Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ok girl hits me on my lunch break. We were supposed to link a couple weeks back but her nephew “busted his head open at Chuck E. Cheese:stopitslime:

Then she’s like “You want me to send more? I’ll go to the bathroom right now:unimpressed:

And sure enough she sends more tit pics and vids of her playing with her p*ssy:leon:talking bout this Saturday she’s finally free, for real.

I told her we’ll see:birdman:but part of me is thinking:mindblown:who sexts so dirty thru texts, sends nudes, to a nikka she has yet to Fck?

this fukking fruitcake, deranged, cinderblock headed bytch did me the same way. Then asked me if she could come lay in my bed naked next week without me asking for some p*ssy. :hhh: I said sure. We can do whatever you like :sas2: mf then said she don’t trust me. I’m like what the fukk you ask me that shyt for then?:birdman: And still sending those nudes. fukk you:pacspit:
 

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I took a huge L the other day brehs, a girl I was seeing told me we were just friends and that she didn't feel like being in a relationship. She said it with no hesitation too, like I meant nothing. I spent money on so many dates :mjcry:

been there too, chalk it up as a loss. Same girl who did me like that returned to give me some sympathy p*ssy. I took it then dropped her ass the next day.

Any girl who says this is lying, she already has someone she fukking or someone in mind where you want to be. Don’t fall for it. Cut off all communication like I did and she’ll magically pop by up in a few months to a year with the bs ass “you crossed my mind” text. If she does that, go brutal. Like ask oh you thought of us fukking up headboards and watching sunrises/sunsets too? :stopitslime:
 

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Brehs I don't care how fine a female is.... I already hate kids..... when she's past her 3rd child she's automatically a 0.

I always see chicks I know pregnant. 25 and on their fifth kid.

Why should these women deserve our time ???? :gucci:

Man I just can't do it with a woman with a child.

If I had a kid I'd understand women not wanting to canoodle or cavort with me so ehh
 

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Brehs I don't care how fine a female is.... I already hate kids..... when she's past her 3rd child she's automatically a 0.

I always see chicks I know pregnant. 25 and on their fifth kid.

Why should these women deserve our time ???? :gucci:
Strictly fukk em. No dates, no relationship
 

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Brehs I don't care how fine a female is.... I already hate kids..... when she's past her 3rd child she's automatically a 0.

I always see chicks I know pregnant. 25 and on their fifth kid.

Why should these women deserve our time ???? :gucci:
3rd?

If a chick got one i’m out of there
 

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I need some advice brehs, this is a code red. Hit the panic button lol.

Nah but all jokes aside I've been talking for this chick for a minute now and when things are great we really have a great connection and we always have an amazing time even if it something as simple as walking through a supermarket. However it always seems like ever so often things go wrong or like we don't speak the same language so it's hard to get through to her. She is also a woman who prides herself on being independent so to speak.

So last night we were having a conversation and she brought up a past conversation where she said she was "Young, Wild and Free". Me personally I don't like the term due to the connotation of it and I expressed that to her and asked her not to use that in a conversation with me. While she agreed I could tell she was upset. I pressed on it a little bit and she told me it bothered her because she says some things "differently" from the way others do and to her Young, Wild and Free means she can do what she wants, she can make goals in life and go out and conquer them and basically that she was independent. She said she now has a fear that other things she says will cause me to ask her to censor herself when she wants to talk freely.

Now this morning she says she didn't like how we ended the convo last night and she wanted to apologize about it and agreed she wouldn't say it but I wanted to make sure she understood why. To make a long story short I told her I wanted to just take the rest of the day to myself and when she asked if I would say goodnight I told her I don't know and she started crying. Now I'm not sure what to do, Do you think I should break up with her or do you guys understand her perspective? Am I bugging?
 

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3rd?

If a chick got one i’m out of there

If a chick got one I still don't mind hitting as long as she's down for the smashing only because as you get older you should expect most of the women your age to be a parent. But once a chick got multiple I won't even look in her direction.

Women be 27 with 5 kids stressed the fukk out and you can see it in their face. Yet somehow they demand the top qualities of dudes.
Chicks be mad as hell a dude be in his 20s playing playstation and going out every weekend.
Like goofy bytch, you chose to have five kids.
 

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I need some advice brehs, this is a code red. Hit the panic button lol.

Nah but all jokes aside I've been talking for this chick for a minute now and when things are great we really have a great connection and we always have an amazing time even if it something as simple as walking through a supermarket. However it always seems like ever so often things go wrong or like we don't speak the same language so it's hard to get through to her. She is also a woman who prides herself on being independent so to speak.

So last night we were having a conversation and she brought up a past conversation where she said she was "Young, Wild and Free". Me personally I don't like the term due to the connotation of it and I expressed that to her and asked her not to use that in a conversation with me. While she agreed I could tell she was upset. I pressed on it a little bit and she told me it bothered her because she says some things "differently" from the way others do and to her Young, Wild and Free means she can do what she wants, she can make goals in life and go out and conquer them and basically that she was independent. She said she now has a fear that other things she says will cause me to ask her to censor herself when she wants to talk freely.

Now this morning she says she didn't like how we ended the convo last night and she wanted to apologize about it and agreed she wouldn't say it but I wanted to make sure she understood why. To make a long story short I told her I wanted to just take the rest of the day to myself and when she asked if I would say goodnight I told her I don't know and she started crying. Now I'm not sure what to do, Do you think I should break up with her or do you guys understand her perspective? Am I bugging?

“Young, wild, & free”? :usure:

Sound like you tryna turn a hoe into a housewife :usure:
 

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she asked if I would say goodnight I told her I don't know and she started crying. Now I'm not sure what to do, Do you think I should break up with her or do you guys understand her perspective? Am I bugging?

Depends on how much you give a fukk about her

I had a chick with similar behavior and from what I understood she wasn't used to assertive dudes so she would play those emotional games (like crying,ask you to accept her etc) to see if i caved in

One thing is for sure she likes you, just make sure you don't back down from your statement

All that crying stuff is fake
 

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I need some advice brehs, this is a code red. Hit the panic button lol.

Nah but all jokes aside I've been talking for this chick for a minute now and when things are great we really have a great connection and we always have an amazing time even if it something as simple as walking through a supermarket. However it always seems like ever so often things go wrong or like we don't speak the same language so it's hard to get through to her. She is also a woman who prides herself on being independent so to speak.

So last night we were having a conversation and she brought up a past conversation where she said she was "Young, Wild and Free". Me personally I don't like the term due to the connotation of it and I expressed that to her and asked her not to use that in a conversation with me. While she agreed I could tell she was upset. I pressed on it a little bit and she told me it bothered her because she says some things "differently" from the way others do and to her Young, Wild and Free means she can do what she wants, she can make goals in life and go out and conquer them and basically that she was independent. She said she now has a fear that other things she says will cause me to ask her to censor herself when she wants to talk freely.

Now this morning she says she didn't like how we ended the convo last night and she wanted to apologize about it and agreed she wouldn't say it but I wanted to make sure she understood why. To make a long story short I told her I wanted to just take the rest of the day to myself and when she asked if I would say goodnight I told her I don't know and she started crying. Now I'm not sure what to do, Do you think I should break up with her or do you guys understand her perspective? Am I bugging?
That's a weird thing not to like. Sound like you the no fun police.
But if it's her way of being disrespectful from your point of view stand your ground.

Young, Wild, and Free does sound like some single shyt though.
 

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“Young, wild, & free”? :usure:

Sound like you tryna turn a hoe into a housewife :usure:
The thing is she is a virgin, at least that's what she told me but I don't like the way that shyt sounds one bit.

Depends on how much you give a fukk about her

I had a chick with similar behavior and from what I understood she wasn't used to assertive dudes so she would play those emotional games (like crying,ask you to accept her etc) to see if i caved in

One thing is for sure she likes you, just make sure you don't back down from your statement

All that crying stuff is fake
Thanks for the advice breh and I agree, it's clear she likes me but I just don't get how she could think that's an okay phrase to use.


That's a weird thing not to like. Sound like you the no fun police.
But if it's her way of being disrespectful from your point of view stand your ground.

Young, Wild, and Free does sound like some single shyt though.
I do like her independence but as you said it sounds like some single shyt and that's why I don't like it. Even when she mentioned it, she said when she was single but then when on to say she still feels that way. I was like hold up!

Then she was like it's because to her it pretty much means she is independent.
 
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