Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

I need some advice brehs, this is a code red. Hit the panic button lol.

Nah but all jokes aside I've been talking for this chick for a minute now and when things are great we really have a great connection and we always have an amazing time even if it something as simple as walking through a supermarket. However it always seems like ever so often things go wrong or like we don't speak the same language so it's hard to get through to her. She is also a woman who prides herself on being independent so to speak.

So last night we were having a conversation and she brought up a past conversation where she said she was "Young, Wild and Free". Me personally I don't like the term due to the connotation of it and I expressed that to her and asked her not to use that in a conversation with me. While she agreed I could tell she was upset. I pressed on it a little bit and she told me it bothered her because she says some things "differently" from the way others do and to her Young, Wild and Free means she can do what she wants, she can make goals in life and go out and conquer them and basically that she was independent. She said she now has a fear that other things she says will cause me to ask her to censor herself when she wants to talk freely.

Now this morning she says she didn't like how we ended the convo last night and she wanted to apologize about it and agreed she wouldn't say it but I wanted to make sure she understood why. To make a long story short I told her I wanted to just take the rest of the day to myself and when she asked if I would say goodnight I told her I don't know and she started crying. Now I'm not sure what to do, Do you think I should break up with her or do you guys understand her perspective? Am I bugging?

I get the young wild and free part u didnt like and yall talked about and she apologized

But no offense u want the day to yourself and not say goodnight over that seems petty as hell or immature

She took the time to apologize and u basically shot her down breh which in return she may not even want to tell u stuff anymore if that upset u that much means cant say shyt around u
Unless I'm understanding it wrong she was wrong and out of line for young wild and free but u were the next day after she apologized

U explained y and ya she didnt like it and that's fine she dont got to like but needs to understand use certain words properly also

Dont get bent out of shape over it also there are worse things and they will happen eventually in a conversation that come where I can see y u wouldnt want to talk to her at that time and not say goodnight

 

[Shameonyou]

I need some advice brehs, this is a code red. Hit the panic button lol.

Nah but all jokes aside I've been talking for this chick for a minute now and when things are great we really have a great connection and we always have an amazing time even if it something as simple as walking through a supermarket. However it always seems like ever so often things go wrong or like we don't speak the same language so it's hard to get through to her. She is also a woman who prides herself on being independent so to speak.

So last night we were having a conversation and she brought up a past conversation where she said she was "Young, Wild and Free". Me personally I don't like the term due to the connotation of it and I expressed that to her and asked her not to use that in a conversation with me. While she agreed I could tell she was upset. I pressed on it a little bit and she told me it bothered her because she says some things "differently" from the way others do and to her Young, Wild and Free means she can do what she wants, she can make goals in life and go out and conquer them and basically that she was independent. She said she now has a fear that other things she says will cause me to ask her to censor herself when she wants to talk freely.

Now this morning she says she didn't like how we ended the convo last night and she wanted to apologize about it and agreed she wouldn't say it but I wanted to make sure she understood why. To make a long story short I told her I wanted to just take the rest of the day to myself and when she asked if I would say goodnight I told her I don't know and she started crying. Now I'm not sure what to do, Do you think I should break up with her or do you guys understand her perspective? Am I bugging?

give her a trial period that she’s not aware of and if her behavior matches with her statement you end it

 

[Neuromancer]

Been taking a break from the dating and like clockwork the week before I travel chicks are popping up all over the place. Wanting to see me.

Went on an impromptu Bumble date with a chick from Kazakhstan, which I didn't know has lots of Koreans.

She's mid thirties, very attractive, keeps herself in shape. We went to watch a movie and afterwards went for drinks and food. She held her own in our convo. Everything flowed. She works in stem cell research.

Things I liked. She brought my cinema ticket without me even asking. And also had no qualms about going halfs on the drinks and meal we had.

Now I knew she wouldn't let me hit on the first date so I had to make sure she knew what time it was. So gentle escalation all evening getting her used to me touching and being playful etc. Walked her back to the station and when we got there we hugged, then I went back in for the kiss, which she reciprocated. Stood there kissing, then told her to message me when she gets home.

Half an hour later she messages, saying she had an amazing time and wants to see me again. I give her my number and tell her to whatsapp me. Which she does, Then told her she should invite me round for dinner. Which she jumped at the chance to.

Will try to see her before I go. I can tell she hasn't been smashed for a while.

Good to hear. She seems to actually like you. She's displaying her interest out right and not relegating you to a meal.

 

[Snoopy Loops]

Your boy might need some emergency dikk pills in the crib stat.
Your boy was caught wanting

I had a long day

Hopefully I get another chance

Need to start taking cardio seriously

 

[DapMeUp!]

Your boy might need some emergency dikk pills in the crib stat.
Your boy was caught wanting

I had a long day

Hopefully I get another chance

Need to start taking cardio seriously

 

[Snoopy Loops]

 

[Canon]

Your boy might need some emergency dikk pills in the crib stat.
Your boy was caught wanting

I had a long day

Hopefully I get another chance

Need to start taking cardio seriously

Always be prepared

 

[VertigoKnight]

So not even one day and the Korean chick from Kazakhstan wanted to meet up again.

She suggested a walk after I finished work and since it was a clear evening I agreed. We walked and chatted for an hour or so. it's always a pleasure when a woman can hold an actual thoughtful and engaging conversation. She told me she was out of a marriage and is also not looking for commitment but valued honesty and being upfront.

Then I suggested we go back to my place, she was up for it. Got back and of course, we ended up kissing some more. She told me I surprised her the other night when I kissed her at the station as she was not expecting it, but she liked it.

So things inevitably get hot and heavy. But she's on her period so couldn't go all the way. But that doesn't mean we can't do other things.

Half an hour in and I had her down to her panties and she told me I seduced her so much, that if she wasn't on her period she was ready to have sex. Anyway, she made sure I wasn't left hanging.



Brehs, I can't even describe the surreal sight of a PAAG speaking Russian phrases to you whilst she is stroking and sucking you off. Told me next time she's going to be fully ready. All in all a good evening.

 

[NeilCartwright]

Might’ve finally hit a play off Tinder

Was chopping it up with a Mexicana and said she wanna link. I suggest coffee. She said she doesn’t like coffee but her and her homegirl got a room and bottles, and to come thru. Hopefully it plays out how I think it willif not ima
Be

To the Breh saying he got caught lacking. I got PTSD From the military and take meds. So they prescribed dikk pillsi stay with a fresh batch but if you need a play I hear amazon has the same quality stuff for the low

 

[Ahadi]

Might’ve finally hit a play off Tinder

Was chopping it up with a Mexicana and said she wanna link. I suggest coffee. She said she doesn’t like coffee but her and her homegirl got a room and bottles, and to come thru. Hopefully it plays out how I think it willif not ima
Be

To the Breh saying he got caught lacking. I got PTSD From the military and take meds. So they prescribed dikk pillsi stay with a fresh batch but if you need a play I hear amazon has the same quality stuff for the low

Be careful. Shyt sound like a set up.

 

[Astroslik]

Your boy might need some emergency dikk pills in the crib stat.
Your boy was caught wanting

I had a long day

Hopefully I get another chance

Need to start taking cardio seriously

That may be your last shot

Cardio and no fap

 

[Astroslik]

Might’ve finally hit a play off Tinder

Was chopping it up with a Mexicana and said she wanna link. I suggest coffee. She said she doesn’t like coffee but her and her homegirl got a room and bottles, and to come thru. Hopefully it plays out how I think it willif not ima
Be

To the Breh saying he got caught lacking. I got PTSD From the military and take meds. So they prescribed dikk pillsi stay with a fresh batch but if you need a play I hear amazon has the same quality stuff for the low

Hopefully you have a gun.

 

[jay83]

Might’ve finally hit a play off Tinder

Was chopping it up with a Mexicana and said she wanna link. I suggest coffee. She said she doesn’t like coffee but her and her homegirl got a room and bottles, and to come thru. Hopefully it plays out how I think it willif not ima
Be

To the Breh saying he got caught lacking. I got PTSD From the military and take meds. So they prescribed dikk pillsi stay with a fresh batch but if you need a play I hear amazon has the same quality stuff for the low

Two random women off tinder asking to link up in a hotel room?

 

[Snoopy Loops]

That may be your last shot

Cardio and no fap

She did say we could try again on another day.

Was prolly just tryna assuage the pain in the moment

I still got other broads. I’ll live

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Match this girl on Wednesday asked her if she's free this weekend she said no next weekend she is. I figured she was bushes status so I asked for her number anyway and she gave it. Texted a few times last night. Not sure what to do from now until next week? Do I text her one time to set up a date? Try to talk to her on phone one time then set up a date? In the past I know I would be texting her all week trying to keep things going and keep her attention but fukk all that since this thread lol.