Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[SATAN]

So how can I make it clear to a woman that I'm not looking for a serious committed relationship? Like early in the interaction, so she doesn't think I'm looking for a girlfriend and get scared off.

I just want casual sex . Maybe a couple dates a month, maybe. A lot of women don't want a boyfriend right now so they get scared off when a dude asks for the number because they assume that dude wants something serious

 

[MikelArteta]

So how can I make it clear to a woman that I'm not looking for a serious committed relationship? Like early in the interaction, so she doesn't think I'm looking for a girlfriend and get scared off.

I just want casual sex . Maybe a couple dates a month, maybe. A lot of women don't want a boyfriend right now so they get scared off when a dude asks for the number because they assume that dude wants something serious

I never say anything until a woman says so what are we

 

[The True HD]

So how can I make it clear to a woman that I'm not looking for a serious committed relationship? Like early in the interaction, so she doesn't think I'm looking for a girlfriend and get scared off.

I just want casual sex . Maybe a couple dates a month, maybe. A lot of women don't want a boyfriend right now so they get scared off when a dude asks for the number because they assume that dude wants something serious

Are y'all scared of women? Same way you can come here and tell us this is the same way you should link with her and let it be known.... she will respect you being upfront and as a man this saves you your most valuable asset, time, because you'll know right away if she's down with the play. Worst case she says a serious relationship is what she's after n you have to change your tune a bit to line up, but you can still come out on top....

"I'm just trying to kick it/chill/vibe and get to know you better, hit a couple spots here n there with you n feel each other out ('and maybe up' - with a smirk, bedroom eyes and playful arm rub - should get a laugh if you're smooth widdit) The last serious relationship I was in really did a number on me so I'm not tryna dive headfirst into sumn like that until I'm really sure the girl/woman is worth it... ya know? Like John Legend says, take it slooooow (actually sing that semi-romantically while lookin into her eyes to get a laugh)" then she'll either laugh or tell you to "stoooop" and it should all be lighthearted and chill.

The less pressure you apply the easier it is to maneuver. I'm all about makin my women laugh n be comfortable/loose around me.... I'm not a court jester but between making fun of them n being naturally witty, it helps when she knows you don't take her too seriously no matter how fine she is.

 

[Bless't]

Are y'all scared of women? Same way you can come here and tell us this is the same way you should link with her and let it be known.... she will respect you being upfront and as a man this saves you your most valuable asset, time, because you'll know right away if she's down with the play. Worst case she says a serious relationship is what she's after n you have to change your tune a bit to line up, but you can still come out on top....

"I'm just trying to kick it/chill/vibe and get to know you better, hit a couple spots here n there with you n feel each other out ('and maybe up' - with a smirk, bedroom eyes and playful arm rub - should get a laugh if you're smooth widdit) The last serious relationship I was in really did a number on me so I'm not tryna dive headfirst into sumn like that until I'm really sure the girl/woman is worth it... ya know? Like John Legend says, take it slooooow (actually sing that semi-romantically while lookin into her eyes to get a laugh)" then she'll either laugh or tell you to "stoooop" and it should all be lighthearted and chill.

The less pressure you apply the easier it is to maneuver. I'm all about makin my women laugh n be comfortable/loose around me.... I'm not a court jester but between making fun of them n being naturally witty, it helps when she knows you don't take her too seriously no matter how fine she is.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

What she do now?

I saw the interview she had saying all men are bad people because she doesn’t make good choices in them

 

[jay83]

So I just got to Germany. I’ll be here for a minute. I’ve heard stories of black dudes doing well out here. Lol

 

[SATAN]

Are y'all scared of women? Same way you can come here and tell us this is the same way you should link with her and let it be known.... she will respect you being upfront and as a man this saves you your most valuable asset, time, because you'll know right away if she's down with the play. Worst case she says a serious relationship is what she's after n you have to change your tune a bit to line up, but you can still come out on top....

"I'm just trying to kick it/chill/vibe and get to know you better, hit a couple spots here n there with you n feel each other out ('and maybe up' - with a smirk, bedroom eyes and playful arm rub - should get a laugh if you're smooth widdit) The last serious relationship I was in really did a number on me so I'm not tryna dive headfirst into sumn like that until I'm really sure the girl/woman is worth it... ya know? Like John Legend says, take it slooooow (actually sing that semi-romantically while lookin into her eyes to get a laugh)" then she'll either laugh or tell you to "stoooop" and it should all be lighthearted and chill.

The less pressure you apply the easier it is to maneuver. I'm all about makin my women laugh n be comfortable/loose around me.... I'm not a court jester but between making fun of them n being naturally witty, it helps when she knows you don't take her too seriously no matter how fine she is.

Please never do this, breh! Huge mistake. Never mention past relationships, and never mention past emotional damage.

 

[jadillac]

Please never do this, breh! Huge mistake. Never mention past relationships, and never mention past emotional damage.

Disagree. If you just say ur looking for something casual women assume ur just a player sleeping around

You can mention that you just wanna take it slow bc of your last relationship ending bad. And it makes you look like a good guy just tryna figure things out. It makes you look like relationship material.

 

[The True HD]

Please never do this, breh! Huge mistake. Never mention past relationships, and never mention past emotional damage.

You're sleep, you the one who doesn't want something serious so that's just the scapegoat in this particular situation.... you don't have to mention anything specific, it's just setting up the dynamic of you not wanting anything serious fast.

"Really did a number on me" is all up to interpretation, doesn't mean it left you heartbroken just that it could've been a crazy experience filled with ups n downs, or that for all the time you invested you thought you guys would still be together.... who knows and who cares, was just giving you a way to set up a casual situation like how you wanted.

If she presses you for details, just say it's in the past n you'd rather focus on the present n the future, or that as time goes on you'll probably open up to her about it, but never do.

I've never been damaged emotionally in a relationship breh, but just how women use smoke n mirrors to paint certain pictures of themselves n why they are the way they are, you'd benefit to employ some of their tactics.....

 

[SATAN]

Disagree. If you just say ur looking for something casual women assume ur just a player sleeping around

You can mention that you just wanna take it slow bc of your last relationship ending bad. And it makes you look like a good guy just tryna figure things out. It makes you look like relationship material.

You're sleep, you the one who doesn't want something serious so that's just the scapegoat in this particular situation.... you don't have to mention anything specific, it's just setting up the dynamic of you not wanting anything serious fast.

"Really did a number on me" is all up to interpretation, doesn't mean it left you heartbroken just that it could've been a crazy experience filled with ups n downs, or that for all the time you invested you thought you guys would still be together.... who knows and who cares, was just giving you a way to set up a casual situation like how you wanted.

If she presses you for details, just say it's in the past n you'd rather focus on the present n the future, or that as time goes on you'll probably open up to her about it, but never do.

I've never been damaged emotionally in a relationship breh, but just how women use smoke n mirrors to paint certain pictures of themselves n why they are the way they are, you'd benefit to employ some of their tactics.....

Rep...this is real game

 

[African_brehda]

When its obvious a chick is pulling back, you count your losses and fall back, right?

 

[Canon]

When its obvious a chick is pulling back, you count your losses and fall back, right?

Pull back as well

 

[jadillac]

Saw this posted on facebook. and of course the women in the comments eat it up

He couldn’t love you because he was NEVER supposed to have YOU You hired him for a job he was UNQUALIFIED to do. The man that God has designed JUST for you is already equipped with the POWER to love YOU. He already knows how to protect YOU. How to honor YOU. How to respect YOU. How to sacrifice for YOU. How to cleave to YOU. How to pray over YOU. How to cover YOU. You don’t have to show him how to be YOUR husband. You don’t have to show him how you NEED to be loved. God has already shown him how to take care of YOU. Long before he EVEN knew you existed. That other guy is just a placeholder sitting in for him. Until God knows that YOUR husband is ready for YOU. And that YOU are ready for HIM. You’re not asking for too much. You’re just asking the WRONG person. Loving YOU will never be difficult...To the MAN who was DESIGNED to LOVE YOU ‍

I wanted to hop in the comments like, "some of y'all HAD dudes like this and didn't appreciate them or didn't recognize them"

And on top of this, if the dude is doing ALL this, what are you bringing to him?

And lol at that other guy being a "placeholder". Women seem to be content with placeholders until they're not content anymore

 

[jadillac]

When its obvious a chick is pulling back, you count your losses and fall back, right?

I'm in the process of this rt now. Trying to figure out how to pull back without completely ignoring her in person. I don't want her to know I'm annoyed or bothered, cuz she'll ask what's wrong, but just want her to recognize a smaller amount of communication is occurring.

Trust They already know why they're wrong they just need to see you've become less interested.

 

[VertigoKnight]

When its obvious a chick is pulling back, you count your losses and fall back, right?

Yep. To continue to pursue in those situations is a non-starter. Nothing you can say will change her mind.

Except for your indifference. I'm never rude or nasty just I return the lack of effort she's showing to me.