Nah. I don’t mean exciting that way. So the advice I’m going to give you only applies to women under 25, that are immature and unstable—which a lot are lol.
When I say be unpredictable and exciting I mean putting her through an emotional roller coaster in a sense. When I was younger I used to intentionally play mind games with brehs. One day be all over them, get them thinking I’m feeling them so much, get them feeling like they just may have got me..... then I go cold. Won’t hear from me for a couple of days, and when they do, I’m detached. They don’t know what the fukk happened. Or I never fully let a breh know the extent of how I feel—that insecurity does a number to the ego, especially if they’re used to females being all over them. The trick is balance. Every week you can’t be on that. But every now and then, right when they’re getting comfortable, you gotta bring out that insecurity.
Make sure your time is always full of hobbies, do you, and like I said sometimes be available, sometimes unavailable, etc. initially, to make this work right though, you have to sweep them off their feet a little. Get them interested in you. That’s where exciting dates can help. Find out what she’s never done and take her there. Do fun activity dates, zip lining, Rock climbing, go kart racing, skating, etc. shyt that makes time go bye and is fun. Don’t tell her too much about yourself, just enough. Don’t hit her up too much. But you usually get a feeling when a female starts liking you and then that’s when the games start. Don’t overdo it with the games though. The key is to make them feel like they don’t ever have you the way they think they do.
And again this only applies to young, mentally unstable females. Secure females won’t put up with it, but they are also less likely to complain about someone being boring yet continues dating him.
she used to say “I love you, but sometimes you can be boring.”
heard it from another chick in high school too way back in the day
