Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

Saw this posted on facebook. and of course the women in the comments eat it up



I wanted to hop in the comments like, "some of y'all HAD dudes like this and didn't appreciate them or didn't recognize them"

And on top of this, if the dude is doing ALL this, what are you bringing to him?

And lol at that other guy being a "placeholder". Women seem to be content with placeholders until they're not content anymore

The real sad shyt is these same women will still be single waiting for this guy that's supposed to be sent to her.

A man and a woman have to work in a relationship, be communicative and be honest. How have so many of these bird-brained women forgotten that?

Also, a lot of these women are bringing nothing to the relationship, they have no aspirations, no career, no plans or passions.

Juts offering p*ssy every now and then and a rotten attitude.

 

[semicko82]

When its obvious a chick is pulling back, you count your losses and fall back, right?

Yup

 

[VertigoKnight]

Had a superb weekend. I met my Taiwanese shorty on Friday for dinner. Ended up staying overnight at her place. In the morning she told me she's going to make me some food and sat down and hand made 25 pork, shrimp and cabbage dumplings for us to have.

Then I went with her to go pick up her new rug, she said I could have just chilled at her place, but I reward good energy and no bullshyt. Helped her set it up in her living room and she climbed onto my lap slowly grinding on me. Carried her off to her bedroom to deal with her.

Sunday the other PAAG who flew in on Friday came with me to brunch, where I was meeting with a few friends. I know this can be risky but she's socialized and is able to hang around with any crowd and be charming. Had brunch, went back to my place and fukked all afternoon.

She told me she hadn't fukked since July. Brehs, I forgot how amazing this chicks body is. So smooth. Perfect for me breast size, waist, and booty were looking extra good. And the head game.



Slept, showered then we went out for Sushi in the evening and she didn't have to be asked to pay her half of the meal. No bullshyt grown folk encounters.

 

[Canon]

Yep. To continue to pursue in those situations is a non-starter. Nothing you can say will change her mind.

Except for your indifference. I'm never rude or nasty just I return the lack of effort she's showing to me.

i actually got real passive aggressive when i felt a chick doing this last week

was like "alright have a happy holidays".who knows how that will play out.

 

[Abraxus]

She had her period

God got you breh! Every time! Blast off at will!

 

[jadillac]

God got you breh! Every time! Blast off at will!

 

[VertigoKnight]

i actually got real passive aggressive when i felt a chick doing this last week

was like "alright have a happy holidays".who knows how that will play out.

Nothing some of these chicks love than to see you come out of yourself and snap.

And nothing gets at them like you smiling and getting on with your own thing.

 

[SATAN]

So a female friend I've known for over a year seems to have caught feelings for me... I'm not attracted to her in that way and it feels awkward as fukk. Is it up to me to do anything about it? Or do I just not say shyt and hope she gets it? I've never flirted with her or given her any mixed signals, she's like one of the guys to me.

She hoop wit us and everything (she played D1 at DePaul back in the day, shyt is fun as hell when she on the team)

She just suddenly started complimenting me a lot and calling/texting me at random times to "see how I'm doing", and she keeps inviting me to come "watch a movie and cuddle" with her. I just tell her I'd rather go hoop or do something else.

She usually has a tomboy style but she has started dressing more feminine with tight clothes if she knows I'm going to be at a certain place. And she follows me around a lot.

She's the homie though, I don't feel attracted to her and I never have. I had actually assumed she was lez this whole time.. Do I just address the shyt to make it clear?

 

[Astroslik]

God got you breh! Every time! Blast off at will!

The dualities of that pre and post no- pullout nut clarity

 

[VertigoKnight]

So a female friend I've known for over a year seems to have caught feelings for me... I'm not attracted to her in that way and it feels awkward as fukk. Is it up to me to do anything about it? Or do I just not say shyt and hope she gets it? I've never flirted with her or given her any mixed signals, she's like one of the guys to me.

She hoop wit us and everything (she played D1 at DePaul back in the day, shyt is fun as hell when she on the team)

She just suddenly started complimenting me a lot and calling/texting me at random times to "see how I'm doing", and she keeps inviting me to come "watch a movie and cuddle" with her. I just tell her I'd rather go hoop or do something else.

She usually has a tomboy style but she has started dressing more feminine with tight clothes if she knows I'm going to be at a certain place. And she follows me around a lot.

She's the homie though, I don't feel attracted to her and I never have. I had actually assumed she was lez this whole time.. Do I just address the shyt to make it clear?

I know you're not attracted to her, but is she attractive?

 

[97Pac]

Im going through that baby dread stage so my confidence is at a low. Although Ive dropped 20 pounds and setting a goal to lose another 20. This winter has been great for a breh to grind and build up. Atlanta is full of so much p*ssy its hard to sit back and just focus on grinding

 

[bucks3115]

@jadillac talk abt bein nice to girl

i fukked 2 diff chick this week easily (one new girl and my ex)

but this litte chick i still cant get her off my mind , i told her story on how i fukked last time and she was acting different after that

up ther u can see her answer , sayin its bcz she was busy with exam dats why she ddnt text

she finished her exam on Saturday and went out with her friends ( they stay together and always go out together)

our text
me : waddup u done with school

[ she answered after an hour]

her : yea im done , am at club
btw its close to you place

me : if you finish come to me

her : ayt let me see

her : im comin for a few , u will pay for my cab

me : yup i will

[after 10 min]

her : we went home

me : hmmm allright


since then we ddnt talk , like she always want me to text first and a
sometimes she text when she miss me but she likes to say , u r the man u shuld text me 1st

wher did i go wrong?
@HearNoEvil @Shameonyou @Youseenmywork
@Mister_DoItNice
@RRTANGENTABACUS
@VertigoKnight

@VertigoKnight i also need ur opinion on this

 

[SATAN]

I know you're not attracted to her, but is she attractive?

No. Also overweight

@jadillac talk abt bein nice to girl

i fukked 2 diff chick this week easily (one new girl and my ex)

but this litte chick i still cant get her off my mind , i told her story on how i fukked last time and she was acting different after that

up ther u can see her answer , sayin its bcz she was busy with exam dats why she ddnt text

she finished her exam on Saturday and went out with her friends ( they stay together and always go out together)

our text
me : waddup u done with school

[ she answered after an hour]

her : yea im done , am at club
btw its close to you place

me : if you finish come to me

her : ayt let me see

her : im comin for a few , u will pay for my cab

me : yup i will

[after 10 min]

her : we went home

me : hmmm allright


since then we ddnt talk , like she always want me to text first and a
sometimes she text when she miss me but she likes to say , u r the man u shuld text me 1st

wher did i go wrong?
@HearNoEvil @Shameonyou @Youseenmywork
@Mister_DoItNice
@RRTANGENTABACUS
@VertigoKnight

She dropped a hint and you missed it.

her : yea im done , am at club
btw its close to you place

She wanted you to come to the club to see her, then y'all could go to your place since it's close

Still, if she were interested in you then she would've came thru after the club. Also she didn't even invite you to the club

I don't think she's that into you. Leave her be, you got options anyway.

 

[HARLEM AL]

fukk is wrong with some of ya'll nikkas in here? nikkas going in bytches raw, nikkas telling bytches I love you, nikkas getting into long ass arguments with bytches thru text.

No wonder these broads out here got the upper hand.

Who raised ya'll?

I’m scared to come back in this thread playa.
I’m just going to come out and say it. These women out here want masculine men so bad man. shyt is crazy. They absolutely can not stand bytch ass men. I know women have a lot going on with them but let them deal with that. You just be a man. Stand your ground, learn some shyt, lift some shyt, create, build etc....... do whatever you want to do for yourself.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Went out with this chick from hinge last night who didn't have any full body pics. I figured she was a little big but she was bigger than I thought. Just wasted both our times and $40. I'm only swiping on girls I'm attracted to and with full body pictures . Lesson to be learned is don't waste your time.