Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Spades Of Aces]

Fam if you understand how woman think and move you will understand its not as simple as that, it's deeper than that. Your 'best self' is subjective. Alot of the qualities you would consider best about you or what makes a great man many men have had in abundance and relationships have failed women have left and cheated not simply because simoly/just because he is a whore but because he never fully understood the levels.

My point with the post is that if you bring your best self to the table, regardless if she accepts it or not, you aren’t worried nor stressing it because your life is in order. She either will join you or not. If she doesn’t want to, you move on to the next woman whom meets your standards.

I just feel in general we put unnecessary pressure on ourselves when it’s really simple I believe. Control what you can control, which is yourself. Don’t let women dictate how you move nor feel. She moves to the beat of your drum, not the other way around.

 

[semicko82]

@semicko82

What made no sense to me about your story was that she dropped you back home when y’all was going the same place. Makes no sense.

Yep that's what throwing me off, we stopped at her house again then she told me I have to take care of something. I'll meet you up there

 

[semicko82]

@Silkk

nikkas told you about them strippers. These girls can no longer separate work from life, their work is their life therefore every man they meet is just a lick.

She don't see no difference between you and them nikkas throwing mad money at her just to see her dance and she believes all it takes is the right persuasion to get any man to become one of them nikkas.

Ok I can see that, but why invite somewhere then practically stand me up. If you wanted to keep in your circle as a mark then that's a bad way of keeping a customer

 

[Balla]

Yep that's what throwing me off, we stopped at her house again then she told me I have to take care of something. I'll meet you up there

Yeah I would have told her why u dropping me off if we going to the same place?

I would think she was doing something she ain’t want you to know, and she’s a stripper, so I mean, you can’t really think they aren’t doing anything.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

The thing is he said he doesn't want a hoe, but his strategy and everything he is saying will do nothing but catch hoes.

nikkas need to stop saying shyt like a want a girl who's a hoe for me, the exclusive hoe is mythical.

Yea when he said thst he pretty much revealed he loooking for one

 

[semicko82]

Yeah I would have told her why u dropping me off if we going to the same place?

I would think she was doing something she ain’t want you to know, and she’s a stripper, so I mean, you can’t really think they aren’t doing anything.

Right, I should have asked that, but I was drinking and caught up in the moment

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Ok I can see that, but why invite somewhere then practically stand me up. If you wanted to keep in your circle as a mark then that's a bad way of keeping a customer

Depends on how much of a mark she thought you was...

 

[semicko82]

Depends on how much of a mark she thought you was...

Well I dodged a bullet if that's the case

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

You're right, any woman who shows physical attraction on the first date is a unrepentant home wrecking whore. I should court these women at least 9 dates with a dowry in tow before I even think of making my intentions I'm attracted sexually to them clear, that'll make sure shes not a hoe. heavens forbid if she tries to have sex with me, by golly I'd have to get rid of that hoe since only a a woman of no value would do such a thing. Is it 1883?



If you think only unscrupulous women kiss or show they are interested on the first date that's pretty funny of you to call anyone else a rookie I know I'm opening myself to some emotional holier than thou "I'm the king bytch whisperer" reply cuz nikkas love to show they ass in here but w/e, spit your lick breh.

Firstly why do nikkas always do shyt like this. No one said anything about courting a woman for 9 dates dowry in tow before you make your sexual interest clear, so why are talking that bullshyt. I don't have time for that nonsense so if your ever going to discuss anything with me for future reference stick to what I actaully said instead of making up bullshyt and acting as if that's what I said.

This is the truth, no matter how much of some fukking stud you think you are, the easier a girl makes it for you is indicative of how easy she makes it in general. Use your brain, a girl who sees and and instantly views you as a 7 or 8 and very quickly is into fukking you what the fukk does it tell you about her, how she approaches attraction and courtship you think in the short amount of time a bytch makes that decision with you based on barely fukking knowing you that the same thing is not easily replicated with other guys. You think your the only nikka she finds attractive she will ever meet, only nikka she finds funny she will ever meet, if its that easy and simple for you what makes you think its not that easy and simple for any other nikka. If she can decide she wants to fukk you in 1 date what about nikkas she's spending 8 hours a day with 5 days a week at work?

You believe dumb shyt like you said before, you want a girl who's not a hoe but is a hoe for you. That shyt is mythical. Hoeness is a disease fam, that infects and spreads and can only be contained in temporary periods. Once shes a hoe its fukking over, there's no such thing as a hoe for you and not for anyone else. If you can extract the hoe from a girl so can any other nikka with the right game, probably even quicker than you if he's better.

Again girls who give shyt up quickly and easily, who shows high attraction very early on is Indicative of how they approach attraction, courtship and sex in general, that behaviour does not begin or end with you. Hoes are easy, loose girls are easy and give it up quick

 

[Youseenmywork]

Do you like kissing? what does kissing do for you?

or is it more like you feel like kissing on the first date means it’s more likely that she’ll be open to fukk on the next one?

I can say I haven't kiss a lot of women ...in my life like that. I know that may sound odd but I believe kissing someone is the most personal thing you can do. I just don't think when your...causal dating you should be kissing all these women ...I know that my come across as weird .

When they don’t kiss you, you think it’s going to take to long to get them fukk. Lmao.

some women believe it or not, don’t enjoy kissing. I’m one of them. I don’t like kissing at all.

 

[Deafheaven]

Firstly why do nikkas ways do shyt like this. No one said anything about courting a woman for 9 dates dowry in tow before you make your sexual interest clear, so why are talking that bullshyt. I don't have time for that nonsense so if your ever go na discuss anything with me for future reference stick to what I actaully said instead of making up bullshyt and acting as if that's what I said.

This is the truth, no matter how much of somefukking stud you think you are, the easier a girl makes it for you is indicative of how easy she makes it in general. Use your brain, a girl who sees and and instantly views you as a 7 or 8 and very quickly is into fukking you what the fukk does it tell you about her, how she approaches attraction and courtship you think in the short amount of time a bytch makes that decision with you based on barely fukking knowing you that the same thing is not easily replicated with other guys. You think your the only nikka she finds attractive she will ever meet, only nikka she finds funny she will ever meet, if its that easy and simple for you what makes you think its not that easy and simple for any other nikka. If she can decide she wants to fukk you in 1 date what about nikkas she's spending 8 hours a day with 5 days a week at work?

You believe dumb shyt like you said before, you want a girl who's not a hoe but is a hoe fo

You key in on one word and go on this diatribe off it. But yes I do want to a girl who acts like a hoe for me. My ex of 4 years had 2 partners at 21 before me and she made things very easy for me in general (initally ). So I mean I guess she was a hoe, she did have sex before me. Now can some girls who are easy to get along with also hoes. Sure, but I'm not vehemently looking for them. I like picky women, because I too am picky.

Also you seem to think I'm posed to live in fear of my girl getting taken by someone if she makes things easy for me, breh who cares? This shyt screams fear and scarcity. Its 3.5 billion women on earth. If she want to move around move around, its mathematically impossible for you to even approach let alone date the amount of women who would be attracted to you in any big city. I've had self professed hoes in my rotation and I assure you that's not what i'm pursuing atm but I'll let you cook fam.

In any case if your big gotcha is "if she shows shes attracted to you too fast she gonna leave you fast" I really don't care man. Easy come easy go. I got one chick I'm actually feeling right now and like 3 others when I'm bored. In my field I'm around pretty women all day, if shyt doesn't work it doesn't work. Its plenty of fish in the sea. what I refuse to do is live a life of fear if a girl god forbids likes me in a quick manner. That seems preposterous. And before you go well you gonna get yours, I'm almost 30, no kids, no stds, no lingering lady drama and its not like I haven't been out here. I think I'm doing well for myself.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

@SchwarzStein

There is never a girl more likely to be loyal and devoted to you then a girl you took from initial low/no attraction to high attraction over time.

Because that type of attraction requires two things, factors based on way more than just surface level shyt and initial intrigue that will get boring or fade away and/or an ability by the man to manipulate and alter her emotions. If you can strategically alter how she views you and her emotions towards you then you can keep her in check indefinitely by continuing to do so. And alot of men cant do that because they settle for the girls that they are attracted too that don't make shyt hard.

 

[Deafheaven]

@SchwarzStein

There is never a girl more likely to be loyal and devoted to you then a girl you took from initial low/no attraction to high attraction over time.

Because that type of attraction requires two things, factors based on way more than just surface level shyt and initial intrigue that will get boring or fade away and/or an ability by the man to manipulate and alter her emotions. If you can strategically alter how she views you and her emotions towards you then you can keep her in check indefinitely by continuing to do so. And alot of men cant do that because she settle for the girls that they are attracted too that don't make shyt hard.

okay now were getting somewhere this is interesting. I have to disagree. It would be far less stress on yourself and the relationship in general if its built on a solid foundation initially. If she already like you, all you have to do is simply not lose your masculine frame and turn into a bytch. whereaways raising her attraction is far more arduous. I've been on both sides that's why I'm so against it now. I've had to reconstruct attraction from nothing and I'm never ever doing that shyt again. Loyalty from women is a nebulous concept anyway because most operate with such fleeting emotions and feelings its not something I dwell on unless I am considering making her my monogamous woman. And in that instance a lot of vetting has already occurred. If I get duped I get duped. I'm smart enough to only tie my emotions into a women never finances, life decisions, living spaces, etc. So all I lose is time which is a terrible thing to waste but it is what it is.

 

[Marzupial]

To chime In this topic i think it depends

If a girl is hoeing for you because she likes your looks than there's a bigger chance of her being a hoe


But if she likes your personality and your uniqueness then it's only for you


It's dumb to want to have a bytch hoe just for you when you just a regular average nikka.look in the mirror and ask, what separates me from the rest of this nikkas?

 

[CarmelBarbie]

@Youseenmywork Those are my thoughts too. I feel like kissing is very intimate. I don’t want random men tongue in my mouth. I also find kissing itself awkward. Its gross too, human tongues in 2019 . Strangely enough I don’t mind tongue in other places lol.