Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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just got word from a friend that my ex moved on with a new guy:francis::francis: yeah it hurts ive been fukking women here and there but i still think of my ex:francis:
i have a feeling this is a rebound...because i was with her for 3 years and she jumps in a new one a couple months later:francis:
not gonna lie brehs it hurts:francis:
imma still focus on my purpose:francis: im officially off social media
 

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just got word from a friend that my ex moved on with a new guy:francis::francis: yeah it hurts ive been fukking women here and there but i still think of my ex:francis:
i have a feeling this is a rebound...because i was with her for 3 years and she jumps in a new one a couple months later:francis:
not gonna lie brehs it hurts:francis:
imma still focus on my purpose:francis: im officially off social media
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Best thing you can do is work on yourself and don't stop meeting people.
 

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Best thing you can do is work on yourself and don't stop meeting people.
i am breh its just this recent news yesterday really hit home:wow: im not gonna act tough and say im straight but it hurts alot:francis: people close to me keeping saying it will fail cuz rebound always fail but honestly im tired of thinking positive:yeshrug: i think its time i try my best to accept she will never come back:yeshrug:
 

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i am breh its just this recent news yesterday really hit home:wow: im not gonna act tough and say im straight but it hurts alot:francis: people close to me keeping saying it will fail cuz rebound always fail but honestly im tired of thinking positive:yeshrug: i think its time i try my best to accept she will never come back:yeshrug:
Thinking positive should not be that she will come back to you but that you will meet someone who valued what she didn't
 

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Thinking positive should not be that she will come back to you but that you will meet someone who valued what she didn't
You 100% right, I think what makes it worst is that we all in the same circle of friends and I can’t imagine getting inviting to. A function and she’s there with him:francis::francis: that’s why my friend told me would it be awkward to me if he invites me and he’s there
 

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just got word from a friend that my ex moved on with a new guy:francis::francis: yeah it hurts ive been fukking women here and there but i still think of my ex:francis:
i have a feeling this is a rebound...because i was with her for 3 years and she jumps in a new one a couple months later:francis:
not gonna lie brehs it hurts:francis:
imma still focus on my purpose:francis: im officially off social media
Was in the same situation after a 3 year relationship. We would still talk casually, even go out to eat occasionally after the relationship ended.

Cpuple months later she’s in a new relationship with some nikka at her school. shyt hit me like a ton of bricks when I’d see them on social media chilling, cuddled up. fukked up one night and called her crying and shyt, bad move

Best thing I did was take her off social media and move on. Do I think about her every now and then? Sure but things heal with time

once I realized she was “gone gone” I felt much better and stopped blaming myself. Beautiful girl, wish her the best. Keep it movin :manny:
 
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Was in the same situation after a 3 year relationship. We would still talk casually, even go out to eat occasionally after the relationship ended.

Cpuple months later she’s in a new relationship with some nikka at her school. shyt hit me like a ton of bricks when I’d see them on social media chilling, cuddled up. fukked up one night and called her crying and shyt, bad move

Best thing I did was take her off social media and move on. Do I think about her every now and then? Sure but things heal with time

once I realized she was “gone gone” I felt much better and stopped blaming myself. Beautiful girl, wish her the best. Keep it movin :manny:
yeah im just in a awkward situation where my circle of friends are with her so:francis: in many ways i feel like i lost friends as well
 

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Have to have these chicks on probation early on and watch how they act and if you see a red flag nip it and run as fast as you can .

I was canoodling and cavorting with this chick sort of for a likkle while under a month saw her mostly after work as she lives near the hospital i work at. yes always had protection!!

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Anyways few days we were on a short likkle call and she asked me hey can i get a photo of you dressed up and i'm like sure :ehh:, so I sent one.:jawalrus:

Then she asked can you send a few more and I said nah:mjtf:, you asked for one so I sent one. If you wanted more than one should have stated it are you a woman of your word or not?.:hubie:

This chick got so mad breh like a demon took over and then she hung up the phone at me. Then she sent me a text message how shes so sorry to have hanged up on me that she just got angry.

I said no worries but I'll no longer be canoodling nor cavorting with you anymore. If this chick is getting angry and all aggressive and ish because she didn't get her way over something so small eh adios.
 

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Thinking positive should not be that she will come back to you but that you will meet someone who valued what she didn't

easier said than done.

trust me.

I was obsessed with checking one of my exes social media and barely eating for like 6 months after she broke up with me back in 2013.

I’ll never forget that pain. Ever!

imagine your digestive tract all fukked up, the stress, the constant thinking about someone, and the wondering if they’re ever coming back... day in and out. :francis:

I could barely get my meat up to fukk any new broad.

I was big sick. That trying to no contact and staying on my purpose shyt DID NOT WORK.

it literally took TIME, another tragic event, and me damn near going crazy to get over her. :hhh:
 

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easier said than done.

trust me.

I was obsessed with checking one of my exes social media and barely eating for like 6 months after she broke up with me back in 2013.

I’ll never forget that pain. Ever!

imagine your digestive tract all fukked up, the stress, the constant thinking about someone, and the wondering if they’re ever coming back... day in and out. :francis:

I could barely get my meat up to fukk any new broad.

I was big sick. That trying to no contact and staying on my purpose shyt DID NOT WORK.

it literally took TIME, another tragic event, and me damn near going crazy to get over her. :hhh:
How long were you guys together
 
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