Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

semicko82

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Well why didn't you say that when you asked tht boring question?

It's pretty obvious why an alcoholic chick would think that a non alcoholic man is boring:stopitslime:
I'm a drinker and party guy, so when she was calling me boring it was throwing me for a loop. It all makes sense now in hindsight.
 

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Have you been physically intimate with either of these women bro? My "girlfriend" is already giving me bad vibes. I think I'ma just ghost her. :snoop:
You can’t ghost a girlfriend. Can you ghost a girlfriend?

I’m asking for a friend.
 

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Nah. I don’t mean exciting that way. So the advice I’m going to give you only applies to women under 25, that are immature and unstable—which a lot are lol.

When I say be unpredictable and exciting I mean putting her through an emotional roller coaster in a sense. When I was younger I used to intentionally play mind games with brehs. One day be all over them, get them thinking I’m feeling them so much, get them feeling like they just may have got me..... then I go cold. Won’t hear from me for a couple of days, and when they do, I’m detached. They don’t know what the fukk happened. Or I never fully let a breh know the extent of how I feel—that insecurity does a number to the ego, especially if they’re used to females being all over them. The trick is balance. Every week you can’t be on that. But every now and then, right when they’re getting comfortable, you gotta bring out that insecurity.

Make sure your time is always full of hobbies, do you, and like I said sometimes be available, sometimes unavailable, etc. initially, to make this work right though, you have to sweep them off their feet a little. Get them interested in you. That’s where exciting dates can help. Find out what she’s never done and take her there. Do fun activity dates, zip lining, Rock climbing, go kart racing, skating, etc. shyt that makes time go bye and is fun. Don’t tell her too much about yourself, just enough. Don’t hit her up too much. But you usually get a feeling when a female starts liking you and then that’s when the games start. Don’t overdo it with the games though. The key is to make them feel like they don’t ever have you the way they think they do.


And again this only applies to young, mentally unstable females. Secure females won’t put up with it, but they are also less likely to complain about someone being boring yet continues dating him.:yeshrug:
You speaking game:

Which is why alot of brehs speak about purpose.

You naturally be so busy with other shyt you really don't care about entertaining a chick every day.

Sucks for the brehs who are good nurturing types by nature but gotta adapt to society:manny:

With young/immature women they love the emotional rollercoasters you're right:mjgrin:

Tbh not even immature women...I had an older pawg who was . when I finally hit her up after a week absence because I was in jail....I was gettinf attention from all types of women, put her on the backburner and she was chasing a breh..treating me like a King.
 

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I'm a drinker and party guy, so when she was calling me boring it was throwing me for a loop. It all makes sense now in hindsight.

You dont have to be a drinker, but you gotta push the envelope energy wise..:francis:

I used to get kinda upset when I was told I had to break outta my shell, but they were right...

You gotta reevaluate yaself and if what your doing is constructive/destructive to your goals
 

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You dont have to be a drinker, but you gotta push the envelope energy wise..:francis:

I used to get kinda upset when I was told I had to break outta my shell, but they were right...

You gotta reevaluate yaself and if what your doing is constructive/destructive to your goals
That's the thing with this particular chick, when I would try to suggest different things to do she would shoot them down and always want to go to the bar
 

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Movies, restaurants, casinos. All she wanted to do was hang with her friends and drink

Off the rip..I'm not gonna say it's your fault because she might just be incompatible with you..

The younger they are, the more shallow you have to be...

You gotta take em to the club and wear em out...

Dates have to be high energy

Basically act single while trying to get with her..

The only time restuarant and movie dates work is after you have some sort of relationship...
 

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Off the rip..I'm not gonna say it's your fault because she might just be incompatible with you..

The younger they are, the more shallow you have to be...

You gotta take em to the club and wear em out...

Dates have to be high energy

Basically act single while trying to get with her..

The only time restuarant and movie dates work is after you have some sort of relationship...
Real shyt
 
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