Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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iphone got damaged, had to buy some cheap ass android.
I never backed up my phone or anything so all my contacts are gone
would have got so upset and pissed back in teh day, after this kobe rip ish i'm just thankul to be alive
I never backed up my phone or anything so all my contacts are gone
would have got so upset and pissed back in teh day, after this kobe rip ish i'm just thankul to be alive
Straw Hat Luffy
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In the bars/clubs then sure I believe that's the perfect time to cold approach. But approaching women in random locations like the gym, store, or on the sidewalk is some weird shyt to me. I mean none of us are trying to talk to random-ass strangers when we are out so it's no different for women. And then from the female perspective, they have to worry about their safety.
Straw Hat Luffy
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Like I said a long time ago in this thread, promote self-esteem. I'm not talking about false arrogance that has you feeling like you're better than the next person. The coli is full of dope people and you are all dope Brehs. None of us should have problems with getting women or dealing with them. Just stop the simping. Most dudes be trapped within their own mind because they can't phantom getting a chick who's super good looking.
But the thing is it's all nonsense. If you're currently talking to a girl you believe is bad af, I bet you can't list 5 things that you would miss about her if she stopped talking to you today other than she looks good and sex. The same thing could be applied when approaching any female you want to talk too. Is she funny? Is she intelligent? Are the conversations fire? Has she been supportive of you and been there since day 1? Does she have the same interests as you? Is she down to be your party partner who's fun to be around on the weekends? Does she put you onto good music? Like when is it ever the case for any of this? You usually get her because you're the one providing all of these quality characteristics not the other way around. This is why it's so silly for the women to have all the power in these interactions.
That's why I say promote having a good self-esteem. As long as you love you and you fukk with yourself then you're good. Create your own hobbies, look forward to events, have your own interests, form your own opinions, have fun by yourself, go out and do shyt by yourself, etc.
But the thing is it's all nonsense. If you're currently talking to a girl you believe is bad af, I bet you can't list 5 things that you would miss about her if she stopped talking to you today other than she looks good and sex. The same thing could be applied when approaching any female you want to talk too. Is she funny? Is she intelligent? Are the conversations fire? Has she been supportive of you and been there since day 1? Does she have the same interests as you? Is she down to be your party partner who's fun to be around on the weekends? Does she put you onto good music? Like when is it ever the case for any of this? You usually get her because you're the one providing all of these quality characteristics not the other way around. This is why it's so silly for the women to have all the power in these interactions.
That's why I say promote having a good self-esteem. As long as you love you and you fukk with yourself then you're good. Create your own hobbies, look forward to events, have your own interests, form your own opinions, have fun by yourself, go out and do shyt by yourself, etc.
Killigraphy
Banned
Depends on the broad, but yes, its doable. However, don't think its an ideal situation, a lot of the time, you're only gonna get L's/numbers. Like I tell most dudes willing to learn some game....you're not gonna teleport into p*ssy at clubs, too many variables, and you're not the door man, so you're gonna struggle at first. Look for milfs/cougars, best chances with them, hot girls still require some kind of long game, that takes up too much time.
Don’t do it brehMy trash ass ex bytch had the nerve to ask me to pick her up from the airport coming from her long distance nerd ass new boyfriend's house. These hoes ain't shyt.
She's now hounding me to meet up for a "drink" talking about she misses me. It feels so damn good to not reply.
MaaaanMy girl broke up with my ass, gone bounce back in a few months
single life
African_brehda
Superstar
Actually6Foot3
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I stick to my strength which is dating apps
Got friends who do best with Instagram (they're on it all the time and always posting memes, which get lots of feedback and posting when they go out which also gets feedback from chics).
Im more of a homebody but I COOK on dating apps
4-5 messages, I get the number and set the tone for a date at the same time. "hey we should get a drink sometime, what's your number?"The older dudes oknow still stick to cold approach. Honestly it goes bad way more often than it goes well(partly because they're approaching women 10 years their Junior) but in that game once you score you're not really focused on all the losses you had leading up to it.
It ends up looking Sort of like this....
I went on a date with a baddie from hinge that said she would feel wierded out by cold approaches. So there's that. Like what was said above it really only works if you're way out of her league
I stick to my strength which is dating apps
Got friends who do best with Instagram (they're on it all the time and always posting memes, which get lots of feedback and posting when they go out which also gets feedback from chics).
Im more of a homebody but I COOK on dating apps
The older dudes oknow still stick to cold approach. Honestly it goes bad way more often than it goes well(partly because they're approaching women 10 years their Junior) but in that game once you score you're not really focused on all the losses you had leading up to it.
It ends up looking Sort of like this....
I went on a date with a baddie from hinge that said she would feel wierded out by cold approaches. So there's that. Like what was said above it really only works if you're way out of her league
Damn it’s that bad that they’re 10 years older? I feel bad about getting old. I’m at the point where I see a lot of younger chicks and I’m like shyt!! Where the grown women at?
How old are your friends?
Actually6Foot3
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I'm 27 so it ranges +/- 5 years from that. Sometimes more. So a 35 y.o dude who ain't in much shape aint pulling a 22 year old Baddie unless he's got bread.
I remember when I was 25 I smashed a 24y.o who said her last tdate was a 31 y.o but he felt older. She was turned off
Keep up your self and youll be fine.
Idk I’m so worried breh, I’m realizing how fast time is going and I still got so much shyt I want to do that will still continue in my 30s, but I don’t want to lose women being older.
I hope being in shape really is the key.