Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Dealing with a feminine woman vs. what you typically have in America is a HUGE contrast... and I mean HUGE. It goes from ehhhh whatever to, "Man this is how a man should feel around a woman."

That 50/50 trash is a pure sham. All of that gender mixing-and-matching androgynous trash is something I've bashed and will continue to bash. I'm going to keep being a man and I refuse to deal with women who won't embrace their feminine side.

Nothing like a sweet, mellow personality that isn't trying to argue with you all the time.



100% truth


She always seems to be in a good mood.
 

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It's truly a blessing from God when you've found your talent. I think I will pursue writing further. It's something that I enjoy doing and don't require any payment in order to do. I will have some more interesting things for ya'll later.

I will actually take up the recommendation I've been getting of writing a book and knocking it out.
 

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Now this is a gorgeous woman
 

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It's truly a blessing from God when you've found your talent. I think I will pursue writing further. It's something that I enjoy doing and don't require any payment in order to do. I will have some more interesting things for ya'll later.

I will actually take up the recommendation I've been getting of writing a book and knocking it out.

Kevm3 this is kind of offtopic, can you please drop some game on finding your life purpose/calling/destiny. I'm losing sleep every night feeling guilty that I'm unsure about my life purpose/calling/destiny,that time is ticking away and I haven't started living it out yet.
 

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Has anyone ever been in a relationship with a Trinidadian girl? I haven't. I'm half Jamaican(mother), half Trini(father), but more connected with Jamaicans because my mother was a single mother and obviously i would end up being more around her family because my father wasn't around. The one thing that annoys me is that it seems like its damn near impossible to find a Jamaican woman(heck a jamaican person in general) who is down to earth and isn't so aggressive.

If your more mellow something is automatically wrong with you. Especially in the eyes of the woman who seem to have some mental crisis and cannot make up their mind as to whether they like a "silent " guy or a guy who is always talking. Its a pain in the ass how so many Jamaican women always seem to wanna "prove" how bad ass and wild they are. Like seriously shut up.

Of course we know there are always exceptions in some case of every rumor, but I have heard occasionally that Trinidadian women are sometimes the complete opposite of Jamaican women. No idea how true that is. But I would not be surprised since the Island seems to be much more mixed and therefore more open minded than Jamaica where it seems like they have something against everyone not jamaican. But I guess I need to experience a nice Trinidadian girl to see. Like I said before the whole patriarch vs matriarch thing only relates to divorce rates, because ladies can still act the same.....but hopefully I have a better chance.

Tired of these loud ass women.
 

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Kevm3 this is kind of offtopic, can you please drop some game on finding your life purpose/calling/destiny. I'm losing sleep every night feeling guilty that I'm unsure about my life purpose/calling/destiny,that time is ticking away and I haven't started living it out yet.

no doubt bruh.

more than anything, it just really comes down to being honest with yourself and taking the time to experiment. Obviously, you can't just rush off to 'your dream job' and leave everything in the dust.

Honestly man, I'd say the best solution is to find a job that you can tolerate, as in you can go in and do the work without any qualms and without dreading what you're doing while doing your passion on the side.

Pray on it, sit back and think about what you really like and what you don't. NEVER rush into something just because you feel like you have to 'do something.' You'll likely get a degree in something that you don't like at all trying to rush.

What year of school are you in now?
 

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no doubt bruh.

more than anything, it just really comes down to being honest with yourself and taking the time to experiment. Obviously, you can't just rush off to 'your dream job' and leave everything in the dust.

Honestly man, I'd say the best solution is to find a job that you can tolerate, as in you can go in and do the work without any qualms and without dreading what you're doing while doing your passion on the side.

Pray on it, sit back and think about what you really like and what you don't. NEVER rush into something just because you feel like you have to 'do something.' You'll likely get a degree in something that you don't like at all trying to rush.

What year of school are you in now?


last year, I'm doing a degree in Mechanical engineering, I hate it, I only done it because thats a career with higher chances of getting a decent paying job in the end.

I know its not my passion at all,
 

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last year, I'm doing a degree in Mechanical engineering, I hate it, I only done it because thats a career with higher chances of getting a decent paying job in the end.

I know its not my passion at all,

I know what you mean bruh. I got this degree in accounting, and I'm not the biggest fan of accounting at all. What I would look at that degree as is the 'fall-back' degree. You might have to work in that field for a while, but in the meantime, experiment with other fields that have reasonable prospects for employment and that you can actually enjoy doing.

I'm telling you, your competence will be limited in a field that you hate simply because you will make every attempt to really deal with the subject at hand as little as possible. You'll do what's required and be on your merry way instead of really delving into the subject and learning the intricacies of it because you have a liking for it. I would finish up that degree since you are so near to it and use it as a buffer to fall back on, but in the meanwhile, especially your freetime, I'd spend it looking at other fields you might actually be interested in. I'm glad you brought the subject up because I wrote something earlier today on it and I'm actually in the same process of transitioning to something else.
 

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I'm actually taking the advice many of you have recommended me and I'm in the process of writing a book. It's not any sort of magical book to unleash unlimited wealth or some manual on picking up women, but just a sort of compendium of my thoughts.

Here is something along the lines of what to expect:
Stand firmly on your principles

You will often be tested upon what you say and you must either stand on it or cede your point. If you cede your point, your point will be regarded as weak and unworthy. In modern society, however, we are often taught not to stand on principle, but rather to compromise and to try to come to a sort of consensus that is tolerable to everyone, but something that may not necessarily be the right thing to do. With this rule by mob mentality, nothing of significance will truly be accomplished. How can you be distinctive, or in other words, set apart from the crowd, and yet you are doing everything they are doing. Have you ever heard of a great novel written by committee?
Write your story and stand behind the penstrokes
As a man, you must come to a point and realize that you have to be the primary author of your story and to push away those who would write your story for you. You must trust in the brain God has given you and the heart he has bestowed upon you, and compare your decisions against righteous principles. When this decision has been made and solidified, you must stand behind it and see it unto fruition.

There are several times in your life where you must simply have the fortitude to act without the backing of others. You can make a bold move based upon your analyses or you can merely give in to the chants of the crowd and go against your principle. On one hand, you will have pacified the crowd and gained yourself a moment’s respite, but on the other hand, you would have condemned yourself to mediocrity. The very same crowd that hated you when you made your initial decision may very well be the same crowd that loves you after they see the success of your decision. How many great men were hated in their own time? But truly, what does the opinion of the crowd matter in those instances when you are able to see the proper way, a way which Is contrary to what the crowd thinks. Will you be as a lemming, plummeting off of the cliff because you see your brethren doing the same? A true principle of righteous manhood is the ability to be able to stand on your word, even if it is contrary to the crowd.
 
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