Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[LexLuthor]

I completely forgot I got a engagement party next month(I promise to go before the breakup with my ex) anyway since they mutual friends I know for a fact my ex and her man will be there now I’ve been working on myself and being off social media has helped a lot but idk how imma feel seeing them together plus low key it feels like everyone took her side idkI think it’s best to not go but I told the two people getting married I would go I don’t wanna be a dikk if I don’t go will they all just think I’m weak
And I’m the clown of the group meaning if I ain’t happy go lucky etccc they gonna know something is up.... after the breakup in November I been to 2 functions with mutual friends and both was awkward as hell and I felt alone
I need help guys?
I feel like they all gonna talk shyt about me if I don’t go

fukk Them, continue to work on yourself bro. Pop out when you feel it’s right for you to.

 

[LexLuthor]

Man these women are funny....Long story short, I had a coworker who wanted to hang out, one thing led to another and we slept together. We were forming the way to a relationship, but then she decided to give her ex of 10 plus years who she was broken up with another chance. I accepted it and moved on. She moved away with him and all. Now she keeps constantly contacting me. Lmaoo. shyt is ridiculous.

Update: Woke up to a text saying she thinks she made a mistake.
Saying she’s sad all of the time now. My gut is saying it’s probably attention whoring but I’m not sure.

Either way my ego is like:

 

[Malik1time]

fukk Them, continue to work on yourself bro. Pop out when you feel it’s right for you to.

I just feel like everyone gonna think I’m weak
But yeah I feel you 100%

 

[LexLuthor]

I just feel like everyone gonna think I’m weak
But yeah I feel you 100%

fukk em. When you pop out with the new you they won’t have shyt to say but positivity.

 

[sfgiants]

Been trolling on dating apps out of boredom and bytches on there are fukkin HORNY

Last night I was bored and this bytch sent me random pics and clips of herself naked or playing with her box
I rubbed one out then took a shower. Came back to a bunch of texts asking if I’m still there. Blocked her and went to sleep

 

[Malik1time]

fukk em. When you pop out with the new you they won’t have shyt to say but positivity.

I think their won’t be a opportunity like that I mean they already don’t invite me anywhere... I’m too nice man I need to just let go and cut them off

 

[Trapperman Dave]

So uh a chick I work with i joke around a lot with told me she miss seeing me at work keep in mind she told me she was currently talking to a guy. Chicks be weird

 

[sfgiants]

Been trolling on dating apps out of boredom and bytches on there are fukkin HORNY

Last night I was bored and this bytch sent me random pics and clips of herself naked or playing with her box
I rubbed one out then took a shower. Came back to a bunch of texts asking if I’m still there. Blocked her and went to sleep

update: banned on okc

 

[Ahadi]

Day 4

I weren't feeling it today. The vibe i had was pure low energy and mood especially compared to yesterday. I honestly struggled with thoughts of over thinking and feelings of approach anxiety. Tried listening to some Dave Chappelle to get myself into a better mindset but didn't really work. Anyway...

- Actual Pawg i noticed in grocery shop in the queue. Tbh i was just going about business. As i come out the store she comes out and walks in the opposite direction i was heading. I saw that ass and shoulda chased her down but like i said, my mindset weren't right.

- Black chick with too much foundation approaching. I raise my hands out to say hello and ask can i speak to you. She looks at me, and keeps it moving. I don't blame her, my approach was weak and was not commanding. I was half arsing it. If i approach i need to be all in and command there attention.

- White chick who looked a bit asian i see opposite me in the junction. I see her connect eyes with me briefly so i make sure i don't cross as she's walking towards me. Raise me hands to get her attention. Say whats up. Didn't really know what to say so i pause for a bit, look away then look back at her and tell her shes cute which she smile. Ask her her name and where she going.. friends bday nice. Let her know that im working but can i get her number. She's forward but then pauses and says she don't give out her number but i can have her snap. I don't use snap.. Instagram? I tell her i want her phone number, not her social media. She doesn't say anything. So i smile, tell her its cool, have a nice day and leave it at that. She's pleasant and we both part ways.

UPDATE
-Thick black girl i got the number from yesterday.. so we start messaging. I find out that shes nearly 40 (honestly didn't look it) and has 2 children. She seemed open to continue talking but i dead it.

How you start is how you finish. I hate living with the “woulda, shoulda, coulda” thoughts. Don’t live life with uncertainty, and just talk to them like regular ppl, without putting so much pressure on the fukking part , cause that’s were you become nervous.

 

[Ahadi]

I completely forgot I got a engagement party next month(I promise to go before the breakup with my ex) anyway since they mutual friends I know for a fact my ex and her man will be there now I’ve been working on myself and being off social media has helped a lot but idk how imma feel seeing them together plus low key it feels like everyone took her side idkI think it’s best to not go but I told the two people getting married I would go I don’t wanna be a dikk if I don’t go will they all just think I’m weak
And I’m the clown of the group meaning if I ain’t happy go lucky etccc they gonna know something is up.... after the breakup in November I been to 2 functions with mutual friends and both was awkward as hell and I felt alone
I need help guys?
I feel like they all gonna talk shyt about me if I don’t go

You gotta pull up with a bad broad.

 

[Malik1time]

You gotta pull up with a bad broad.

That’s trying to hard
All the people I spoke 2 told me it would e a bad idea if I go they right

 

[semicko82]

I swear I’m trying to change my ways, but I had to get petty with another one of these dumb ass chicks.
I exchanged numbers with this chick a few days ago, and I messaged her.
She left my shyt on READ, oh well that’s game I just count my losses and move on.
I seen this chick at the bar last night, she gave me a fake ass smile, and tried to say hey what’s up.
I’m like “ohhhhh now you want to talk to me”
You could tell by her reaction she was a little embarrassed, and I walked off with my crown and coke in hand like

 

[HARLEM AL]

Man these women are funny....Long story short, I had a coworker who wanted to hang out, one thing led to another and we slept together. We were forming the way to a relationship, but then she decided to give her ex of 10 plus years who she was broken up with another chance. I accepted it and moved on. She moved away with him and all. Now she keeps constantly contacting me. Lmaoo. shyt is ridiculous.

She is trying to use you as a back up guy.

 

[Silkk]

They really believe they can’t be replaced......Til they get replaced

 

[phcitywarrior]

Day 4

Breh you gotta stop psyching yourself out man. Just approach and talk. Make an observation that both of you can relate to and go from there. Getting the number isn't really the tough part, it's keeping the convo going/keeping the interest that's the harder part.