So im doing this 30 Day approach challenge which started today. I honestly don't like approaching, main reasons being i don't know what to say to the girl once i've approached them and i don't want to end up looking stupid either + from a young age I've always been shy which has inhibited me from pursuing girls... but fvck it, i need to learn and improve myself when approaching/conversating with women.
Everyday i'm gonna do my best in logging what happened everyday and track my progress. The goal is to approach at least one girl everyday
Day 1
- Had the opportunity to approach this middle eastern/south asian chick at the bus stop today. Had no clue what to say to her (main problem. My mind goes blank). We get on the bus and i go upstairs, she stays down. We get off at the same destination and this is the perfect time to make the approach but i p*ssy out because she was looking at her phone. So i walk ahead but when i look back i see shes looking around confused as if she doesn't know where she is. Perfect opportunity to go ask her if she's lost and start a conversation.. Again my mind pussies out and i keep on walking.
- Walking towards this big booty suspect midget turk. Again perfect opportunity to stop and approach (even though she had her headphones in) but i don't. She's not my type
. Had to remind myself the reasons why i'm doing this
- Grocery shopping and i look eyes with this cute black girl, brownskin and big booty. She had a typical black girl look on her face like "Don't approach me, not interested" so i keep it moving (Should have approached anyway). So we bump into each other in the aisle a couple time and as im going to the check out i see her from afar checking me out then looking away. I don't bother because i'm already about to pay but im pissed off with myself while walking out because she seemed like she had interest.
- Went to another supermarket and saw a girl i used to go to school with. Black girl, decent looking, big booty This is a warm approach so i go over, say hello and we have a brief chat about what we're doing. I decide to cut the chat because the conversation was getting dry but i ask her if she had a man and i asked her for her number (i really didn't care for her number ) She said she had a man.. cool so we say goodbye and i bounce. The feeling of rejection swiftly goes.
I was beating myself up the whole day because i had prime opportunities to approach and i wasn't but happy got the first one out. Revise, what happened, make the adjustment and go onto tomorrow.
got a team right now (3 girlfriends) and more but I got caught cheating by my main with another (who was the fourth before I had to block her) and I've been thinking about her since. Ex went through my phone and went hysterical and made me block her on everything. My main is the most solid woman in the world and it's why I chose her but the fourth was one of the sexiest girls I ever met. I check her fb periodically and she's in a relationship now and I'm lowkey freaking out. I want her back again and have wanted her but I don't wanna leave my main either.
Idk what to do I was planning on taking a break with my main to reconnect but idk if I can now she's got someone. I know this shyt is clown status but damn pimpin is NOT EASY BREHS
my main isn't even on my shyt about cheating really she don't check my phone it's like she's on some out of sight out of mind shyt. I'm thinking of hitting up girl 4 tell me I'm making a bad move brehs
girl 4 prolly knew about my main too she just didn't care sooo someone talk some sense in me before I do some dumb shyt
