Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

when I use to hear about people not eating, depressed, crying over some relationship shyt I’d look at em like

Til I was that nikka barely eating for almost a month, compulsively checking her social media, looking at old pics of us, thinking bout shorty so much I could barely focus at work. Damn near texted my ex mom asking her if she could put us back on

Time gon heal them wounds, like others have said work on building a better you (physically, mentally, career wise etc) so when the next shorty come around you on A1 status. @Malik1time

Smash some Mexican shortys to pass the time, that’s what I been on @The God Poster

lol yup the old if you want to lose weight just go through a breakup
I remember id wake up and chick was on my mind all day. I'd go to work on my mind, i'd stalk every social media account. Always felt the urge to text or call, wondering why she never called or text (how can someone i talk to every day for years just move on like that

I didn't want to date because what if she came back what would I do

Some days i'd feel great then see something and be right back at sq one. chick could be ugly azz hell but suddenly she's a 10/10 chick in your eyes.

I'd just come home from work and sleep etc. find myself fapping to my ex then feeling like trash after

But it builds immunity its like getting covid it sucks but after you beat it you got that immunity. Then if it happens again you know what to do, you'll go "no contact" right away, you wont check social media


happy i faced those beats in my twenties I can just look back and laugh now.

I remember the last chick i sort of cared about dumped me, I just shrugged and was on hinge talking to new chicks that same night and had a few dates set up right away.

My mentality now after years of being a punching bag and crawling through the abyss of past breakups is like a job if i get fired i'ma start applying right away and get a new job. It may not be that coli six figure type of job it may just be a call centre type gig but until i land on my feet gotta do what i gotta do.

 

[MikelArteta]

Shyts torture I'm going through it myself and advice like "move on" doesn't really help. It's like a process you have to suffer through like going cold Turkey from an addiction.

yeah it doesn't help but honestly the only thing that really helps is time. It's like jail how are you going to spend your sentence, you can speed it up and get "paroled" early or you can sit and rot because one day you'll get sick and tired of checking her social media accounts, and one day you'll get over it.

I remember checking my ex this was like 2013 or whatever instagram and I saw she was dating someone new and of course I was still on the cliff of hope and saying oh it won't last its a rebound , but more photos came etc. and i got sick of looking and thinking of some other nikka smashing that azz then i got sick and tired of wasting my time looking and stopped one day, then two days, then weeks then months. A few years later I looked and she was married but I felt nothing.

When you feel nothing

 

[Malik1time]

yeah it doesn't help but honestly the only thing that really helps is time. It's like jail how are you going to spend your sentence, you can speed it up and get "paroled" early or you can sit and rot because one day you'll get sick and tired of checking her social media accounts, and one day you'll get over it.

I remember checking my ex this was like 2013 or whatever instagram and I saw she was dating someone new and of course I was still on the cliff of hope and saying oh it won't last its a rebound , but more photos came etc. and i got sick of looking and thinking of some other nikka smashing that azz then i got sick and tired of wasting my time looking and stopped one day, then two days, then weeks then months. A few years later I looked and she was married but I felt nothing.

When you feel nothing

yeah my ex is active on facebook and i just deleted the app i dont even use facebook that much only used it cuz we use to share memes and shyt but now we over i just deleted the app
i dont post on gram or snapchat so basically imma go ghost and so my own thing i know her friends will wonder what im doing and try find out whats going on they done it before

 

[J.E.T.S]

it’s tough social media is though :heh;

I remember back then only time I wasn’t thinking of the chick was when I was sleeping. But then after a while if you stay away she becomes smaller and smaller in your mind till you don’t care

bruh. Sleep was my favorite thing to do! That was pure hell. Work and sleep. I would be at work focused on going to bed so I wouldn’t think about that bytch. Eating food was the last thing on my mind. It got to a point that I knew I had to eat but I couldn’t. I started getting mad at my body and mind for not allowing me to eat. I stayed on the toilet too. It was so weird... my appetite disappeared, but my bowels ramped up.

I was so sick. Don’t wish that on my worst enemy.

Shyts torture I'm going through it myself and advice like "move on" doesn't really help. It's like a process you have to suffer through like going cold Turkey from an addiction.

“move on” is easy for a person to say that’s not in your shoes and/or for individuals who has a choice of replacements better than what was lost. That’s just the cold truth.

Best advice would be just to tell someone to HURT. Make sure that person knows that their ex is GONE and it’s going to take TIME. Facing those facts is way more helpful in healing than inadvertently placing false hope in people minds with textbook-like advice.

social media is the biggest hindrance in the healing process imo. Telling people not to look ain’t gonna work either and that somehow becomes another jail sentence.

it’s the ideal thing not to look because believe me.. you’re gonna lose a lot of time investigating, looking stupid, and possibly finding shyt that’s going to ruin your day.

I been in some new p*ssy thinking bout that old thang I ain’t gon lie to yall

bottom line. You’ll also indulge in riskier sexual behavior too.

it’s a shame how love will even have you on a hook and line too. I’ve passed up on amazing bytches before because a strand of hope and being afraid of my possibly returning ex finding out. It didn’t help that I compared every female to her. Even ones that fukked and sucked me like a champ, cooked, and respected me. While my ex lacked in those departments.

 

[DaRealness]

You questioned her entire character over a simple mistake that largely inconsequential?

I don't think he overreacted, she did. The problem is we dismiss certain things in the back of our minds and ignore red flags thinking its no big deal then that's how all the b.s. starts.

A crazy outburst straight off the bat when you haven't even started yet is never a good sign.

 

[FLATOP]

This quarantine has a been a blessing in the skies. Being able to stack bread and your girl not being able to hit you with that "Hey let's go out/let's do something" bullshyt

 

[DaRealness]

This quarantine has a been a blessing in the skies. Being able to stack bread and your girl not being able to hit you with that "Hey let's go out/let's do something" bullshyt

 

[Bless't]

Canoodling and cavorting

Classic scarf.

 

[DamienWayne]

This quarantine has a been a blessing in the skies. Being able to stack bread and your girl not being able to hit you with that "Hey let's go out/let's do something" bullshyt

 

[semicko82]

Shyts torture I'm going through it myself and advice like "move on" doesn't really help. It's like a process you have to suffer through like going cold Turkey from an addiction.

I know terms like “man up” or “move on” sucks but honestly that’s the best advice for men

 

[sfgiants]

3 bytches hit me up on some hey stranger shyt this weekend one openly asking for dikk the others beating around the bush about it. thought about it for a second cuz not gonna lie I need to feel my dikk in the back of a woman’s throat but



I ghosted these whores for a reason last year

 

[mortuus est]

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[360dagod]

Im doing 12+ hours a day...

Im trying not to fukk a co worker....but shyt starting to get real

 

[Data-Hawk]

The finer the female the more pain in the ass they are..crazy how even a below average female will have a ton of dudes surrounding her. Meet a bad one and she think she runs the world.. lol