[George Gooney]

So im doing this 30 Day approach challenge which started today. I honestly don't like approaching, main reasons being i don't know what to say to the girl once i've approached them and i don't want to end up looking stupid either + from a young age I've always been shy which has inhibited me from pursuing girls... but fvck it, i need to learn and improve myself when approaching/conversating with women.

Everyday i'm gonna do my best in logging what happened everyday and track my progress. The goal is to approach at least one girl everyday

Day 1

- Had the opportunity to approach this middle eastern/south asian chick at the bus stop today. Had no clue what to say to her (main problem. My mind goes blank). We get on the bus and i go upstairs, she stays down. We get off at the same destination and this is the perfect time to make the approach but i p*ssy out because she was looking at her phone. So i walk ahead but when i look back i see shes looking around confused as if she doesn't know where she is. Perfect opportunity to go ask her if she's lost and start a conversation.. Again my mind pussies out and i keep on walking.

- Walking towards this big booty suspect midget turk. Again perfect opportunity to stop and approach (even though she had her headphones in) but i don't. She's not my type . Had to remind myself the reasons why i'm doing this

- Grocery shopping and i look eyes with this cute black girl, brownskin and big booty. She had a typical black girl look on her face like "Don't approach me, not interested" so i keep it moving (Should have approached anyway). So we bump into each other in the aisle a couple time and as im going to the check out i see her from afar checking me out then looking away. I don't bother because i'm already about to pay but im pissed off with myself while walking out because she seemed like she had interest.

- Went to another supermarket and saw a girl i used to go to school with. Black girl, decent looking, big booty This is a warm approach so i go over, say hello and we have a brief chat about what we're doing. I decide to cut the chat because the conversation was getting dry but i ask her if she had a man and i asked her for her number (i really didn't care for her number ) She said she had a man.. cool so we say goodbye and i bounce. The feeling of rejection swiftly goes.

I was beating myself up the whole day because i had prime opportunities to approach and i wasn't but happy got the first one out. Revise, what happened, make the adjustment and go onto tomorrow.

30 day approach challenge? How about a 30 day Pushups,situps,and squats challenge? A 30 day learning challenge? A 30 hustling challenge? Those challenges will attract way more women for you down the line. You wasting valuable time to approach some raggedy bytches on the street for what? Make yourself a valuable man of skill, resources, and assets.

 

[phcitywarrior]

30 day approach challenge? How about a 30 day Pushups,situps,and squats challenge? A 30 day learning challenge? A 30 hustling challenge? Those challenges will attract way more women for you down the line. You wasting valuable time to approach some raggedy bytches on the street for what? Make yourself a valuable man of skill, resources, and assets.

100% agree with you here, but he can chew gum and walk at the same time. It takes less than 2 mins to approach and spit game.

 

[DapMeUp!]

Damn I'm just reading through some of the shyt you guys have been going through during the lockdown

Glad I have sat out of the game since this has started. They on extra bullshyt right now.

 

[DapMeUp!]

Same fukk shyt quarantine or not...

I jumped back on Hinge just to see what the temperature was at this time after taking time out.

A Portuguese Bish liked me, she only had her body pics but I was intrigued enough so I matched with her.
She drops her insta cause she said she didn't have face pics on Hinge cause she wants to be low key. Take a look and

Exchange a few messages back and forth. Then she asks if I have Whatsapp/Snapchat cause she's not on here all that much. I say cool add me and give her the addy..
A day later she responds back with her snap telling me to add her