Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sinnerman]

So the date went well, and I hit it

Better than that, I only spent $30.27

#pennypinchgang

 

[Balla]

@semicko82

What made no sense to me about your story was that she dropped you back home when y’all was going the same place. Makes no sense.

 

[Balla]

This new hoe sent me these texts...what yall think?


So I'm not trying to waste anyone's time. We can go on a date or dates and if you're cool with me causally dating you and other people we can vibe. If you're not cool with that I understand that too. I'm just trying to see what's out there and meet cool people. It doesn't always have to end in a relationship. I'm a fantastic friend too. I'm still friends with one the guys I dated before. He wanted more but the vibe just wasn't there and it's chill.


Yeah but I'm not trying to do that either.The main reason I'm not trying to really dive into a relationship right now is because I'm just not emotionally available yet and whoever I'm seeing deserves to have that part of me too if we're trying to progress. Does that make sense?

Seems pretty clear she just wants to fukk

 

[Balla]

I have yet to meet a girl that never wanted to kiss me.

I remember one chick said she would never kiss me.

We in da bed and she like “come here” I’m like “I thought you didn’t want to kiss me?” She talking about “I don’t remember saying that”.

Guess it’s just a game no matter what, I don’t believe what women say at all.

 

[Max.]

Seems pretty clear she just wants to fukk

She told me that she cuts dudes off that try(early on)...if a guy is tryna smash off the bat

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Went out with this brazilian chick last night cuz she hit me up randomly. Just talked never met up beforehand. Had some good convo, pretty. When I went for kiss tho got the I dont kiss on first date speel. Well thata dead dont need that type of energy in 2019. She wont kiss me on first date and thats coo its plenty who have and will. I could probs finesse the coo eventually but Im good lol.


Artsy redbone said shed like if I cooked for her so just waiting for schedule linking on that

I doubt that. nikkas lament the quality of women out there but want every girl to make everything easy and they never think that there might be a correlation between the two.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

The more I read this thread, the more I realize we’re overthinking things. No need to worry about things that aren’t in your control. Just present your best self. That is all you can do.

Fam if you understand how woman think and move you will understand its not as simple as that, it's deeper than that. Your 'best self' is subjective. Alot of the qualities you would consider best about you or what makes a great man many men have had in abundance and relationships have failed women have left and cheated not simply because simoly/just because he is a whore but because he never fully understood the levels.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Update : Me and stripper chick decided to go to the fair last night, and we decided to meet up her place. Her crib was playa made, that shyt was clean as hell. I was impressed but suspicious at the same time. I was drinking, so I asked could I just ride with her. By the way she drives this clean a$$ Audi, and that sinking feeling kicked in
We had a good time at the fair, so we decided to go to the bar afterwards. She dropped me back off at my car, and said she would meet me at the bar. I said "cool".
So I waited at the bar for a good 30 minutes before I called. She said "sorry I was at another bar, but I'll be there in 10 minutes.
20 minutes later I call back she doesn't answer.
I said fukk it, and bounced.
Few minutes later I saw she posted a video of her on Snapchat
So I called back and she sent me straight to voicemail
I text her" Why the fukk you ask me to meet up if didn't want to go, all you had to do was say you didn't want to go"
I fell asleep for a couple of hours, and when I woke up I saw she took pics on Snapchat at the bar we went supposed to meet up at.
I got a text message from her at 430 in the morning saying " I did go"
I wanted to cuss her a$$ smooth out, but I said fukk it and went back to sleep

@Silkk

nikkas told you about them strippers. These girls can no longer separate work from life, their work is their life therefore every man they meet is just a lick.

She don't see no difference between you and them nikkas throwing mad money at her just to see her dance and she believes all it takes is the right persuasion to get any man to become one of them nikkas.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Stop using logic to explain why girls act how they Act

This. What is Logically doesn't have any bearing on what a girl is ultimately gonna decide to do.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

Facts. My sis n me talk often and I was telling her about the date I was on earlier this week and how not getting kissed back is a deal breaker for me. Sees like maybe shes old fashioned, structured, etc and Im like thats even worse..who wants to be around a chick that puts abitrary timelines on shyt for YOU (cuz lord knows if it was someone with clout it would be diff) I tried to explain to her in several different ways how I need a easy chick (not a hoe mind you but a hoe for me) who can love freely.

Like there is chicka out there who just cant help themselves around you. Itd be like someone saying hey you can have this 1000 now for no nothing. Or I can make you for it for a few weeks and you have to do these tasks for it. Logically youd be crazy to take the latter but these women think we posed to court they ass or we respect them more for it lol. Also when does it end. Say u hit and you want some head. Oh I only do that after 6 months

Bushes

So much unrealistic shyt in this post breh.

 

[Balla]

She told me that she cuts dudes off that try(early on)...if a guy is tryna smash off the bat

Oh she one of those....

Those chicks always talk about that bullshyt.

“I just want to casually date”

You: “she wants to fukk”

Her: “I just want friends, nothing sexual”



It be like when girls be on apps and say they looking for friends but nothing sexual.

To me those girls seem like the ones that always wanna bullshyt.

I know chicks not gonna say outright they wanna fukk, but sometimes they try to bullshyt you.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

You just looking for sex i get ur point

But lookin for a relationship ur strategy isnt good

The thing is he said he doesn't want a hoe, but his strategy and everything he is saying will do nothing but catch hoes.

nikkas need to stop saying shyt like a want a girl who's a hoe for me, the exclusive hoe is mythical.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

thats what I'm saying. if you have multiple options why the fukk would you chase the ones that make it more difficult for you or don't convey similar levels of attraction? I don't even feel like I'm saying some off the wall shyt here tbh.

Your a rookie breh, that's the problem. Your logic and thinking is surface level.

 

[JOHN.KOOL]

This new hoe sent me these texts...what yall think?


So I'm not trying to waste anyone's time. We can go on a date or dates and if you're cool with me causally dating you and other people we can vibe. If you're not cool with that I understand that too. I'm just trying to see what's out there and meet cool people. It doesn't always have to end in a relationship. I'm a fantastic friend too. I'm still friends with one the guys I dated before. He wanted more but the vibe just wasn't there and it's chill.


Yeah but I'm not trying to do that either.The main reason I'm not trying to really dive into a relationship right now is because I'm just not emotionally available yet and whoever I'm seeing deserves to have that part of me too if we're trying to progress. Does that make sense?

nikka she's a hoe who has come up with this to rationalise her hoeing. All this bullshyt about not being 'emotionally avilable' is just how she twangs herself into being comfortable with being a hoe, and she tells you so you know what to expect and also hopefully you will buy into her shyt too and not just flat out call it as it is, she is being a hoe.

 

[Deafheaven]

The thing is he said he doesn't want a hoe, but his strategy and everything he is saying will do nothing but catch hoes.

nikkas need to stop saying shyt like a want a girl who's a hoe for me, the exclusive hoe is mythical.

You're right, any woman who shows physical attraction on the first date is a unrepentant home wrecking whore. I should court these women at least 9 dates with a dowry in tow before I even think of making my intentions I'm attracted sexually to them clear, that'll make sure shes not a hoe. heavens forbid if she tries to have sex with me, by golly I'd have to get rid of that hoe since only a a woman of no value would do such a thing. Is it 1883?

Your a rookie breh, that's the problem. Your logic and thinking is surface level.

If you think only unscrupulous women kiss or show they are interested on the first date that's pretty funny of you to call anyone else a rookie I know I'm opening myself to some emotional holier than thou "I'm the king bytch whisperer" reply cuz nikkas love to show they ass in here but w/e, spit your lick breh.