Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Went out with this chick from hinge last night who didn't have any full body pics. I figured she was a little big but she was bigger than I thought. Just wasted both our times and $40. I'm only swiping on girls I'm attracted to and with full body pictures :ufdup:. Lesson to be learned is don't waste your time.
You should have cut that shyt short
 

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If you are doing your thing and a descent dude these chicks will always come back. I went on a few dates with a woman last year which led to not a damn thing. I just told her I’m gonna do my thing. A year later I’m in Germany and she hits me on WhatsApp talking about“ how was your day?” like we ain’t talked for a damn year?
 

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How y'all deal with your girl acting up and talking disrespectful when she's angry?
I'm a generally calm and nonchalant breh, so I just ignore her..I just feel telling her anything will seem too emotional
 

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How y'all deal with your girl acting up and talking disrespectful when she's angry?
I'm a generally calm and nonchalant breh, so I just ignore her..I just feel telling her anything will seem too emotional

Besides ignore her which she cant stand
I'm a a$$hole and will check her real easily vocally damn her feelings she know she :ufdup: when I get like that and will calm down real quick
I dont play that shyt I'm all for speaking ur mind and being honest but when u come at me better come correct and deal with the consequences of that shyt and I will also deny her sex cuz I'm petty like that :birdman:
 

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Went out with this chick from hinge last night who didn't have any full body pics. I figured she was a little big but she was bigger than I thought. Just wasted both our times and $40. I'm only swiping on girls I'm attracted to and with full body pictures :ufdup:. Lesson to be learned is don't waste your time.

Women who only show their faces on the apps nine times out ten are fatsos. That's always the dead giveaway. I got more respect for fat chicks who post full pics.

You think a chick with a nice body is hiding it? A dude who fits well in a muscle shirt will advertise that shyt too.
 

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Women who only show their faces on the apps nine times out ten are fatsos. That's always the dead giveaway. I got more respect for fat chicks who post full pics.

You think a chick with a nice body is hiding it? A dude who fits well in a muscle shirt will advertise that shyt too.
Face all 2 inches from the camera and shyt :pachaha::mjlol:
 

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@VertigoKnight i also need ur opinion on this

I would have suggested to her you meet for a quick drink away from the club and her cockblocking friends. Would have worked better. I bet you she showed her friends your messages and they were like:usure: gurlll we taking your ass home.

Although it all comes down to her, If she was really on it she wouldn't tell them until the next day, after she'd come and seen you.

I'd leave her be and see if she rolls round again but if she pulls this again. I'd bush.
 

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So a female friend I've known for over a year seems to have caught feelings for me... I'm not attracted to her in that way and it feels awkward as fukk. Is it up to me to do anything about it? Or do I just not say shyt and hope she gets it? I've never flirted with her or given her any mixed signals, she's like one of the guys to me.

She hoop wit us and everything (she played D1 at DePaul back in the day, shyt is fun as hell when she on the team)

She just suddenly started complimenting me a lot and calling/texting me at random times to "see how I'm doing", and she keeps inviting me to come "watch a movie and cuddle" with her. I just tell her I'd rather go hoop or do something else.

She usually has a tomboy style but she has started dressing more feminine with tight clothes if she knows I'm going to be at a certain place. And she follows me around a lot.

She's the homie though, I don't feel attracted to her and I never have. I had actually assumed she was lez this whole time.. Do I just address the shyt to make it clear?
Let her know how you feel about her. Explained to her your that you value her friendship and you don't want to anything that could possibly damage it.
 

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Women who only show their faces on the apps nine times out ten are fatsos. That's always the dead giveaway. I got more respect for fat chicks who post full pics.

You think a chick with a nice body is hiding it? A dude who fits well in a muscle shirt will advertise that shyt too.
Sad part is I know all this shyt but she had a cute face and I took a gamble on how big she is. I would fool around with a big girl but she didn't seem like the side chick type. I been through it with too many girls rather have my space and time then deal with bullshyt and crazy bytches anymore.
 

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Went out with this chick from hinge last night who didn't have any full body pics. I figured she was a little big but she was bigger than I thought. Just wasted both our times and $40. I'm only swiping on girls I'm attracted to and with full body pictures :ufdup:. Lesson to be learned is don't waste your time.

Women who only show their faces on the apps nine times out ten are fatsos. That's always the dead giveaway. I got more respect for fat chicks who post full pics.

You think a chick with a nice body is hiding it? A dude who fits well in a muscle shirt will advertise that shyt too.

Another huge red flag are the girls who put that "big eyes" filter on all their pictures. Looking like a damn anime character. They always have some huge insecurity issues
 

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Another huge red flag are the girls who put that "big eyes" filter on all their pictures. Looking like a damn anime character. They always have some huge insecurity issues
The old saying if you got it flaunt is so true especially for women. If they don't got it then they don't flaunt it. Any type of filter is def a red flag.
 

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Sad part is I know all this shyt but she had a cute face and I took a gamble on how big she is. I would fool around with a big girl but she didn't seem like the side chick type. I been through it with too many girls rather have my space and time then deal with bullshyt and crazy bytches anymore.

For me personally a cute face is cool, but I don't mess with big women. I only go for slim chicks now. Especially after a certain age "big" is one beef patty and coco bread away from obese. No thank you.

Another huge red flag are the girls who put that "big eyes" filter on all their pictures. Looking like a damn anime character. They always have some huge insecurity issues

That's annoying, but what turns me off the most are these arrogant women who come with a whole lot of attitude straight out the gate and call men names i.e. "no fukkboys". Even one chick's profile said something along the lines of "we'll get along good if you're not sensitive and can take me calling you dikkhead jokingly". That's not :duck: either. Not to mention those women who post pictures of themselves with different men like I'm supposed to be impressed they get male attention. :rudy: It shows you the mentality of the type of chicks out there these days.
 
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