Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Threw ole girl into the bushes. Went out again and she was on some BS.

She just wanted attention....:yeshrug:

She talking bout she wants a husband and she aint tryna get intimate until she really knows a person.

Like breh...we too old to be playing these games. Like I had my hand up your dress. You knew from the jump where I was at.

Now you saying “maybe oneday”

Nahhh...I’m not tryna have my time wasted.

End of the day, it was my fault. I picked wrong and I wasn’t explicit in me wanting something casual. Dropping hints ain’t enough.

But it’s all learnings from me.
 
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:takedat::takedat::takedat:Slight humble brag but brehs I love being a Slightly hood Slightly corporate Black man. I get access to so many different types of women. A variety of Women that I know I couldn't get say I was mexican, asian, indian, or some other bullshyt like that. Chicks see my handsome black ass rocking A blazer, some fitted dress pants and a V-neck muscle hugging Tee and lose their fukking minds. I open my mouth and an Eloquent hybrid of Tech, Hip Hop, and pop culture poetry just flows out effortlessly and induces Vagina tingling brain chemicals all through a chicks cerebellum. Growing up you hear how other races of women don't fukk with us like that but it's definitely bullshyt. I got a Moroccan, a Palestinian, a Pakistani, and a Sistah all on the roster and it's been a slow couple months for me. Damn I love being a black man. Cheers to my fellow Brehs. :jawalrus::jawalrus::jawalrus:


So women love u cause u tupac in a buisness suit
 

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Some women dont throw themselves out there quick.

U got to get to kno them a while before they get intimate.


And once again, this completely 100 percent fine and I respect them for it. I want the women who into me off jump thats it. Sure you can bring a womans attraction to you from a 5 to a 10. but why bother when its a myriad of women who view you as a 7 just looking at you and you at a 8 after date one? We should be working smarter not harder out chea.

If she needs to go on X amount of dates before she can display shes into me physically it aint gonna work because lord knows it is someone somewhere that will get the affection from her quickly. Its not me and thats fine but I'm also not bout to hang around to try to raise her attraction :ld:
 

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Which is fine. any girl who is like this I wouldn't pursue them at all after that but if they show interest I'll go along with it. But for me to continue the chase and you pretty much are conveying to me "naw I'm not into you like that yet breh" I'm too old for that shyt. When I was a shorty it was always you need to go after the hard to get girls and as you age you realize thats setting yourself up for a lot of unneeded fukkery lol.

I've never met a girl who flat out doesn't like kissing. I'm glad cuz that would be so off putting to me, no offense.

No offense taken. :yeshrug:
 

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My thing is its enough easy lob pitches out here to reliably hit a home run though. Why fukk with women that are lukewarm to you? So many issues with women are solved when you fukking with a chick that is really into, why wouldn't you prefer that lol.

Some women need to be in relationships..
They will put out quickly and lay the "bait" for you so you can hopefully move as fast as possible while overlooking their red flags...

Their is a point where you cut bait on a female who you feel isnt worth it, but that's where the roster comes in
 
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And once again, this completely 100 percent fine and I respect them for it. I want the women who into me off jump thats it. Sure you can bring a womans attraction to you from a 5 to a 10. but why bother when its a myriad of women who view you as a 7 just looking at you and you at a 8 after date one? We should be working smarter not harder out chea.

If she needs to go on X amount of dates before she can display shes into me physically it aint gonna work because lord knows it is someone somewhere that will get the affection from her quickly. Its not me and thats fine but I'm also not bout to hang around to try to raise her attraction :ld:


You just looking for sex i get ur point

But lookin for a relationship ur strategy isnt good
 

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Threw ole girl into the bushes. Went out again and she was on some BS.

She just wanted attention....:yeshrug:

She talking bout she wants a husband and she aint tryna get intimate until she really knows a person.

Like breh...we too old to be playing these games. Like I had my hand up your dress. You knew from the jump where I was at.

Now you saying “maybe oneday”

Nahhh...I’m not tryna have my time wasted.

End of the day, it was my fault. I picked wrong and I wasn’t explicit in me wanting something casual. Dropping hints ain’t enough.

She probably knows you make good money and wanted to run "provider game"....
 

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She probably knows you make good money and wanted to run "provider game"....

Funny thing is she paid for the drinks this time. I think she just liked that I was pretty touchy feely with her. She wanted the attention in the mean timd.

Also, her friend just got married and she just turned 30 so she might have been feeling a certain type of way.

Again, my fault. I should have dictated the engagement from the jump.
 

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She probably knows you make good money and wanted to run "provider game"....

Funny thing is she paid for the drinks this time. I think she just liked that I was pretty touchy feely with her. She wanted the attention in the mean timd.

Also, her friend just got married and she just turned 30 so she might have been feeling a certain type of way.

Again, my fault. I should have dictated the engagement from the jump. This is 100% my fault.

Need to pick better.
 

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You just looking for sex i get ur point

But lookin for a relationship ur strategy isnt good

:mindblown:

You think if I was just looking to hit I'd give a fukk about kissing a girl?

explain

This works better for looking for a relationship than sex :mindblown: on this very page you said you don't even kiss women you just pipe cuz you can hit a woo wop with no kissing involved and I agree from personal experience.

You don't think a healthier relationship will come to fruition from a women who is absolutely into you with less effort than the one you have to work to raise it? So we really want to pass on the agreeable women for the non agreeable ones for relationships? I'm mad confused here make this shyt look right to me fam.
 

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Some women need to be in relationships..
They will put out quickly and lay the "bait" for you so you can hopefully move as fast as possible while overlooking their red flags...

Their is a point where you cut bait on a female who you feel isnt worth it, but that's where the roster comes in

thats what I'm saying. if you have multiple options why the fukk would you chase the ones that make it more difficult for you or don't convey similar levels of attraction? I don't even feel like I'm saying some off the wall shyt here tbh.
 
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:mindblown:

You think if I was just looking to hit I'd give a fukk about kissing a girl?

explain

This works better for looking for a relationship than sex :mindblown: on this very page you said you don't even kiss women you just pipe cuz you can hit a woo wop with no kissing involved and I agree from personal experience.

You don't think a healthier relationship will come to fruition from a women who is absolutely into you with less effort than the one you have to work to raise it? So we really want to pass on the agreeable women for the non agreeable ones for relationships? I'm mad confused here make this shyt look right to me fam.


U can pass up on good women cause they don't fuk u from jump.

Every relationship didnt start with the person being all ova them from first date.

Every woman diff
 

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U can pass up on good women cause they don't fuk u from jump.

Every relationship didnt start with the person being all ova them fron first date.

Every woman diff

bro who talking about fukking. I said a kiss fam, a kiss :pachaha:

I don't expect every woman to fukk me date one thats preposterous, and the logistics usually aren't set up right for that with a first date anyway.

As for the second part thats fine. But you a damn lie if you would prefer a woman playing coy with you over one that obviously wants you. Its a world of difference and the latter is infinitely easier to deal with. Thats all I'm saying. If you want to be a masochist and fukk with women that put time tables and qualifiers on their affection for you thats your choice. theres always gonna be someone that makes all that structure fly out the window anyway, and if it isn't you what are you toiling away for?
 

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This new hoe sent me these texts...what yall think?


So I'm not trying to waste anyone's time. We can go on a date or dates and if you're cool with me causally dating you and other people we can vibe. If you're not cool with that I understand that too. I'm just trying to see what's out there and meet cool people. It doesn't always have to end in a relationship. I'm a fantastic friend too. I'm still friends with one the guys I dated before. He wanted more but the vibe just wasn't there and it's chill.


Yeah but I'm not trying to do that either.The main reason I'm not trying to really dive into a relationship right now is because I'm just not emotionally available yet and whoever I'm seeing deserves to have that part of me too if we're trying to progress. Does that make sense?
 
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