Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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I agree with what you said about modern day R and B but remember Kev that even old school Stylistics had a "Your A Good Girl Now" type of songs. I would be lying if i said that alot of the old school artists did not also have simpish songs.
But I guess like you said, today its just over the top. If its a female artist like Aaliyah or Amy Winehouse then its no issue for me because they are just expressing their feminine nature and its not unnatural for them unlike a grown 40 year old whining about his ex baby girl.
I do not think its a coincidence that people....specifically women talk about their nostalgia for "90s R and B" right? Because I think that was the decade when it seems like people were breaking records for simping. People talk about today, but I think its the 90s that had it out of control. Especially with artists like Babyface...
Look at all those hundreds of simpish songs from a male perspective that he wrote for females in that decade
As for the whole persona thing, it just seems like certain guys don't grow out of it. I mean I can understand having it as a theme for one album like Nas did with It was Written, and then having all of his follow ups more diverse and only putting the occasional lines. But then you got dudes like Ross and Too Short who seem to can't let it go and continue to live in some fantasy world.
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I still can't get over those Caribbean mothers telling their sons not to marry a "Yankee woman" and to make sure to marry their own kind.
Your the same as them!!!
This whole "marry a loyal Island Queen because she is loyal" nonsense needs to stop.
Your the same as them!!!
This whole "marry a loyal Island Queen because she is loyal" nonsense needs to stop.
I recommend all you guys read this post and some of her other articles on her site:
Modern Marriage « The Honest Courtesan
Modern Marriage « The Honest Courtesan
Very nice song Malta. I love instrumental joints, especially when I'm in a reflective mood. I love older rpgs for that reason. I'll add that song to my playlist.
This is a hauntingly beautiful one my friend put me on to a long time ago:
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyhi3K1ylCg"]"Bram Stoker's "Dracula"" - "Love Remembered (Track 7)" - Wojciech Kilar - YouTube[/ame]
LegendNas, there are definitely a lot of simpish behavior in some of these 'old school songs'. No doubt about it, but overall, the messages are much more realistic and the instrumentals and singing capability is on a completely different levell:
This is a hauntingly beautiful one my friend put me on to a long time ago:
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hyhi3K1ylCg"]"Bram Stoker's "Dracula"" - "Love Remembered (Track 7)" - Wojciech Kilar - YouTube[/ame]
LegendNas, there are definitely a lot of simpish behavior in some of these 'old school songs'. No doubt about it, but overall, the messages are much more realistic and the instrumentals and singing capability is on a completely different levell:
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Very dope, I have a few game soundtracks on my PC as well.
Some other things
[ame]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdSE8OWXsjs[/ame]
Check out Saeglopur as well, they make some great music to chill to.
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this is true on so many levels.
its so true i dated this one chick who was stuck on height. she's tall herself. so i dont blame her one bit for her height requirement. she's about an inch or two taller than me. lol. so being a girl, u can imagine how that would bother her.
we met up, fuccked, and she liked me. i knew from jump she was gon be hard to keep considering how important height is to her.
but i have to say, i noticed a dramatic difference in her when something happened. each time she came over my house, my phone would go off from text messages. she would get curious and would wanna see the texts. and i let her read them. i let her read because each one of those texts were favorable to me. they were from girls wanting me to come "hold them", or from exes saying "i hate you for what u did to me, but i miss u, but i hate you".
i knew the exact effect these types of texts would have on the girl i was seeing. so i let her see it. i must say, after she saw them, there was this gleam in her eyes. she felt proud to be fuccking this "prize" that everyone else seems to want.
there are many facts in life. having a lot of girls want u, or be seen with u is a sure way to get laid frequently <----- another fact of life!
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Tips I learned
1. When getting a woman's phone number,and she switches it around and says "No Let me have yours"
. Dont Pursue.9 times out of 10 she wont call.This is her way of running game.
2. When she says "You look familiar" this is a female's pickup line
3.When she says "What do you wanna do" or "where do you wanna sit",She is giving you the lead and wants you to lead her. Dont be passive aggressive and let her decide anything,this will come back and bite you.
4.Always switch it up on women. If you wore glasses everyday and one day you stop wearing them and she says "Where are your glasses",say i dont wear them all the time. Basically when a woman knows your pattern thats a bad sign,always throw them off.No one should know you your every move,every characteristic etc
1. When getting a woman's phone number,and she switches it around and says "No Let me have yours"
. Dont Pursue.9 times out of 10 she wont call.This is her way of running game.2. When she says "You look familiar" this is a female's pickup line
3.When she says "What do you wanna do" or "where do you wanna sit",She is giving you the lead and wants you to lead her. Dont be passive aggressive and let her decide anything,this will come back and bite you.
4.Always switch it up on women. If you wore glasses everyday and one day you stop wearing them and she says "Where are your glasses",say i dont wear them all the time. Basically when a woman knows your pattern thats a bad sign,always throw them off.No one should know you your every move,every characteristic etc
good looking out man, never heard of these before. always great to expand my musical horizons. I'm a music fiend.. spent more than I would like to say on my sound system.
this is a badddd performance
[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6AFq6oDHoLU&feature=share&list=PLE66C03895365487B"]Melodies Of Loveã/ The Crusaders ã¡ã*ãã£ã¼ãºã»ãªãã»ã©ã - YouTube[/ame]
This is an amazing jazz instrumental that i have always loved
Actually whether or not you are into shows like that, you should check out some of the other themes/instrumentals from that show on Youtube.
I mean every single one of them are amazing. Would rather listen to them hundreds of times a day instead of what is out there today.
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CO sign. People don't want you to prosper in any way. You don't know how much people hated me since I no longer was a simp. A lot of these books are selling you pieces of info to make you think you have it all, when they sell less than 1% of the info that can make a difference in ya life. Like you said about music, you wont believe how many people lost their lives cause of that imagery that people tried to live out. Truly a disgusting world of hustlers we live in.
CrossBones
Louder than words
the illusion of "success" is dictated by and entirely up to the individual person. we have envious men and women, who instead of overcoming their personal problems, use their time and energy to get over on the next person. nevermind getting their own, they always want whats yours. they use deception to find certain people with "something" more than them, con them and use them. just out right play them as a sucker.
on the other side, some people make much more than the common struggling man, and live in comfort. yet they cant find happiness in their own lives since they arent considered "rich." always trying to one up their friends or social circle. never happy with what theyve got. then we have multi millionaires who have to go out of their way spending larger amounts of money in order to show off their wealth, convincing others and themselves that theyre doing it big. and all while still never giving up the chase for more cash by any means, just so that they can do it over and over again. the greed never ends so theyre never happy with what they have.
we have playboy stars marrying, divorcing, marrying and divorcing again, over and over due to their own infedelity. as if theres never enough p*ssy for them. they cant control themselves from the lust.
we have world leaders, drunk with power and plagued by hate, that no matter what fortunes he gets or how many people are at his command, or how many lands conquered he desires to spread his power out to hurt even more. they use any excuse, from faith, money, or history to use their power to destory the next mans life.
so at what point is all this money, women, quest for stability, or power enough to make a person happy?
greed, jealousy/envy, lust, and hatred all distort our ideas of what "success" is supposed to be. these appetites when uncontrolled, can consume a person. lead them to self-sabotauge and an unfulfilled life. and its all from a fear that they cant get enough, or prove to themselves that there is a line where they can be satisfied. these are all traps that we should try to avoid. in fact, we do try to school ourselves from this. through experience, books, family, friends, our environment and even in this very thread. because ultimately, not knowing where, or at what point your personal "success" lies, will lead to never ending confusion. that evil makes us try to live off of the next mans script and find happiness in it. in reality, that never ending chase comes from deeper issues that people have within themselves. its what happens when we dont conquer our inner fears.
so as far as knowing that we can be influenced by harmful messages in music, or in life in general ... I cant really hate on people telling others to envision what success looks like for them. yeah, self help books tend to be remixed, rehashed beliefs from ancient times and older cultures, and then sometimes mixed with varying degrees of modern outlooks. I find that ultimately, knowledge and wisdom should be about teaching people to find salvation from living on a positive path. not one driven by hate or whatever. and to overcome it by looking for success instead of struggle. to live like youre at your desired level, and not below it
at its best, its reverse programming, a break from the four devils. at its worst, it sells people lies about chasing a life filled with more devils. all power does that. so its a weapon. only when its not rooted in evil can it bring forth a good outcome for the person.
I dont think that everyone needs to be filthy rich to have a happy life... and with a wife, kids and a small national army at their command. that can be overkill and harmfully intoxicating for many people. its not for everybody. so thats why dictating ones own success has to be a healthy, authentic, personal desire that follows its own road.
This is different, and he sings but I've been listening to Andrew Bird the last few weeks. I love when people can play multiple instruments like that, record the track and play over it while it's going in the background, all live.
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