yup
imagine if you went to walmart and was purchasing a 50 inch tv. You had to go and get it off the shelf and struggle to bring it to the cashier. Another person you saw had the clerk take it down and push it to the cashier. Cashier tells that guy you know what just go on through but when it's your turn the price is 500 dollars.
Would you be like sure its on a visa or would you be like

, so I had to take down the tv push it in a cart all the way to the front and still get charged and this other dude didn't have to do anything nor pay a cent?
That's why I always take note of a womans sob story. Like I mentioned before that single mom i was talking to who I didn't know she had a kid at first, she was going on how she's waiting for marriage and ish then I found out she had a kid . So wait you busted it out raw for some dusty negro but the good guy with the qualities you want for a husband has to wait?