Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Liquid]

last year, I'm doing a degree in Mechanical engineering, I hate it, I only done it because thats a career with higher chances of getting a decent paying job in the end.

I know its not my passion at all,

Big mistake as it might land you that high paying job, but like everything else it will cause you to take more responsibility and dedicate even more time to something you hate. I would recommend a career change

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[FaithOverFear]

-Never let a chick know how much you want her, always play it cool. Dont come on too strong.












Add on, lets share the wealth brehs.

 

[FaithOverFear]

I'm actually taking the advice many of you have recommended me and I'm in the process of writing a book. It's not any sort of magical book to unleash unlimited wealth or some manual on picking up women, but just a sort of compendium of my thoughts.

Here is something along the lines of what to expect:

preach on brotha...

 

[Ohene]

last year, I'm doing a degree in Mechanical engineering, I hate it, I only done it because thats a career with higher chances of getting a decent paying job in the end.

I know its not my passion at all,

whats your passion? everyone respects engineers period so it may be transferable

 

[Schmoove]

last year, I'm doing a degree in Mechanical engineering, I hate it, I only done it because thats a career with higher chances of getting a decent paying job in the end.

I know its not my passion at all,

Your "calling" is what you're predestined to do *for others* during your time on earth.

Your "purpose" is your reason for existence.

Your "destiny" is what you're predestined to leave behind after death (non-financial)

Neither of these will have anything to do with your vocation.

I'd suggest finding your passion outside of a career. How do you plan to help others?

Pick up the book, "The Alchemist" and a book titled "Wired for Success; Programmed for Failure." [ame=http://www.amazon.com/Wired-Success-Programmed-Failure-Richards/dp/1935870009]Wired for Success, Programmed for Failure: Dr. James B. Richards: 9781935870005: Amazon.com: Books[/ame]

Good stuff in those books. We should make a separate passion/calling/destiny thread.

 

[CASHAPP]

Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a Trinidadian girl? I haven't. I'm half Jamaican(mother), half Trini(father), but more connected with Jamaicans because my mother was a single mother and obviously i would end up being more around her family because my father wasn't around. The one thing that annoys me is that it seems like its damn near impossible to find a Jamaican woman(heck a jamaican person in general) who is down to earth and isn't so aggressive.

If your more mellow something is automatically wrong with you. Especially in the eyes of the woman who seem to have some mental crisis and cannot make up their mind as to whether they like a "silent " guy or a guy who is always talking. Its a pain in the ass how so many Jamaican women always seem to wanna "prove" how bad ass and wild they are. Like seriously shut up.

Of course we know there are always exceptions in some case of every rumor, but I have heard occasionally that Trinidadian women are sometimes the complete opposite of Jamaican women. No idea how true that is. But I would not be surprised since the Island seems to be much more mixed and therefore more open minded than Jamaica where it seems like they have something against everyone not jamaican. But I guess I need to experience a nice Trinidadian girl to see. Like I said before the whole patriarch vs matriarch thing only relates to divorce rates, because ladies can still act the same.....but hopefully I have a better chance.

Tired of these loud ass women.

 

[Wild self]

I see in that other thread people giving Kevm3 a hard time cause he refuses to put up with bullshyt on American women. Those other posters even go as far as saying that he gets no ass and his "game" is weak. The shaming tactics that these "players" use is something as wrong and degrading as any hate crime, just cause they don't put up with the shyt that these disrespectful women use. Like these same "players" somehow can "manage" them for the sake of the p*ssy.

 

[kevm3]

I see in that other thread people giving Kevm3 a hard time cause he refuses to put up with bullshyt on American women. Those other posters even go as far as saying that he gets no ass and his "game" is weak. The shaming tactics that these "players" use is something as wrong and degrading as any hate crime, just cause they don't put up with the shyt that these disrespectful women use. Like these same "players" somehow can "manage" them for the sake of the p*ssy.

if you notice, most of those cats getting mad are married or in a long-term relationship. They pretty much have to rationalize how they're getting much less here for more work because they can't escape. I ain't mad at them. I'm just blessed to be able to get it here or overseas if I so choose. I'm a free agent that's able to procure for myself the best deal possible.

 

[kevm3]

I haven't dealt with a trini woman, but I wouldn't really make too much of a generalization based upon what you've heard. It'd be much better to just up and deal with her directly and see what she's talking about.

 

[bloodsimple.]

I brought up a point that wasn't addressed before: "It can be kinda problematic to over-analyze and downright micromanage the kind of vibe you're giving off to make sure you're not giving off any hint of weakness. One sign of weakness and it's over."

Do you all agree?

Secondly, is it just me, or have these desperate, thirsty motherfukkers given your average woman a massive ego? I'm not even talking about the super hot ones, I mean all of them.

It's to the point where I've flat out refrained from approaching because the scales are so ridiculously tilted against me. Hell, even if I get a "sign" (not sure what the hell that is or what it's supposed to be) I usually just shrug it off or ignore it just to play it safe, because there's a good chance she could have been leading you on just to see how you respond, or for kicks.

You know, "Oh, that? I do that with everyone! I'm just friendly!"

A lot more to lose and nothing to gain when you really think about it.

I used to feel guilty about my non-action, but no so much anymore.

 

[kevm3]

I brought up a point that wasn't addressed before: "It can be kinda problematic to over-analyze and downright micromanage the kind of vibe you're giving off to make sure you're not giving off any hint of weakness. One sign of weakness and it's over."

Do you all agree?

Secondly, is it just me, or have these desperate, thirsty motherfukkers given your average woman a massive ego? I'm not even talking about the super hot ones...even girls in the middle range.

It's to the point where I've flat out refrained from approaching because the scales are so ridiculously tilted against me. Hell, even if I get a "sign" (not sure what the hell that is) I usually just shrug it off just to play it safe, because there's a good chance she could have been leading you on just to see how you respond, or for kicks.

A lot more to lose and nothing to gain when you really think about it (it's just p*ssy after all).

The key bruh is not to worry about projecting weakness or anything else for that matter. The key is to simply exist and to enjoy your interaction. It comes down to pretty much screw what babygirl thinks. I'm going to be me. Never micromanage your vibe, worrying about how every little thing you do comes off. Now, if you start seeing yourself doing something real suckerish, that's when you need to pull back and rearrange your trajectory.

In terms of weakness, you deal with them on your own as something you do for yourself and not for women. The time to really crack down on your weaknesses is when you are alone and have time to ponder your strengths and pitfalls. Are you happy with this or that element in your life? What are you going to do about it? You don't go about thinking about that when you're out on the prowl and just in the midst of women.

Really man, don't worry about catching females. Just sit back, talk to them, chop it up with them and enjoy having a conversation with them. If you pull them cool, if you don't cool, but you're enjoying yourself all the while. When you're simply able to enjoy yourself amongst them and not take them that serious is when you see them become much easier to deal with.

 

[bloodsimple.]

When you're simply able to enjoy yourself amongst them and not take them that serious is when you see them become much easier to deal with.

It's like I forgot the most important rule, which is to have fun.

For whatever reason, it stopped being fun.

Time to step back and re-evaluate shyt, then.

Thanks, breh.

:shake:

 

[kevm3]

here is another snippet of what will eventually be in this book. i don't want to keep plugging it, but ya'll are part of my e-fam on here, so I don't mind sharing with my comrades.

Remaining calm in the storm
There will be several moments in life where you will be tried and things will go awry… In many of these situations, you will be overcome with emotion such as sadness, anger, bewilderment, and confusion. However, as a man, you cannot allow your emotions to conquer you. Allow the emotion to cycle through your body and accept that it must run its due course and then allow it to pass. By attempting to rush it passing, you will only prolong it staying. Upon allowing it to pass, you will then be presented with a calmness. This calmness is the zone that you want to remain in, for it is the one that allows you to make the best decisions since you think the clearest in this state of mind.

In the midst of these turbulent situations do not forget to say a prayer for we are not always able to handle things without help from our Father. Then, formulate a plan and execute. When the going gets gritty, we truly only have two choices. We can stand up or we can lay down. When you look back on your life, do you want to look at yourself as someone who weakly submitted or do you want to be someone who stood tall no matter what? If you have to go down, you need to go down fighting. That’s the only way.

Why should one remain calm in the midst of turbulence? Undue emotion will affect your decision-making process, thus causing you to make irrational choices and thus prolonging the length of time you are in turbulence. When you feel your emotions pushing you and you are compelled to act, sit back and train yourself to wait a minute and allow that emotion to pass and then reassess your objective. We often do and say things in moments of emotion that we soon regret. For example, in anger, we often say harsh words that we regret later. In a fit of greed, we often rush to buy something that we regret later. This is why it is highly important to formulate plans and have a clear picture painted of the direction we want to go In life and to outline the key principles that we will operate on. It will allow us to make proper decisions in the midst of chaotic situations. This is not to say to discard your emotions, but to simply come to the recognition that you should keep your emotions under control whenever possible to be able to accomplish the bigger objective at hand.

When the storm comes you must simply recognize your objective, and calmly and sure-footedly march towards it, facing it head-on. You will be met with pressure but you must continue to push and to chip away at it until this great boulder too is shattered and your path is once again clear.

 

[Jesus]

Basically if you missed the chance to meet a woman in college you're going to have a really tough time finding someone of quality.

 

[AAKing23]

I see in that other thread people giving Kevm3 a hard time cause he refuses to put up with bullshyt on American women. Those other posters even go as far as saying that he gets no ass and his "game" is weak. The shaming tactics that these "players" use is something as wrong and degrading as any hate crime, just cause they don't put up with the shyt that these disrespectful women use. Like these same "players" somehow can "manage" them for the sake of the p*ssy.

I mentioned this in the other thread but I'll elaborate further here



nikkas on here and in general look at p*ssy as the end all be all in every situation and an indicator of their worth as a man A dude could have the cure to cancer, a cure to AIDS and a solution to world hunger and these nikkas wouldn't listen to him if he didn't get p*ssy



If you say something a dude or a female doesn't like on here notice how the first thing he or she says is the ad-hominem "You just mad u can't p*ssy" as if it is something that is impossible to obtain in today's society


The only reason people even say this ad hominem is in the attempt to emasculate a man into feeling like he is not a man because he doesn't have sex when it's really quite the opposite because I see a whole alot of nikkas who act like immature little "boys" walking around who get all the sex in the world. If sex made you a man then we wouldn't have 80% of black children growing up without fathers in the home because those certainly aren't men in my book.




Another thing thing it does artifically is inflate the value of p*ssy as if it is a scarce resource when every women has one and when most give it up easily nowadays





But then again I'm not surprised tho most of these nikkas on here are simps that jump to for women everytime they're criticized because they've become slaves to p*ssy so it doesn't surprise me that they go out of their way to protect it